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22-25,
*ettybuttercup
writes:Hi, me and my ex broke up last Sunday. I ended the relationship. He was texting me and said "can't we still talk?" So I said "if you want to" he said "yes I do" so i said me too. I ended the relationship because my mum made me because he was making me jealous and took drugs and we lived too far away, so we never got to see each other often only on a Saturday. He text me a paragraph saying "i did get what you mean but at least we still got to see each other I loved you to pieces, you were the best thing that has ever happened to me I'm sure we can still speak but that's up to you if you want to x" I said that I did want to talk. So the day after we broke up, Monday 18th April, we were texting and i asked "what?" He said "i cba with school" i said "oh ??" then i said "I'm in art". I'm against people who don't want to get an education because some people can't even go to school. Art is his favourite lesson. Usually he'd reply "cool" or something that he's doing but he blanked me. He knows i hate being blanked and i do get annoyed when people blank me. I haven't stopped thinking about him since we broke up and I'm really upset about it. I need to speak to him but I'm scared to pop up incase he ignores me again. How can i get him to speak to me again? How can i get over him and move on? Please help me it's making me sad that i know he's going to move on and find someone else. I can't bear the thought of him doing anything with someone but i cant do anything about that.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 It is okay to feel sad once a relationship ends, but you will get over it soon, you will meet other people and date other guys and you will wonder why you felt as bad as you do now.
You cannot make him talk to you am afraid, if he chooses to ignore you then there is not much you can do about it, you need to make the decision if you want to be friends with him or not. But if you are going to be friends then you cannot be jealous if he gets another girlfriend or else talks to you about other girls, because you have agreed to be friends and nothing more. If you don't think you can handle being his friend then maybe you should end the friendship.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (25 April 2016):
 Sometimes people enter your life and then leave. It's just the way life goes. Later other people join you and you wonder why you felt so bad in the past.
I know that doesn't help you now. You feel miserable. Concentrate on your school work for a while. It's a hard time I know. Your feelings are intense at your age. Actually I'm not sure it gets easier as we get older. But what you are feeling now will improve. That's a promise.
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