He claims he was setting his friend up on a date...but was the girl on the phone really HIS date?

My husband and I have been married for 7 months and I think he may be cheating on me. He's been text messaging a lot (with his friends, he claims) and the other night when his phone rang, he checked to see who it was before taking the call in another room. After he fell asleep I went into his phone and saw that he had been talking/text messaging with a girl he's never mentioned. When I confronted him about it he said it was a girl that he's trying to set up with one of his friends. He has never mentioned this either. Why was this such a big secret? Should I be concerned?

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