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writes: hi im 16 going on 17 and i am with this guy. i am very close to him and i think its time for us to get a little more sexual.i have never really expierienced a lads body before and i dont really know my way arround.my main question is what is sex like?i am ready to have sex. but the only thing that is putting me off are all these horrible stories my mates tell me and im dreading them happening to me.it would help if when you answerd if you did it in detale as i really dont know anything at all about this. in school i even missed out on all the sex education so i dont even know the basics!!! lolthanx it would be great to here from you.preferably before christmas as im hoping to give my bf a pleasurable present in time for the new year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2005): a havnt had sex yet but feel i m redy to, but both me and my boyfried are shy and nevr had sex plus i havnt even started my periods yet so wot will happen if i had sex and i also feel uncumfertible because i hve a dngly bit hanging off 1 lip of my vigina
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2005): After reading one of the responses, I have one important thing to say. Do NOT have him wear more than one condom. They may rub together and break. It is very important to wear one, but only one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2005): Hey babe, calm yourself. You don't have to have sex you know. However if you feel ready to, then here is my advice.First off, you need to take the precautions. There are many different STI's (Sexually Transmitted diseases)that you can get, so my advice would be to use a condom, speak to a chemist, or a GP who can give you more advice on STI's. Don't feel nervous, they've seen and heard it all before.When you come to have sex, you will be worried, but everyone has to have a first time at something, or you'll never do it. Sex is a natural part of human life, so when you get there, it will probably come naturally to you anyway.When you take your clothes off, your boyfriends penis will become erect, which means all the blood rushes to the penis, making it hard, to allow you to have sex. When you get into the bed, his penis will enter the hole in your vagina, and this is sex. Just take it slowly and enjoy it, he's probably just as nervous as you are, so just keep calm. The more you do it, the more fun it will get, and the more relaxed you will become.Please, please, please see a chemist or GP before you do though, who can give you more advice on STI's and their effects. She/he can also tell you about the condoms, other ways to stop transmitting these diseases and getting yourself pregnant.Good luck babe, merry christmas! Lol, XXXX.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Hmmm.... Ok let's just say this first and foremost. Sex is the best thing ever IF AND ONLY IF 20 conditions are met. So maybe you had better think 3 or 4 more times before commiting to it. Experience doesn't make you a good lover. Trusting your partner is number 1. Age is definately a factor. True love makes it really good. The car,nor alley is not a good place. Fear of getting caught only complicates matters. Drinking or druging is not permissable. Understanding that this may go wrong is 90% of understanding. Wanting to give someone pleasure is very cool. Getting pregnant without wanting it is not. Is this really what I want and not what people tell me too is definately first and foremost. Compassion for the other is a must. NO means NO. Exploring alternatives is the only way to go until YOUR ready. Your friends do not live in your body and will NOT be their for you to help you, so their horror stories are theirs. The first time you will NEVER forget. Condoms are a MUST (in fact have him wear 3 if he doesn't DON'T). You better talk about the whole thing seriously and each others role before you do it. Communication in a relationship is the best. Talk about where, when, how, and why before you agree to it(this way there are no suprises). Be understanding if it's not right then it will not happen. Don't rush anything. But, above all if you really want it to happen then wait, wait and really wait some more until it's absolutely right. You will definately know when it's right. Happy holidays. Ed
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