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writes: Hi cupid, I hope you can help with a question i have. I have been with my girlfriend for 7months now. I am 25 and with my first love and she is 21 and graduating college. A month ago i had to go back to ireland becaues of my visa. I plan on going back in March 06. She had planned to come over for a visit for christmas. She called me a week before she is due to come to tell me that she has gotten used to me not being around and her feelings have changed and that she is worried things will not be the same as when i left her when she visits. She said she doesnt want to hurt me by coming and that its best that we remain at a distance for her and my sake. However i called her and said that she can still come over as a friend blah blah and that she made plans and should follow through with them. I wasnt pushy about it at all and was putting it to her. She called back and said if i want her to still go she will come but have no expectations about the visit. I said to her not to worry so much and if there is still romance there thats great and if not well so be it. Is she leading me along? What should i expect? Is she worrying about things that may not happen? She said she is still in love with me. I am keeping an open mind about things. Please help this girl really has me confused. i have to give her an answer TONITE!ap
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (22 December 2005):
 The best thing i can say is, Let her go if she comes back to it was meant to be if not then it never was.
I'm not saying stop loving her, cause i know its easier said than done but try to move on, go out with friends, make new friends, try to take your mind off of her.
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