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writes: My younger girlfriend says she loves me, but wants to get as much experience as me. I've had ten partners, she only two and she says thats unfair. She says it will just be for sexual experience and won't hurt our relationship. She wants me to agree to this to make her happy, I am unsure what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (21 December 2005):
 let her do what she wants
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2005): She sounds like she is aiming to get your permission to cheat and that is disgusting. Tell her to go and do that but you won't be waiting there for her. In an early relationship of mine, my partner had been with 9 women and he had been my first. It didn't bother me because I loved him so much and he was the one I wanted. I couldn't imagine telling him that I needed to go and sleep with 8 guys to even the score. If I wanted to do that I would have broken up with him to go and do that.
She cannot have it both ways. Tell her that she can go and sleep around if she wants or she can be in a relationship. People make that decision every day and the strong ones stick to it.
She really needs to grow up and please don't let her walk all over you.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Way to go KellyO a woman with a great opinion. Walk away she is definately not mature. Honestly, even with all my experience my fiancee still finds new and cool ways to turn me on that I have never felt before. Experience is also gained through love. I was married and divorced before and that made me experienced right? Wrong that just means I don't know about how to make a marraige work. So experience is not having a sexual encounter with someone else for the sake of numbers. We all remember our first encounter. I threw up after wards. Most admit it was not what they had wished for. Should we all count that as experience? Whenever my fiancee and I MAKE LOVE/SEX now I find that it is exciting and a new experience because I trully love her and want only her happiness not my own. Either find a woman who only wants your happiness or wonder whether or not she'll find more numbers. Good luck.
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reader, Sarita +, writes (19 December 2005):
 I agree with KellyO. If she really loved you, you would be the only man she would ever need. Talk to her about it, and tell her that past experiences are PAST experiences! If she still doesn't agree, then maybe she isn't the girl you need. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2005): Hello!!!!?!??!?!?If it bothers you, it is hurting the relationship.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Its obvious this girl isnt taking u and the relationship serious at all. How old is she? she obviously isnt maturedd enough to know what a relationship is all about.she says wants more sexual experiences with different partners at least 8 more partners while she is with u? u r not supposing to be considering this.How do u know if she will even stop there or not go off with one of them?
I had no experience whatsoever and i was with a partner that had several experiences and i never thought once of equating with him. is it a competition now?
If she wants more sexual experience then why is she not suggesting that u alone provide her with this. i mean the two of u can be adventureous together and u could teach her all she needs to know.
My opinion is that u should walk away from this relationship and look for someone else who is alot more mature and more into you.
All the best dear, u dont deserve this girl.
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