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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I confront my boyfriend about pictures and files I've found?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I having problems trusting my boyfriend who I've been dating for 6 months. He's my first boyfriend and he says he loves me deeply but I find it hard to believe him because of some of the things I have discovered on his phone ...

I should cut the cord, because it is better to have good memories than bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I had a very bad break up a year ago and then after six months. I met a man who is 20 years elder to me and he was interested in me and we soon shared a very understanding relationship. we were very clear that we did not want to make a seriou...

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I ...

His internet history has me worried and wondering if he is gay or bisexual!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been in a wonderful and eventful relationship with my current fiance (45) for a year and a half now. He's very masculine and energetic which is a far cry from my typical choice in partners (I typically go for more sensitive and effeminate guys, ...

Is cell phone snooping okay?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Is it okay for someone you are dating to go into your cell phone behind your back and look at text messages you have received and sent to other people?...

I'm telling the truth now, how do I get him to accept that and have faith in me again?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I admit to lying quite as lot to my boyfriend about being on some internet sites. That was a few months ago now. Since I stopped going to these sites, he has now stopped believing me. We break up every week, get back together and have a real loving ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

Dumped, why am I so upset by this? A normal person would be running for the hills.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I have been gong through a very difficult time these past few months. I had recently broken up with the biggest Casanova I'd ever dated (he had kids and a wife etc.)So a few months later I meet what I thought was my knight in shining armor, boy was ...

Did I over react when I dumped him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend - I guess now ex boyfriend - is in his late 40s. We were dating a year and a half - exclusive for a year and 3 months. Over that time, I brought up the future several times. I want marriage and a kid and am ready to start nesting. He ...

I found out he has another girlfriend but he wont admit it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Me an my boyfriend have been toghter 16mnts an I recently found out he's been seeing another women.Although he still tries to hide her she makes herself well known around da neighborhood DAT they are toghter my problem is he will not admitt it an ...

I'm crushing on my friend's older brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3831 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I met an incredible guy about three and a half months ago through my university’s social dance club. The awkward part is when I say met, I mean I had met him briefly before but never spoken to him…I had seen him around because he is my friend’s ...

I don't trust my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I do not trust my boyfriend. We've been together 4 years, don't live together but have talked about moving in together in the near future. We have problems in our relationship but the biggest one is I just don't trust him. I'm always questioni...

Starting to like a guy I'm dating, but I think hes still looking for others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - Ive known this guy for a couple of months now. We met on T--r (a new dating app), and i wasnt sure about it, but my friend recommended it to me, help me get out more and meet and date new people. Now I've met this guy, and we're suuposed to be ...

What's wrong? I never get invited back ! I invite them, and they never reciprocate after that.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - My question is: Do you expect people to reciprocate your invites to dinner, brunch, lunch or a mere cup of coffee? I don't do it because I expect it, but since I have a particular taste and healthy diet needs, I tend to invite people over if the ...

What is more important: being comfortable in a relationship or having a similar level of attraction to each other?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I wanted to share my point of view on attraction in relationships. Obviously there has to be attraction for a relationship to work. But in my opinion, go for someone you're moderately attracted to over someone you're insanely attracted to. Me...

What practical things can I do to improve myself and start a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

27 May 2014 (M) - Hello all, I'm a university student who desires a relationship but has never succeeded. I realised in the last few years that I was behaving a typical "nice guy" (in the bad way). I have improved my confidence and being myself, spending more ti...

What sort of relationship is this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I have a situation that which I know I should run for the hills and be done with this relationship but I am struggling. My boyfriend and I met 3 years ago during a LDR. We met up half way every 2-3 weeks and eventually he met my kids and would co...

Is my new boyfriend a tight wad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I met a 45 year old lovely guy who said he is ' careful with money' On our first date he asked if I was going to buy the second round of drinks.I laughed and said it was only a coke both times but felt embarrassed me made the point. Then we agreed ...

We don't make love anymore, we just have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship as of about a year ago. We have been together for 3 years. The last 3 times we have been together we hardly make love and is more like sex. This past weekend we were together after not seeing each other for 4 ...

I am falling deeply for my older Boyfriend's cousin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I'm 19 and with a 34 year old man a year and half. Please don't comment on the age gap , I prefer older men. About 3 months ago I met his cousin who is 31 for the first time. He told me a lot about this guy how he cheated on his now wife when the...

How hard should I try to make this relationship work, even though he has a fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have a very romantic and dramatic start. Now we have around one year and a half dating. It's my second longest relationship and i'm very proud and happy since i went through a lot of frogs back in the day. The proble...

Is it wrong to enjoy him when the sex is amazing, even though I find him annoying at other times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying. I don't know what it is but he really irritates me. I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up...

He was my first love. But drugs rule his life. How can I stop loving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 27 years old female, when I was 15 I met a boy who was 16, just one year older than me, he was my high school sweetheart, we spent many years together after, we went to different universities I studied engineering and ...

I am fit and petite but I have no boobs. He's a boob man. Is there any chance that he'll consider me attractive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Would you find a woman with a squatting bum, defined stomach/ faint abs and slight thigh gap attractive, even if she was basically flat chested? I only ask because I'm going to a pool party with the guy i'm dating this weekend and I don't want him...

Is my Bf's outlook on ever or never having children normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend loves kids, and he's so cute playing with them etc. however we've talked and he's on the fence about actually having kids. He's absolutely fine with having them if I want em but he just can't see where people find the time for it. ...

