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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Why do they only seem to want to be friends with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi! My situation is wired because I'm 22 and I'm still virgin. I'm not ugly but always I have problem to have relationships. Some of the girls are curious to know me but after we pass some time everything changes and most of them want to be only be ...

Fingering and cherry popping?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - is it possible for a guy to 'pop your cherry' by fingering?...

What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...

I told my boyfriend I'm not a virgin and he is ignoring me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Plz help me! i told my bf that i m not a virgin, he is ignoring me and even not talking to me. i m very depressed. my honest kill me, my all happiness is at stake. i m very serious i don't wanna lose this guy. i love him lot. ...

29 year old virgin and waiting for the right one. Will I find her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - hi am 29 many say am a good looking guy, thing is i have allways bin shy around women god knows why some girls ask how come u havnt got a gf ya such a lovely guy thing is am still a virgin i wanted to save myself for the right person am not re...

How do I tell my boyfriend I am afraid to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - how do i tell my boyfriend i am afraid to have sex because: 1. i am afraid of getting pregnant 2. im still a virgin. we have been together for almost a year and i trust him. he means the world to me. also i did get to meet his brother and he w...

Losing my virginity..how and where?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hi i'm 14 and think i am bi. I want to lose my virginity, but i don't know where to meet someone at my age. Also i have been talking to someone on msn who is gay and 17 and say they will help me lose it, but he doesn't live near me, though he did s...

My LDR guy is coming to visit and he wants to have sex with me, but I have no idea how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - well im from NZ and im having a LDR with a guy from Australia. we've met once when i was in Australia, well he is comeing to visit me in 2 days and he'll be staying in a hotel and he wants to have sex with me. im ready to have sex with him but the ...

I'm a virgin but my new boyfriend really likes anal sex, and his ex liked it too! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 days and 8.5 hours is the love of my life. We have known each other for almost a month now and never go anywhere without each other! I'm a virgin and my boyfriend likes anal sex a lot. Should I just tell him I don't want it.. He ...

My boyfriend told me that when we're both 16, he wants to lose his virginity with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - at the moment i am 14, and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever, i love him so much, no matter how old i am. But a few days ago he told me that when we are both 16 he wants to lose his v. with me. I found this quite a shock because i didnt even ...

My boyfriend still thinks I'm a virgin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I need some advice. So, I was dating this guy for about a year. Things between him and I were great, I truely loved him to death. The thing is that he asked if I was a virgin, and at the time I was. I knew that he wasn't, and he knew that I ...

Young & Virgin, are they really that weak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Of course, I have never had any relationship experience, but a lot of my friends were virgin and their first bf that had sex with them always a dodgebag asshole. Although, they tend to stick with those guys for a year or two before they realize it. ...

I had sex for the first time but did not enjoy it! What could be the reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Hi guys, i used to masturbate like everyday and yesterday i had sex for the first time and to be honest i did not enjoy it. what could be the reason i need to know. i didnt come because the girl in question gets tired easily even when we're ju...

My ex is being very friendly, what does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a ve...

Am I masturbating correctly? Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I've never used this site before but I just wanted to know if I'm masturbating correctly. I am a virgin and when I masturbate I usually just play with my clit which gives me a really good feeling which I assume is an orgasm. The thing is when ...

I tend to crave sex all the time... Is this wrong or is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I'm only in my teenage years. I lost my virginity when I was almost 14. I ended up really liking it. Now I tend to crave for sex. I love doing it. Is this wrong of me? Should I get help. Do I need counseling? I don't know. But im pretty sure this is ...

I am bugged by never sleeping with a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Why dose virginity matter so much.... My wife and I have been married over twenty years... My wife was not a a virgin when I met her... Well, she say's she was when we first met, but during a short split she went on to have sex with another guy! I ...

Help!!! How do I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Okay, so I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I have been raised a gentleman and I keep fit playing various sports and going to the gym, so I'm not unattractive. I have been in a relationship for a year now, and I have very strong feelings towards ...

He asked me to be his FWB buddy and I said yes because I love him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Okay. I'm 14 and I'm in love with one of my best friends (guy). He knows and he says he loves me too. I have known him for ages and we went out for a while too. Then we decided to just be best friends again but we are what he calls ' fuck buddies ' ...

We want to have sex but what goes where?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I've been going out with the sweetest guy anyone can get and we are starting to think about sleeping together. He isn't pressuring me into doing anything i don't want to because we made a decision on it together and we arranged a date. The thing is ...

I'm 25! Am I the only virgin out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Okay so im 25 year old female im a virgin and i've never had a real boyfriend. There have been guys that im interested or who are interested in me and i just get very protective of myself. And im the only virgin out of all of my friends and ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I still have nightmares of being sexually abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, my boyfriend and I were talking about our relationship this morning and he asked me what my first time was like. He's my first lover and I didn't know how to answer. It took him four different tries to really...do everything ...

Will my boyfriend notice that I am a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - i'm 22 yrs old and i'm a virgin by december im going to cabo to be with my bf and he thinks im not a virgin ive masturbated and donde sexual things but never had a man in my life and im freakin out and im scared to be with him will he notice im a ...

Embarrassed because I've never had a relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - i'm 16 nearly 17 and i never had a relationship and its getting to the point where i cant tell know one because i feel imbarassed to tell my friends and family except my mum who understands.I do want a relationship but know one has ever taken an ...

At 30, how do I address my virginity problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - I am a male virgin who turns 30 this summer. This bothers me a lot, only because it makes me feel “nervous” around my friends.I don`t have any past experiences i can narrate to anybody. I didn`t think much about it when I was younger as I was an ...

