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How is my boyfriend going to know when he hits the right spot during sex?

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Question - (30 December 2005) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2006)
A female , *1sheaba writes:

I have a great boyfriend that has been able to make me orgasm everytime manually. Now we're finally starting to have intercourse so how can he do it now? I know he has to find my spot, but how and when he does, how does he keep hitting it? He's willing to do whatever, but where do we start? with luv, and thanks

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (4 January 2006):

mystify agony auntthe best way to do this to get on top and find it yourself, but when hes in control it dosent have to just be your g spot, remember that your clit is a sure bet every time and men playing with your nipples can set women off, but when hes getting it right you dont have to stop and tell him "oh just there , no back how you doing it before, to the left" just carry on and make the noises to show he is getting it right, with that and the way your body moves and responds hell know and love it so much that hell be the one that wants to keep going back to how you enjoy it best.

also there are lots of books you can buy that have just about every tip going in them so you are bound to find one that works for the both of you

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A male reader, pzeller +, writes (30 December 2005):

pzeller agony auntFrom a male's perspective, Tinkz is right. Tell him. Not to say we can't tell, but just tell him. Trust me, you'll both be happier.

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A female reader, past2 +, writes (30 December 2005):

By the look on your face, by the sound of your voice, and by the whole body expression. He'll know!!!

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A female reader, Tinkz South Africa +, writes (30 December 2005):

Tinkz agony auntWell, Firstly well done to your man for getting it right manually all the time, i wish mine could do that.

But like mommy0fthree says, every women is different and like the saying goes, different strokes for different folks!

The only way he will know is if you tell him! While you are having intercourse tell him what you want how you want it, but say is softly, whisper in his ear, firstly it will tell him what you want and secondly men are sensitive behind their ears, so the warmth will from your breath will make him want you more!

Take it slow, that way you can both feel whats good and whats not.

GOOD LUCK

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A female reader, mommyofthree +, writes (30 December 2005):

mommyofthree agony auntWell, you may be a bit dissapointed but I do not know of any man that continually rubs the g-spot during intercurse. There are a few positions that make him hit it more often but I don't believe that sex is always about that one spot. There are many ways for him to satisfy you, and since each woman is diferent it is up to you to figure them out. This is part of the fun, learning what makes you feel good. As far as knowing when he is doing something right, you will be letting him know either by saying it or with your body movements. Open communication is very important during all of this, you both need to feel comfortable enough to tell each other when there is something you do or don't like. Be safe and use protection and ofcourse have fun!

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