Don't like being friend with my ex, but there is no way

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi everybody, Since ever the one in the group that is single and always dating new girls and all the past relations were like heaven. Everybody likes me, even my ex-girlfriends and I love everybody, I was happy. There was a girl whom I always lik...

Twenty eight and throwing tantrums

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My lovely live in boyfriend has some sort of anxiety and depression. He has spoken to people about it in the past, and been on antidepressants before my time. His recount on things I've said or scenarios that have happened where he ended up getting ...

Why would they be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Two childhood sweethearts. . Looked me up after twenty years.. One grade school kept in touch more than the other from Jr high.. they have children and our grandparents. .and from different states .. I finally have a four old daughter and am not ...

I feel betrayed, and I want to be happy again. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Ok my question is how do i get over a relationship that i just got betrayed and put all my effort into. i feel heartbroken and miserable every night i have been drinking every day and i still cant get over this. i look on social media and she is p...

Given the circumstances why wont he give me a key?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about two and a half years. He is 35 and I am 27. He has been married before, I have not. I am at his place often, probably about 5 or 6 nights a week. I do not have a key, so if he has to work before me he will ...

Should I run or risk a broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hello, well I've been talking to this women on line, we get along ,seems real good, but I think there is some red flags poping up, her car broke down she says, talk to her on the phone she seemed drunk, she told me she was raped about two years ...

She came across sexual and experienced, but she's a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - I'm confused at what the girl i'm dating told me yesterday, I don't judge her for it and never would but it doesn't make sense judging by her actions and the things she says that she is. She's very affectionate and feely with me, she'll roam her ...

What kind of man lies like that?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the last couple of years. The connection seemed to be undeniable. He committed to me giving me an expensive piece of jewelry. We connected on FB. After little time, I realized that the immense majority of his friends ...

After a year I still don't have my online boyfriend's phone number

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Met a guy online over a year ago, we fell in love, never spoke on phone. It is a LDR and I gave him my number but he never gives me his. Lately, he is busier at work and he says he loves me but I don't know what's going on. Is it normal t...

He was so eager to see me. Then we had sex. Is he now fobbing me off? If yes, then why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want an honest opinion, please don't judge me. I met a guy on a night out a month ago in a different city. We talked every single day via messaging/phone calls ect. a significant amount. We agreed on a date for him to come and see me at my pla...

New workplace for me. Guy there is married, attractive and older. What's my next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi.theres this man whos pretty elder to me but is ravishingly handsome,at my workplace. i just started working there 2 weeks ago and he makes frequent eye contacts and shows many other signs of attraction.it makes me feel really awkard to gaze back ...

Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

25 May 2014 (?) - Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which ...

My girlfriend has been texting a much younger man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Here is a the concern two weeks ago I found out that girl I have been dating for five years and living with four and a half was texting a younger man. I found this out one night awhile she was sleeping with phone still in her hand. The text were ...

I am planning on having sex outside my marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Hello. I have been trying to ask this question for a few times because i am facing a situation in which i am undecided. I will talk honestly. Well i am married since 10 years. I have always loved to appreciate beautiful women. I particularly ...

Online friend won't talk to me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been good friends with a man online for over a year now, we chat nearly everyday and take the piss out of each other. We sometimes have disagreements but always resolve them by talking. A day ago I posted something funny on Facebook and...

I don't feel loved and I think he is cheating again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been married for 24 yrs I have two kids, one just graduated from college the other from high school. I caught my husband cheating on me in 2010. He admitted the affair and said he was so sorry and would never do such a terrible thing to me ...

I feel like I am his enterainment while his wife is waiting for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi. i am dating this guy. i am a foreign living in USA for 7 years. he just got here as a refugee. we met 3 months ago. his english is very little but somehow we can communicate, we liked each other so we became friends first. now we are kind of ...

He's gone fishin' and I'm here all alone ..... again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Hello I've been with my boyfriend of two years. We have a great relationship until summer comes around. Every summer My boyfriend loves to salt water fish and his summers are filled with tropical trips to the islands and lots and lots of fishing. I ...

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which ...

I feel suffocated by my girlfriend and have lost all my friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year. I am a uni graduate, where she is didn't study after school. She is currently in part time employment and I'm studying. Is it normal to give your girlfriend first priority for eve...

My boyfriend keeps registering on dating sites and tells me it's just "for a laugh"

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Could some one advise me what to do please? I have found my boyfriend to be registering on different date sites. This is the fourth time I found out about it now. He says its just for a laugh and unregisters from them, but then secretly registers on ...

Alone and too scared to meet or trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Let me say this 2 yrs divorced and doing ok as for my career but life outside of work for me doesnt exist . I have no life ! In sept I went on a health kick and lost from size 26 to size 14 and look ok and proud of myself even but Still No Life ...

I found an empty condom wrapper and a phone number in his clothes after he came home from a stag party!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I think I'm over thinking this but I need another view point on this one. What would you think if your boyfriend came home after a stag party, and then the next morning you found an empty condom wrapper in his pocket along with a phone number ...

He revealed he'd had an affair while married! Can I trust him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I am very much in love with the man I am with. He was married before and has been divorced for a while. He was married for more than twenty years and his ex wife left him in such a way that it almost destroyed him emotionally and financially (she ...

We had a great relationship, but there's his ex, the porn, the depression -- did I do something wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I have never used a site like this before but I really need clear level headed advice on this, I feel so blocked up I cannot tell what I feel anymore.. I am going to try to make this very short.. basically in 2011 I got with my boyfriend, I tho...