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Advice needed, please? Would my subsequent actions be enough for me to get pregnant?

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Question - (30 April 2016) 7 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2016)
A female Canada age 26-29, *riana.m writes:

So today I hooked up with this guy and we had oral sex. We didn't have sex. Everything was fine, he ate me and I sucked him till he came on my chest. When we ended, I might have gotten some semen on my fingers since it got on my shirt too, but I cleaned it with his sweater. About 30 minutes later I went to the bathroom and just touched my vulva and around my clit and forgot that I hadn't washed my hands since. I am worried that by touching myself without washing first may have gotten some sperm and possibly get pregnant? :( I need some advice thank you

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A female reader, Dionee' South Africa +, writes (3 May 2016):

Dionee' agony auntI would say . . . not. However going forward, get yourself onto some form of birth control and practice safe sex at all times. Prevention is better than cure..

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A female reader, ariana.m Canada +, writes (1 May 2016):

ariana.m is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your reply!

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A female reader, goldie22 United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2016):

Very unlikely lovely, if your that worried tho I suggest you get the morning after pill x

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (30 April 2016):

chigirl agony auntSperm *can not* swim outside of the body.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (30 April 2016):

chigirl agony auntNo, you did have sex! Oral SEX.

I do wonder what they are teaching in school these days? You mean INTERCOURSE.

Sperm can't live outside of the body for more than seconds, or maximum a few minutes only. It can swim outside of the body either. So in order to possibly get pregnant when not having had INTERCOURSE, is for you to grab a load of sperm within seconds of him ejaculating, and then pushing it up inside you as deep as you could.

There is no chance you can get pregnant from touching yourself 30 minutes after getting sperm on your fingers. Especially since you didn't even put the fingers inside yourself, you just touched on the outside. There just is no way. If you got pregnant now, I would find it more likely that it was due to the Holy Spirit.

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A female reader, ariana.m Canada +, writes (30 April 2016):

ariana.m is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I hope you are right! Yes I washed my hands after realizing my mistake. Thank you for the reply :)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (30 April 2016):

Honeypie agony auntIt's unlikely. Though sperm CAN survive for a good while outside the body, I don't think you got pregnant from it. Don't forget you also need to be ovulating. There aren't just eggs hanging around waiting to be fertilized. Plus the vulva and clit are still external parts of you, not internal. And I presume once you thought of it you washed yourself?

If in doubt, there is the plan B. Which I DO think is overkill for this situation.

Next time? Have some baby wipes with you and use those to wipe off the semen. And maybe.... consider some kind of birth-control?

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