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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I go about telling my parents about the relationship I am having with a professor at University?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a professor at my university now for 8 months, I have now told my parents i am in a relationship with someone and have told them he is older than me. My boyfriends family (Uni profs family) have met me and are ...

He's drunk and abusive. How do you reason with someone like this, for the sake of your kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner, "Bill", for 12 years and we have a family together. Tonight he told me for the umpteenth time that he was sick of my bad attitude and that I need to "know my place". Then he told me it's over and to expect all my thing...

When travelling, what are your pet peeves about the people you meet and the places you visit outside of your own country?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - This is not a relationship issue, it's just something recreational if any of you wants to humour me up. So : yesterday I was reading on a travellers' forum a thread called "Why Italians are so rude." Now, .. Italian can be rude, I am not argui...

Is my cheating any worse than the abuse he inflicts or threatens me with, regularly? Is getting help as impossible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 8 years.I'm cheating on him. My husband has been abusing me for the last 3 years.Apart from the physical abuse which he exercises every day he abuses me verbally as well. He calls me all the names under the ...

What are the main reasons that would motivate a woman to want to break up with a guy?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

30 April 2016 (M) - I would like the opinion of the lady's an men who write in all the time, my question is what's the main reasons for women to dump the guys? Is it they found some one new, he cheated , he treats her bad, got bored of him, he was to nice, came on ...

Advice needed, please? Would my subsequent actions be enough for me to get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - So today I hooked up with this guy and we had oral sex. We didn't have sex. Everything was fine, he ate me and I sucked him till he came on my chest. When we ended, I might have gotten some semen on my fingers since it got on my shirt too, but I ...

He thinks I stole his money! I’m so hurt! Should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I’ve been seeing a man for almost 6 years I’m now living with him he say he lost so I'm money and the first person he blames is me because we are the only 2 people live in the house but his son is always comes in as he please a...

Is he using me? People are telling me that he’s a bad person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I've met this guy a few months, he's really sweet, caring and a respectful gentleman. I really like his personality and he treats me with respect, although I act cold with him, he still treat me in a nice way. I'm not the type of a person who treats ...

How should I handle this? Is he being thoughtless? Selfish? Or ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend was supposed to be going to a gig with me. The band cancelled the tour due to illness. Instead promised we would go on a weekend getaway and hinted at engagement. We have been together 2 years and have two kids together and liv...

She wants us to start again. What would be the best thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - I have been seeing my girl for nearly a year. My pal is on a dating site POF. He told me my girlfriends photo profile came up in a search, so I checked it out for myself. He wasnt lying. It said she had logged in within the last 24 hours. I ...

Should I just ignore my fiance until I return from my family vacation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I'm getting married to my fiance in October. At the moment I am on holidays with my mother and sister. I have to send the first text to my other half always. It's like "out of sight out of mind". Why? Should I just ignore him now until I get home...

Why is he ignoring me? What would I need to do to win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy 9 years older than me through a dating site two months ago. We seem to have a lot in common. I only met him once because we live 45minutes away from each other and usually varsity work keeps me busy. The day I was going to meet him he t...

Our break-up was awkward. Should I get in touch with her, after 2 years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - Okay, so here's the deal. Once upon a time, when I was 16, I was utterly and madly in love with this girl who I met through one of my friends. We were in a relationship (officially) for about 6 months and I can undoubtedly say she was the first lo...

What else has he lied about? It's upsetting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3164 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Okay. So I've been with my husband since my junior (his senior) year of high school. Lately, we've fallen on hard times and I've taken a fair amount of emotional abuse. I know that it's not him but the stress of his job. He's taking that stress o...

Are there any life reasons anyone can suggest for why my brother seems uninterested in forming friendships and or relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - Dear everyone I'm not sure if this question is suited to this site, but I found everyone on here to be thoughtful the previous time i used it so i thought i'd try again. I wonder if my brother has some sort of mental condition that hasn't bee...

Was this a normal variation for a penis shape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys, so I have a question that's gonna hit a rather touchy area, especially for men, so please keep in mind; I have very little sexual experience (I've never had full intercourse)! So I was recently dumped by a long term boyfriend, and a friend...

