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writes: Hiya i have been going out with my girlfriend now for nearly 5 months. I really do love her but her insecurity and paranoia drives me crazy and it has triggered arguments between us. It is frustrating to go out with someone like this as i feel that she doesnt always trust me! I have talked to her about it so she does know that i know she is these things. Any advice to improve on these terms?
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reader, mystify +, writes (31 December 2005):
 hi ,
i have a relationship like this with my fella, (me being like your girlfriend) , in our relationship i am like this because of a trust issue, i have found him lying to me about things alot, and wont fess up unless i have it written in black and white. the one thing that would stop my insecuities he made things clearer to me, was more open. but little reasurrance and often, helps nip the full blown rows in the bud.
ooooo and GENUINE little romantic gestures always make a girl feel more secure and loved
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
I wonder what it is about you that makes her feel like this? Do you have wandering eyes? Do you comment on other women? What is your love life like? There is something not right about your relationship with her that is making her feel insecure. Find that out and the problem will be solved. Good luck.
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reader, Suzie Q +, writes (21 December 2005):
Hi there,
I think the question you need to ask is 'Why?'. There must be a reason why she is so insecure and paranoid - probably caused by a previous relationship. You need to understand why she is how she is - and then show her that you are not like that. Over time she will hopefully be able to believe you - but if you really love her you need to be patient for now and try to understand the reasons behind her behaviour.
Hope that helps!
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