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writes:I have a boyfriend now... haha... anyway.. he is constantly touching my sides and leaning his head on mine. He is always slapping my butt in front of his friends just to show off and it gets really annoying. we are only 13 and I know that's young, but come on its the 21st century things have changed... I don't what he's trying to do with his constant touching my sides and some times he holds me really close to him.. my friends keep telling him to stop and telling me to yell at him for it... They say he's being too sexual... IDK if he is being sexual or just cuddly and he has a habit of doing it... what do you think... Reply to this Question
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 I love it when guys hug me etc, but one thing that really makes me cringe is when a guy slaps my bum. It makes me feel like livestock or something. I remedied this with my ex - whenever he slapped my bum, I slapped his 10 times harder. His eyes watered. That soon put a stop to it! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): well i think its just hes showing how much he likes you not showing off. couples always do that. If you dont like it then he must not be the right one for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): LOL! Emilyanswers made me giggle! yeah 'if he slaps your arse, slap his head' i personally love it when my boyfriend holds my sides and holds me close, it shows affection, shows he cares! but if you dont like him touching you, then tell him. as you said yourself, its the 21st century and women arent made to live upto the men anymore! people have their own minds. good luck x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 November 2008):
As you rightly say - it's the 21st century so you don;t have to stand there silently and take behaviour you don't like.
Tell him to get off you if you don't want him touching you.
And when he slaps your arse, slap his head.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Tell him he's being disrespectful and that you don't like it when he does that. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. If he does it again, tell him to knock it off. If he still does it then tell him, ok, see you when you learn how to respect me.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (2 November 2008):
 At your age (and his), I would say that young men are a bit more uncomfortable with their sexuality. They don't really know what to do with all those developing hormones... but the bottom line here is that if he's being annoying and won't stop that annoying behavior, tell him to stop... and if he doesn't, get a new boyfriend... in no uncertain terms here, NOBODY should be touched in ways that they don't want to be touched... period!
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 You are a sound young girl, you should just have the confedents to tell him how you feel.
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