How can I get out of this abusive relationship? He has everyone fooled into thinking he is a good guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been getting messages from girls he has been with and never tells me about it. Unless I look at his stuff I don't ever know. And only one of the girls has asked him if he was with anyone which he said yes he was. But the others...

He's less interested in sex. Is it me? Or could it be that I disgust him in some way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years and up until about 5 months ago things were great, we had a great love life and sex life and I was happy. However, recently, we've rarely been having sex, I would say maybe once a month. I brou...

We are back together, but he is still talking with the girl he dated when we were split up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I've been dating my ex boyfriend again for the last 4 months. We were broken up for about 6 months and he was dating someone else for 4 months out of the 6 months we were broken up. He says they were not that serious but they did like each other. ...

What other lies is she telling me? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Dear cupid I have a problem with my girlfriend of 5 years whom we once quarelled as she was saying that I don't trust because when I happen to be at her work place people who know that we are an item working around her as she is a street vendor a...

What should I do with my gamer boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - As if my boyfriend didn't play games already enough. Now he wants to play 4 hours straight two nights. While he plays every night for 3 hours. Like is he serious!?!? When were supose to be spending time together. I want to spend time with him, e...

When is it the right time to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

Why hide a text? Am I being naive to believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - i have been with my bf for 3 years. we bought a house in 2014 and he had finalized his divorce in 2015. 6 months ago I caught him driving by his ex's house and confronted him and he denied it. then the other day it came up again and he said he ...

My Bf has secretly been having sex with this woman for more than 6 years. Should he remain friends with her and her partner? I say no.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been friends with this couple for 20 years. They moved states away a long time ago. They email, talk and text Facebook always. I found out recently that he has been having sex with her for like 6+ years and they have secret ...

He’s been chatting with women online and now has booked a solo trip to a country where one lives! I need opinions on this!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Me and hubby have been together 7yrs and married for 3. We have a 4 yr old daughter..He has been talking to women who he has friended from social media. He doesn't know any of them. But to some he will start talking in a way...

How can someone who claims to love you be so unfeeling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I got pretty sick this past week. I was bed ridden for days had no energy throwing up. My husband had it the week before so naturally I was concerned for him took care of his every need and made sure he felt loved and taken care of. Fast forw...

We rushed into a relationship. Were his words his way of making himself not feel guilty, or do you think he's being genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Try keep this short.. met this guy online we hit it off right away talked every day for a month, he opened up about why he has his daughter all time. We both are single parents..he has his daughter with him all the time, one of the things I liked ...

Help. Am I justified for being annoyed with my Gf?? I am having girlfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - Whilst in the club with my work colleagues and my girlfriend for a colleagues birthday, my gf and a female colleague go off to dance. I go looking for them about 20mins ish later because my gf is shy so didn't want her to think I've left her with a ...

What am I doing wrong? Women seem scared of me. Haven't been able to set up a date in three years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - I have problems with women and I'm taking time away from dating (or trying to date) until I've found myself, developed confidence, and have a proper view of women in general. I've struggled pretty badly for the past 7 years or so. My previous...

He likes to tease me in front of others. What can I try to get him to stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I'm a 27 year old female, and my s/o, *P* is 28. I've been troubled by this for a while, and just tonight we got into an argument about this. Here is my problem...he likes to tease me in front of others.I feel uncomfortable about it, and almost f...

Can someone help me to understand why I am feeling this way? I haven't told anyone, but I really want a baby.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hi im almost 14 and i really want to have a baby i love children my sister has 5 and there all babies i babysit them all the time. Their my world. I have a boyfriend but i havent told him or anyone about having a baby. I dont know why i feel like...

How can I get over him and move on? My ex boyfriend is blanking me and I can't move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Hi, me and my ex broke up last Sunday. I ended the relationship. He was texting me and said "can't we still talk?" So I said "if you want to" he said "yes I do" so i said me too. I ended the relationship because my mum made me because he was ma...

