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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He 4 years younger, we're workmates and dating. He won't commit-I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - The guy I'm interested in is younger than me. We've worked together for two years, but since he's four years younger than me I never really thought of him in a romantic way. We've hung out a lot since the beginning of the school year (we're both in college), and eventually the ... (391 words)

I'm confused! His sister hates me but she was the one who got us together, in the first place!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - im going out with my best mates brother who is three years younger than me, the first 2months my best mate (his sister) was happy for us (she's the one who got us together), then she changed and turned against me, calling me horrible names, she said she was going to split us up ... (311 words)

He has a history of dumping past gf's-am I next in line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Help!! I can't tell if I'm making the biggest mistake of my life. After the most amazing six month relationship during a semester abroad, my boyfriend and I decided to try the long distance thing while I returned to the states to finish my schooling. I'm headed back in two ... (313 words)

She's in a different school and I like her...any ideas on how to get to know her better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - There is a girl i met today who I have really taken a fancy to and would like to get to know her better, thing is im in Y11 and shes in Y9 at a different school. How? And wouldnt my friends would take the mick if she went out with me?... (52 words)

Help The gf dumped me and she hurt me. I'm over her,now and she wants back in my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - Over a month ago, my ex-girlfriend broke my heart by flirting lots with another guy and dumping me for him. In this time, with the help of a really close friend, I have been able to get over her. I started becoming very attracted to this friend that helped me, and the two of us ... (226 words)

Married with Children but in love with a friend...is it worth my marriage to be with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - im married with two children but im in love with a friend of mine, im sure he would be with me too if i wasnt married and had my life sorted. i just dont no what to do i want to be with him so much. but is it worth losing my marrage?... (53 words)

Best friends before...but he asked me out and we hardly talk anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - We were best friends, and when he asked me out and i said yes, we hardly talk....why? ... (17 words)

He won't do follow-ups on possible jobs and he blows his money! I get frustrated..am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 18. We've known each other for almost 3 years and been dating for almost 2 months...(yeah not long...I know) I guess I'm wondering if I am just bitchy or if these are logical problems...I moved in with him due to a lease expire..so I am ... (180 words)

I agreed to go out with him...now he barely talks to me! Why is that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really like this guy in my school. We are not in any of the same classes except for one. He asked me out, and I said yes to him, not because everyone else had boyfriends, but because I really liked him. Before I knew that he like me we were plain friends an... (94 words)

My ex is available again and I still care-do I let the current bf go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Hi there, I met a guy 4 months ago. I've known him for a while, I'm having a nice time with him. We live about 2 and a half hours away from each other, but we try to meet at weekends. In the beginning, I was quite excited, however I did kiss a couple of guys within the first... (277 words)

I need advice on what type of flowers to buy for a first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - What kind of flowers should I buy for a first date? I've never bought flowers for a girl before but this time, I want to but have no idea what to get!... (32 words)

We have a son but I no longer love him...I feel stuck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - I dont know what to do. I am not longer in love with my partner. We have a 3 year old son together. I haven't cheated or anything like that but I am definitely finding myself attracted to other people. We had our son very early in our relationship and have no help at all from ... (121 words)

Don't love my bf..should I break up with him again.. after just getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6952 days ago

5 December 2005 (F)

- (to those who have read my other entry will almost certainly roll their eyes when they read this...) i got back with my boyfriend after splitting for a week and i was happy at first, now ive met a guy who i have really clicked with.i have realised that i am in lust with my ... (183 words)

My chatroom romance is turning out to be a chatroom dud! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - hi, my problem starts when i met this guy in a chatroom which i frequent often, however after chatting a couple of times,things were starting to change, and we started to connect, of course he told me these feelings will get more serious,which it did. everything was going ... (221 words)

We've talked about marriage but he's so lazy and unmotivated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's 25, just graduated from college, and I'm 22, still in college. Most of our relationship he hasn't had a job. He lives off of his savings. He just lays around and goes fishing all the time. He doesn't seem ... (146 words)

I love him and want a good relationship...but he's simply not interested in sex. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - I think I've tried all that I can but my relationship just doesn't seem to be working. It's really complicated because there seems to be so much wrong with it. He hardly touches me any more, he used to be so affectionate for the first year we were together but now he pushes me ... (370 words)

He's in Iraq and I can't contact him just whenever I want...it's so hard.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6930 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - ok. i have a boyfriend that is in the marine corps. he has been over in iraq for a little over a month now, and it has been the hardest month of my life. i have a question for anyone thats been in a long-distance relationship with the circumstances of not being able to even ... (77 words)

I have this strange lump on my genital area-and I'm embarrassed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, This isn't especially a question about sex, but I'm really worried about my 'body' and could use some reassurance. Well, about two weeks ago, I noticed a lump between my anus and my vagina. I was pretty freaked out so I had a look on the internet and found inform... (247 words)

