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writes: i need to get into another relationship, but the fear of slippery in my first one is hindering my progress.how do i go about it? how do i get a perfect match cos i have a tender heart. and how am i going to get her if i found any worthy by appearance? finally, whic techniques are most likely to impress her to understand that i feel for her. plz help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, AgonyAuntsonEBAY +, writes (3 January 2006):
 Hi Isaac.
When one of my past relationships ended, I found it helpful to write down everything about it - what was good and what wasn't and most important of all was what I learned from it.
From experience, if you go looking for a relationship, you won't find it. Desperation isn't attractive as I was once told by someone I was desperate to have a relationship with!
Let your tender heart heal and learn to smile at people and be yourself. Talk to men and women, make friends.
It will work out for you. X
PS Chatting to women on dating site is good practice and you never know who you might meet!
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reader, pzeller +, writes (30 December 2005):
 First of all, your first sentence starts with "i need". This is a problem. You might want to find hobbies, be single, become comfortable with yourself, and wait on the relationship until you start the sentence with "I want".
Secondly, life is full of risks and slip-ups. We learn from our mistakes. If you never risk a fall, you never learn to ride a bike. Don't try to be perfect, just learn from mistakes that you make - this can make you a stronger person.
Finally, in answer to your final question. Impress her by being yourself 100% honestly. If this doesn't impress her, she isn't your "perfect match" anyway.
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