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writes:I am 18 and seeing a 27 year old, we are in love and we got in a arguement the other day. he told me that I need to prove to him that I still wanna be with him.. How do I prove to him that I wanna be with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Tell him that you love him, and if he doesn't believe you... that's tantamount to saying "I don't trust you."
What have you done to lose his trust? I'm not saying that you have!
I'm saying that it sounds like he's trying to manipulate you. Either he's super insecure, or he's a creep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): If he really loves you he shouldn't force you to "prove" you love him. He should just be happy you're with him. Don't become guilted into doing something you might regret. This guy sounds like an a-hole to me if he's pulling the "prove it" crap on you. If he still insists, dump him, cuz he's not worth your time and love.
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reader, babygurl01 +, writes (19 October 2008):
babygurl01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know we are 9 years a part.. I dont wont tp be with anyone but him... No we havent had sex and he said that it doesnt matter to him.. He said he wants to wait until i am ready... He has already said that he wants to marry me.. We got in an arguement because I cheated on him once and I told him about it, but when i told him i was scared because i dont want to lose him.. I dont want to move on, i want to be with him...
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reader, babygurl01 +, writes (19 October 2008):
babygurl01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did ask him.. He told me I needed to figure it out myself..
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reader, JustChillin +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Well Babygurl~
First off, there is a 9 year difference between your ages. You being 18, the "love" you are feeling for this 27 year old, is probably nothing more than what is termed as "puppy love" or infatuation. You are still very young and will probably experience "love" many times before you really fall "in love" with the right man!!
I'm curious, you didn't mention that you and this 27 year old have been intimate (had sex), but typically when a man makes a statement of you'll have to "PROVE" that you want to be with him, well...don't fall for that line...because if you've not had sex with him...that will be his next move!! Don't let this man take that innocence away from you, only to break your heart and move on to his next pursuit.
My suggestion, you need to date someone closer to your own age and tell Mr. "Joe Slick" 27 year old to go find someone closer to his age and quit trying to rob the innocence of younger girls. Seriously, you are NOT even considered an adult until the age of 21.
Believe me hun, there is plenty of time for you to be an adult...but wait until you get there!! Don't be in such a rush...for now try to enjoy the last bit of your teen-aged years. =))
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