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anonymous
writes:i am 23year old married from 2 years and still a virgin. my husband is being patient with me but i get frustrated.my husband even had a affair but he was not sexually involved with gal but now its all over.he says he loves me.ours is love marriage and we know each other since 12 years plz help................
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reader, monkey friend  +, writes (15 October 2010):
What the others said, you need to seek help.
Two people who love each other fully are supposed to want to have sex. I can understand going a couple of weeks while married without sex out of nervousness but 2 years is a long time. Also, examine what you are worried about exactly. Try making a day to go out with your husband to have lots of fun together. Then when you get back, maybe start kissing. Then each day after try going a little bit further until one day you get to the point of sex.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 October 2010):
I also agree with the others that you need to seek psychological help from a doctor.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (15 October 2010):
 you need help. go see your doctor and tell him why.
so sorry to see you in this position, and you will get over it.
i think there is an underlying issue here that you hav'nt told us. that is what you must pluck up courage and tell your doctor.
is this an arranged marriage?.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (15 October 2010):
 Why are you still a virgin?are you not sexually attracted to yo husband? Are you physically or psychologically not ready?i find it strange!
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