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writes: Dear anyone: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a while now. We love each other so much, and it's as if we understand each others' emotions. This is the thing:When we are together, and we are in public, or with friends, he seems to *coincidentally* look in a attractive girl's direction (Thats what he tells me). Most of my friends are really attractive, and when we are with some of my girlfriends, he stares!Now I found out that she calls him (I guess that she likes the attention). He says that there's nothing going on, and well theyre hasn't been anything that could lead up to the idea, but I don't wanna risk losing him either way. What can I do??always KuKyS Reply to this Question
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 I don't just happen to coincidentally look at women. Either I do or I don't. I might once in awhile look at another just for the sake of admiring her beauty however I am very devoted towards my fiancee and spend my time looking at her. Calling that's were I draw the line period. There is nothing that I have to say to her friends that couldn't and shouldn't be said in front of her. If her friends call and she's not home I would take a message and pass it on. But, holding a conversation with them, naugh, nope not me. Definately confront him and tell him exactly how you feel. I do with my fiancee. I told her ONCE you look at his ass again and that will be yours. Then I went to the GYM to make sure mine was good enough for her. Now she tells me it's great so I fixed that problem. I love her and she loves me but looking in lust is not an issue nor will it become one. Good Luck. Ed
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reader, Sarita +, writes (19 December 2005):
 I think you should confront him seriously and tell him you don't like these situations and that he better changes or he will lose you, as you won't tolerate that. You must be tough: luckily, it won't happen again, if you scare him enough.
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reader, lorel +, writes (19 December 2005):
Dont believe him for a minute...and dont believe anyone who tells you ...;all men do this its normal'...
This is so damn disresepctful and you deserve better.
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