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writes: My boyfriend is sooo annoying.... My boyfriend has a bad temper and when we get into arguments he wants to talk right away and i need my space. When i don't talk to him he will say things like, "Great, my own girlfriend doesn't even want to talk to me" and he will like hum and make noises just to get my attention. The other night he wanted a hug and i was in a bad mood coz he couldn't fall asleep and he was taking a fit. he kept rolling around on the bed and he actually did an arch with his body (you know when little kids can't have their own way!!) I told him that this was so childish but he doens't seem to get it? do i just settle? or can I do something to make him stop! I told him if I wanted to date a little kid, I would just date my nephew but he takes everythign little thing i say sooo offensive! Oh yeah, and another thing, if we argue on the phone he wil constantly call me and leave messages. He will keep calling until I answer. He also yells at me on the street and totally makes me feel so dumb? i tell him to stop, but I feel like you shouldn't change a person you want to be with..Also we argue about SEX!! can you believ it, SEX! what do I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
I cannot imagine anything more annoying than someone who clams up after an argument. I don't blame the chap for wanting to talk. The immature one is the one who stops talking! Start talking or keep walking.
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reader, candice001 +, writes (20 December 2005):
OMG. Do we have the same BF? JK. My BF is the same way.
You mentioned phone calls. We had a disagreement this past weekend and he called me and this is no joke 130 times in 3 hours and came by twice. The next day he did it again. That is beyond childish. He has only been that excessive a couple times b-4 like that. He does it a lot though.
He says the same thing that you said your BF says "Great my own gf doesnt even want to talk to me."
To try to answer your questions. I dont think you can make him stop he is what he is and either you need to except who is and know that when you disagree this what you are willing to go through or leave.
Believe me when I say it only gets worse.
He most likely does not get it and never will.
My bf is 43 and knows damn well what he is doing and I have tried to stop it for 3.5 years. What I come to realize is he will never change. I believe them to be products of their environment.
If you and I want to be mothers to these men then they are good fits.
I want a man, so after this past weekend I sent him packing. Enough is enough!
Hope this helps. Good Luck!!
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reader, Jami_23 +, writes (20 December 2005):
Trust Me girl! Dump him, He wont change! I had one like that and it took me eight years to get out! Do It Now!
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