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writes: he makes constant eye contact with me and its not just a stare, its like a real flirty sort of dreamy look, when we go out he makes an effort to laugh at my jokes, touch me, and generally be close to me, he tickles my feet and stuff, all i need to know is, do you think he fancies me? i know deep down that he is flirting but does that really mean that he fancies me? he is driving me crazy! i guess i think he is too good for me or something. I mean, he is absolutely gorgeous in every way, he is just stunning, i am very attractive face wise but i have put on a bit of weight lately and my confidence isnt as high as it usually is. I have only gone up one dress size, from a 10 to a 12 but thats enough to lose my self confidence! i am sure that he likes me but i dont want to ask him, is there any other way that you can suggest to get his attention and to get him to admit that he fancies me, or atleast be a bit more forward about it? i mean, i know that tickling someones feet is a sure fire sign that they are flirting but i would rather that he came to me and said that he fancies me that me telling him, afterall, i will only get hurt if it turns out the wrong way. If not, then is there any other way that i can get more of his attention? he really has done something to me, i havent felt like this since i was about 16! i enjoy the flirting and i enjoy knowing that he is my friend but i cant stop thinking about him, ive got it bad. All i need to know is where do i go from here and what should my next step be? thanks so much for your time
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): Lol. don't assume his tickling your feet is a "red light", it can be flirting but it can also just be teasing and a bit of fun. My brother tickles mine loads but i don't think we're going to be dating or anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2005): Well, from your posting..it seems like he really likes you, dear. Smile, laugh, talk and have fun with guy and see where it goes..but go slow. In your shoes I would begin by letting him know that you really enjoy him and that he is an important friend to you. Dating requires honesty and risk. Also,listen to what others say about the character of this fellow. If he's a player and no one can stand him, then you have your answer. He's not the guy for you. But if he's a good guy,,then I say..go for it, hun. Just take this time to discern "what makes him really tick" Watch and Listen carefully. Good luck
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Ok here we go. First things first is your right about ending up the way you think. Let's just try this one on. What if you let the relationship go where it goes instead of you putting your thoughts and ideas where you think they need to go and not where they actually belong. Have fun with this guy and see what happens. If you didn't have all those expectations then you wouldn't actually get so wrapped up in what you want and what he thinks. My fiancee tells me all the time she needs to lose weight. Guess what 90% of all americans or 65% of the world need to lose weight so "hunny" welcome to the world of medicine. Your a size 12 well in my book that means your just about right to me. Your self confidence is YOUR HEAD not mine and hopefully he will see that too or maybe your just to thin for him. However, your the one with the expectations and not the real truth about how he feels. The other thing is that flirting is really good for your self confidence because we all have been there when NOONE was available to flirt with us. So what is he really saying. NOTHING! what he said was "HEY" I think I'll tickle her feet and have some innocent fun with her, if I actually like her I will see where this goes. YOU on the other hand are trying to make a big deal out of your ego and your letting your mind get away from you. Just tickle him back if YOU feel like it. Stare back in hopless romanticizm if you want to and ride this FUN for all you get. Somedays I wish my fiancee would just be playful with me and stare at me. Guess what she does! Doesn't mean she wants anything other than to be herself. By the way ladies if a man tickles your feet it is definately a sign he's interested but he doesn't really know what to do. It's just that tickling feet is usually harmless and not really crossing the line to women. GOOD LUCK.
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