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writes: HI all!Ok i completely screwed up over xmas, temptation got the better of me and i went with someone i shouldnt have, basically because we work together and he's more or less me boss and married. When we got together that night i told him to come into work this week. Ive been in work the past couple of days and he phoned to say he may come in and asked me to ring him back about some stuff he wanted me to look into, i said i didnt have his number (but he knows i do)and he said he would come in the day after. He didnt. So today he called in to get some papers. He had no reason to do this as it could have waited until next week! Anyhow to cut a long story short, i didnt get to see him and i dont know whether that was a good thing or not. Am I bein paranoid in thinking he was avoiding me? I know nothing can happen between us anyway, he's older and spoken for but i want to be able to get back to normal and wanted to see him before everyone else came back to work. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2005): Has it occured to you that he isnt even thinking about you. (although he may vaguely remember some loose woman he had cheated on his wife with). He's scum, youve just got low self esteem. get over yourself, admit your pathetic mistake, phone his poor wife so she can know what a loser she is married to and get on with your life...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): yes, you are being paranoid. no, you should not continue "seeing" this man as it will only end in trouble. try to resume your relationship as it was before as soon as possible or things are only going to get worse for you.
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