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*roubledgurl
writes:Everybody is saying that relationship needs sex to survice. . Then i ask,what about bin a virgin til wedding day,doesn't it matter anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): If u give it up now u will ruin ur goal of waiting. If hes the one hell wait, and if hes not then hes one of the many ppl ull meet tht set an idea of what u like n dont,4 u to b certain of wht u want bcus thngs change alot ovr time and u want to make sure the one who gets it is the one u want. Eithr way he needs to respect that. Peer pressure comes wit that type of plan, u have to b ready to b stronge n stik with it
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reader, Johnny2301  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 I am 24 years old and I have been with my girlfriend for more than five years now. We still have not had sex because we have decided we will wait until our wedding night. Honestly, it comes down to personal values.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 I'm afraid someone is putting pressure on you to have sex before marriage. Don't do that if you don't want to. If the relationship comes to an end, so be it. Don't give in to blackmail.
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reader, Ricemonster  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Sex isn't what is needed for a relationship to survive. This totally depends on the individuals involved. Alas, if sex isn't important for you, but it is for him and you two get married just to find out you're not as sexual as he needs it, this can cause problems in your marriage. However, if you are willing to experiment and explore your sexuality with your future husband, then it's just a matter of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): I think relationships need sex to survive a lot more after the sex has started. It is possible to keep the relationship going without it, but I think it's vital that you never start doing it for celibacy to work.
The truth is that no sex will rule out some people. Not everyone can go without sex. (But then again not everyone can keep a relationship going without cheating either. Different strokes for different folks.)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 October 2010):
 It is always up to the individual. I would only wait for someone if I was very much in love, but sexual compatability is very important to me, so I doubt I could do it. Knowing that about myself, I would not put someone in the situation where they would question their morals for my sake.
There is nothing wrong with waiting for marriage. More people should do it. I just know that it isn't for me.
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