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*ELLYZ76
writes:Me an my boyfriend have been toghter 16mnts an I recently found out he's been seeing another women.Although he still tries to hide her she makes herself well known around da neighborhood DAT they are toghter my problem is he will not admitt it an tell me he loves me but when shes around he turns sides an pretends he doesn't want nothing to do with me.Then he acts like nothing happens the nite befor.I'm confused an getting ready to throw in da towel.Please help..anyone.... Reply to this Question
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reader, methuselah  +, writes (31 May 2014):
Hi,
Walk away. He is cheating and no good.
There is no future er for you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 May 2014):
 throw in the towel....
he's cheating
he's lying
he's useless
you can do better.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 May 2014):
 Go ahead and "throw in the towel." There's no future in the "relationship" (sort of) that you described....
Good luck...
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (29 May 2014):
 I bet after all this great advice has been given to you, you'll go home, think about it, and throw it all away, because you "love" him and can't bring yourself to leave him. This is what happens when you have low self-worth and you lack the courage to be alone. I think advice might be wasted on you and you'll have to learn the hard way that if you don't value yourself, you are going to attract men who treat you like crap. You have to honour yourself before you can attract someone who will honour you.
I hope I'm wrong about you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 May 2014):
 What is the problem? Kick him to the curb already. WHY on Earth would you want to share your BF with another woman?
Throw the towel already and stop clinging on to the fantasy that this man cares about you, he doesn't. HE cares about himself only.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (29 May 2014):
 What are you confused about? You're ready to throw in the towel? Lol sorry but i find this a bit much. Please have some self respect and leave. Don't get ready to throw in the towel, throw the damn thing already! There's no confusion here because he's cheating! You know its true because how he treats you around this other woman validates everything so please just please show yourself some self respect and drop the loser 'boyfriend' and find someone who won't treat you like shit infront of others. Please just do yourself and all of the world that favor.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 May 2014):
I don't see what there is to be confused about... He's cheating on you, he won't admit it, when she's around he pretends he doesn't know you because he doesn't want to bother her.
Who cares if he says he loves you. Is this how you want to be treated?
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reader, Ciar +, writes (29 May 2014):
 Throw in the towel.
You've discovered his words are worth nothing, so why seek more of them?
You have all the information you need to make a decision. So make it and stop mucking about.
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