Yikes!!! I can't stop masturbating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - ill start off by saying that im 16, and im a girl. im also a virgin, but not by choice. if it was up to me, id be having sex all the time. with girls and guys. im bisexual. i go to school online, so im always at home on the computer, and my parents ...

I'm worried about my future because of my sexual orientation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Well, I am a 26 years old male and I’m virgin by my choice. I’m gay or at least bisexual, I like both men and women both attracted me but when it comes to sex, I feel I’ll be more comfortable with men. I don’t want to be with men, bec...

How does sex feel the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Yes, I am a virgin and proud. Dont want to have sex but can someone tell me how it feels the first time and how to masturbate myself scared i might hurt myself and stuff around the house i could use to make even more pleasure....

Why do guys want a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so im a girl and a virgin. Want to have sex but scared i might get pregnant. But Anyways i read somewere that guys like it when girls a virgins for sex or something. Why is that? Explain please....

I'm worried it is just becoming habit instead of having meaning!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are together for around 8 months for now. And recently, we started to sleep together, yes just sleeping and heavy petting which includes me giving him handjob and blowjobs and him fingering me. However, I have discussed with h...

I want to stop being jealous of the guy she lost her virginity to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - hey, me again. Warning you ahead of time that this is quite long, and I'm not a good writer so bear with me. Here is some info to start with- Ok me and my girl have been going out for 6 months now. We are in a committed Long distance ...

I don't want to take her viriginity but I need something

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - i'm 18 years old,i'm having a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now,we are happy with each other,but she's been a faithful to her parents she doesn't like to fulfil my sex needs,i don't want to destroy her virginity,but being a playful boy ...

Was that the moment that made me realize that I should start having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Could someone please explain me this? I've been going out with my b/f for over a year now, we're both virgins, and we said that we're going to have sex when I'm ready. Until a few months ago, I was scared to be alone in the same room with him, t...

Am I being insecure or is he being insensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I feel really insecure about how attracted my boyfriend is to me. We were having an conversation about how women r sexually attracted to men when they love who they are and men r sexually aroused more when the woman is "hot". This was in the cont...

Can't have sex, can't talk about it! It's driving this teenage boy crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - Okay, so heres the deal. My girlfriend and i have been together for nearly five months. When we first starting going out, we talked about sex and stuff like that. She usually brought it up, saying how horrible it was that people our age were ...

I lost my virginity and now I'm weak and afraid I won't be able to stop having sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am seventeen years old and Muslim. I met my 19 year old boyfriend 5 months ago and have been dating since in secret. Coming from a strict family and myself valuing the teachings of Allah, i have continually felt ashamed and scared about being ...

We want to have fun but should I tell him I'm a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - heya, I've been chatting to an old friend recently and found out that we've had sexual feelings about each other for quite a while now. We've agreed that when he comes to visit me we'll have some fun. The only thing is I havn't told him I'm a virgin...

I'm worried about losing my virginity to a girl with experience

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - I feel really embarrassed asking this but I'm a guy who has been going out with this girl for a while now. And we have decided to maybe have sex together. The only problem is is that I'm worried about losing my virginity which I have read does not ...

Relationships need sex to survive. What if you're a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Everybody is saying that relationship needs sex to survice. . Then i ask,what about bin a virgin til wedding day,doesn't it matter anymore?...

Lost virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me hard by inserting 3 fingers into my vagina. Then the very next day I found brown stains on my panties. Have I lost my virginity already?...

Heck, she won't have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - So iv'e been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and we totally accept each other and we are totally open with each other, we really really like each other. The thing is it's been 3 months and she still is acting a bit strange about having sex ...

I lied about being sexually experienced, and now worry I will disappoint

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - hello everyone, Ive got myself in this somewhat awkward situation. First of all im a 19 year old male, and still virgin. A few weeks ago I met this Girl and I really like her, we get along quite well. We went out for 2-3 dates and always had...

Questions for women who aren't virgins

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - when and why did you decide to lose your virginity? was there a particular event which set you off or was it a logical decision? did you regret losing it the way you did or still have fond memories of it? what went really well/really bad?...

I am sick of running into guys that wants sex first and a relatonship later.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 23 years old, College graduate, Full time job, own place.... and a virgin. Pround to be one. But at my age, a virgin is hard to come by. Throughout my life so far I had put finding a boyfriend on the back burner. I wanted to have...

My girl lost her virginity two weeks ago and its the third time and she still bleeds

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Hello All Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago. We didn't use protection and my girlfriend bled pretty heavily. The second time we had sex (about a week after that) she had some bleeding but it was very little. Today we...

Jealousy and Birth Control

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined: Q: 1 I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and bestfriend, will call him Victor. Victor and I are quite compatible, so for the most part things rolls along smoothly, but I do have a probl...

What constitutes actually losing your virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - There are many questions posted about losing virginity on this board? But I want to know exactly what it means by losing virginity. (1)Penetration of the penis into the vagina, with the result that the woman's hymen is broken. For both the mal...

He took my virginity and now I don't know how to handle the relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I was always desperate for love and to be loved. I met a guy at work and at first he wasn't my type and way too old (Im 24 he's 38), my family woudln't accept him. So I eventually (being nice) got to know him and started to develop feelings for him. ...

Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

15 October 2010 (?) - Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?...

I've been married 2 years and I'm still a virgin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - i am 23year old married from 2 years and still a virgin. my husband is being patient with me but i get frustrated.my husband even had a affair but he was not sexually involved with gal but now its all over.he says he loves me.ours is love marriage ...