He's changed for the worst...since he moved away-should I hang in there or just end this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6950 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - hi my boyfriend of 3years moved to a new city 1 1/2 yr ago,since then things have changed dramatically between us, because of his job he never visit me but on the other hand i visited him 3 times in 1 year and now living 30 minutes away from him but only get to see him like 2 t... (195 words)

We're engaged, but he really gets on my nerves. How do I tell him...I'm no longer interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - I’m so confused on what to do. Okay, I have been together with this guy for over two years. We are ten years apart (I’m 22 and he is 32). We just got engaged when he moved 1,400 miles away from me. I don’t think I am ready to marry him. I am having doubts about wanting to be ... (108 words)

I was a virgin and I held out until he got what he wanted from me..now he treats me like dirt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - pls i really need help dont know what to do. am really depressed.i am 21yrs old and my bf is 24yrs. we met two yrs ago. in the early yr in our reltionship he was persuading me to have sex with him and explained to him that i am still a virgin and would like to wait until we are ... (312 words)

When I meet someone-at first, I can't get enough of them...then I get bored too fast and they turn me off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - I meet someone and all of a sudden I just cant live without seeing and talking to them everyday. It lasts until they start to bore me or somehow just turn me off. But usually its when they start to get to close to me and I just dont want them in my shell. Dont want to burn my ... (94 words)

She has a boyfriend but kissed me...what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - Hello basicly I was seeing this girl in the summer around 4-5 months ago I realy liked her even though I only saw her for a short period of time . She has a boyfriend now of 4-5 months but i have kept in contact with her and on more than one occasion told her i still like her, ... (94 words)

Why is my friend acting this way over my new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Four years ago, my best friend told me he was in love with me. I loved him, and told him so, which was wrong as he was in a relationship with a friend of mine from school. A male friend! I told him to stay with my friend as there was nothing that could happen between us, but ... (332 words)

I'm confused as to what he wants...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of two yrs left me at home for the whole weekend. We had a fight and didn't talk for two weeks. He called me and said we must talk. I went to his place but he did again. When he got home he found that i took all my belongings and left his that he gave me. He called ... (83 words)

Can I trust him??Or Should I leave now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - To Mr Dream master.. continued from previous question. wow what a great answer you gave me. so i thought id thank you through this. Since my question me and my partner have chatted.and i think i need to add a bit more. i've almost always been cheated on from my past relation... (486 words)

How can I tell what I feel for my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6928 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - i have been with my husband for 15 years and married for 11 of them. for a long time i wasn't sure what i was feeling but lately i am not sure if i still love him or not but am not sure. there is no hatred or malice just no feelings any more. how can i tell.... (58 words)

Why do I lose my erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - im a 20 year old male and i am pretty much a virgin. i have a new girlfriend and we have tried to have sex twice on seperate occasions. i get an erection while we mess around but its not constant. i cant get it in her, so she does it..as soon as she tries it, i feel like i ... (117 words)

Seems like my girlfriend is trying to please her exes, rather than pleasing herself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - I have been seeing this women for a couple of months now. She told me right away that she is friends with a couple of her old boyfriends and I was comfortable with that. She also told me what happened to her as a child. About one month and half passed by and things are taki... (266 words)

I went too far in my sexual exploration and now my girlfriend says she's lost trust in me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - Ok so tonight I was in a horny mood and it was overwhelming me. My g/f, who I dearly love and plan to marry, wasn't really in the mood. We were sitting there and I started kissing and licking at her stomach and then began to move up to her breasts. I didn't ask permission ... (277 words)

I'd rather hug and kiss girls than have sex with them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 19 and still a virgin. I realise that I am not a sex-driven male. I am really attracted to girls, think about them all the time but am more of a hug and kiss guy. Is it normal for some guys to be like this.. or is it just me? Help... (55 words)

Will the hormones in the Pill affect my body development?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Hello everyone! I am new here and this is my first post. I am trying to find out more about estrogen and testosterone a still changing body. I am mature for my age (I am 15 in May) and have the biggest boobs in my year, (I get quite a lot of silly comments at school and me... (208 words)

I want to believe that my boyfriend was so drunk he didn't know he was cheating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Recently, my boyfriend got really drunk and cheated with a close friend of mine while I was away, out of town. She wanted them to not tell me but he couldn't bear it and told me a few days after I got back. He says he was so drunk he didn't know what he was doing and now that... (152 words)

We plan to marry...but the way he treats me, is creating huge doubts in me. Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - hi, i am female of 27yrs and my boyfriend is 29. we have been together for 4 yrs now but i cant take anymore. he does things to me and tells me he is only joking. for instance he shows me intimate text messages from ladies and when i get angry with him he says he is only ... (296 words)