Should I accept social networking "friend" requests? What's a good way to reconnect with friends from my school days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

24 April 2016 (M) - Hi. Thank you for reading. I am asking for helpful advice . I have no friends. I still live in the same town I grew up in central London. Secondary school was a really good time for me, I had many friends. Everyday I would travel to and from sch...

He's with a girl I know. I have a crush on him. Is it love? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Dear Cubid Basically I have had this crush on this guy for a long time now. I know I feel something for him however I do not know if I love. I am young and I do not know what love is yet, but I know I care about him a lot He is is so sw...

Filled with fears of rejection. So what can I do?? How to get the courage to talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Long story short I like this guy in my college. Our mutual friends are really close so me and this guy are always in situations where we could talk. In fact we're usually stood right next to each other but talking to other members in the circle. I ...

Do I cut all contact with him? He left me feeling disrespected when he took my virginity and then just left.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this boy for just over a year now, for a good 3 months last year we were seeing each other but things just didn't work out. He then had a giflriend and we were like bestfriends but now they've been broken up for a while an...

Can I ever encourage this man to come back? He broke up with me after finding I was once engaged to another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I met this guy one (Mr. X) and half years ago but we started dating about eight months ago. before him, I was previously engaged to another man, who called off the wedding just one week before. We had had engagement ceremony, as is custom in my c...

I want to try FWB. What should I consider?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I want to try friends with benefits. Any women on here have experiences with sleeping with multiple guys at the same time? Most of the stories I've heard usually only have the male fwb sleeping with multiple girls. So I figure if it's inevitable ...

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

My Boyfriend's Doberman comes first. It's making me miserable. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have a 1 yr old son. The problem is when me and my boyfriend met he had a Doberman but the problem is he treats the dog better than me. He takes the dog everywhere with me. The dog can do no wrong. T...

How does one learn to accept what is good enough? I feel like I can never do anything good enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I recently ended my marriage and have a new bf who is a national rep. His work takes him away for overnights as well as many evening meetings. I hate how I act when he is away from home. I get super moody, I almost feel like he doesn't love...

How do I get over him? Should I try to be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - The guy i've been seeing ended things with me and i just cant seem to get over him. We've been on and off for six months which originally started as a friends with benefits thing and eventually we decided to start seeing each other. He's messed m...

Should I stay or should I go? Where Would I fit in elsewhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I am currently working in a small office for a small company.. very small company. I have been here for 8-9 months. I really can't stand the majority of the people here and I know that there will always be those situations in life where you have t...

How can I change my bad attitude towards other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - What is the best thing to do so I can change my attitude towards others. I have a bad attitude and this is towards anyone I have tried changing it but when I was nice and respectful others took advantage and treated me very unfair. I was ...

What do you do for someone who made your life happy again ? my friend helped and supported me after abuse I suffered

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I had a horrible childhood, I was physically and sexually molested and raped by my step father for 7 years. When I was 20, I met a guy on an online adult site . He was 15 years older then me. I was still living at home and my step father cont...

My partner or my daughter? I feel so very upset about what has happened. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I have lived with my partner for around 5 years. My daughter (now 24) lived with me....(or between my ex husband and her b/f's parents) She never paid any board money and rarely did any housework. (but that's my fault for letting her). We often ...

Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...

I like this guy. But should I heed my brother's concerns about this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy on tinder. It turns out that my brother has known him for 7 years. My brother told me he didn't see us as a couple but said that he's a good guy. I'd like to add that my brother is a recovering alcoholic himself and has been sober for 2 ...

Does anyone else think that D*cks and sex are overrated?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Now that I've been with a few guys I realize how small guy's d*cks are. Like when he's pushing it in, it can kind of feel big but once you get used to it, it's just not a big deal. And long and short lengths don't make a difference. The ...

I know it cannot be. So how can I overcome this crush and this jealousy I am feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - dear cupid, i have a huge crush on a teacher at my school, he is just amazing, when i see him i get butterflies in my stomach and when ever someone mentions hom i go crazy. today at lunch he spoke to my best friend and i was not there but i real...