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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Are most young guys in relationships really committed to their girlfriends nowadays?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Quite a few close male friends I know in relationships don't actually seem to care about their girlfriends all that much. Or they do, but they see her as a temporary thing, and merely a girl of convenience for sex and companionship rather than ...

I have reached the end of my patience with my boyfriend, but I'm too much of a pushover to let him go. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Okay. Well where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. I'm not going to go majorly into the backstory about how we got together, but before hand I had been in a 9 month relation...

How do I show her that I won't listen to my friend's advice anymore and convince her to give me a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - hi i'm 16 year old boy and I i've been such an idiot..... I liked this girl and when I eventually asked her out she said that she wasn't sure if she liked me. then her mate says to me that she likes someone else and that she doesn't like me. the ...

What do I do if she comes on to me? I don't want to be on her "list of resentments"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - Hey all, I need some help! For some backstory, understand that my ex, lets call her Sue (names changed obviously) and I were a great couple back in high school and at the beginning of college despite going to schools that were 500 miles apart. Whe...

Can a man who lies to me about everything be a keeper? Should I carry on with him or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid.It was a LDR but we are livin together now in Gauteng,6months now but we've been in this for 4 years nw. My problem is that-I visited him so many times at his province of residence,he introduced me to his family BUT he lied abt his mom ...

Fiance had feelings for old school friend, how should I have handled this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am a 23 year old woman, and am about to get married to my fiance, but I have an issue. He has some feelings for a girl he used to go to school with, and I let my insecurity get the better of me and caused this girl a situation where I humiliated ...

Could we have moved too fast jumping together and is there any way to reconcile this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 months now we met at a prison that I work at. In the beginning he went behind my back and was texting his ex girlfriend knowing that it was not cool with me.so we moved passed it and have had minor ...

Am I being foolish by holding out for Mr Right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I grew up in an abusive family and as a consequence I've always been incredibly cautious about romantic relationships. So much so that I've never had a boyfriend or even gone out on a date. Quite a few guys have asked me out, but I've never been ...

I feel confused as to what he is thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I need help my new relationship confuses the hell out of me! I have been seeing someone for four months and I don't get my relationship!. I've been divorced twice have three kids. I started seeing my little boys friends Dad in January he split wi...

Ex sent a facebook request, is there a hidden agenda or is he trying to make me more miserable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My ex-bf broke up with me a month ago. As soon as dumped me he blocked me in facebook, messager, phone..... He was verbally and emotionally very abusive towards the end of the relationship i.e. for past 6 months. He called me wors...

I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...

Is marriage a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...

How long do I give him this 'break' for? Should I get in touch to clarify this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am really confused - my fiance had been blowing hot and cold since February this year basically since I lost my job and things were financially hard for us. We got engaged on New Year's Eve and I thought it was a new beginning for us - we have...

I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone! Recently I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls. He apologized and is extremely upset so he promises never to do it again. He deleted all the girls phone numbers that were in his phone.I want to trust him but ...

Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herp...

Together 7 years. Recently he's been criticising me for the smallest things and has a short fuse. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone on this forum, i have used this forum once or twice in the past so here i am again, with a new problem for all those agony aunts out there. ive been with my fiance for 7 years now and well i am starting to find problems with, what i t...

It's hard for me to move on. What are the chances that she'll come back a second time? I think she might miss me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Am totally confused. I have been in this relationship now for four years. This January my girlfriend left me for another guy, I later got to find out, and she slammed these words on my face in the presence of her friends that 'she's no more ...

Why am I not special enough for a guy to stay exclusive with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I feel positively stupid. And ugly... especially ugly. Long story short: I met a guy, we liked each other but it's long distance, so there's no chance it'd work... we met once a couple months ago and had a great date, we got along great, and...

I feel like I'm stuck with my BF of 3 years. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my BF for 3 years now. Looking back, I feel like he was a rebound for me because my first love had completely betrayed me. Of course, I wasn't aware of it at the time. A year into our relationship he moved countries to be ...

I spy on my man and he feels suffocated. What does it mean that "I love him too much."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi, Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, we've been on 4 months ago.. but a month ago we have an argument, i have this jealous attitude towards him i admit i almost became a spy on him even on his social network i spy him and ...

When we're not arguing, things are good. But he broke my heart. Is it worth it, to keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my fiance 3 years. We had an argument over some petty BS. I wasn't even fighting with him, he just escalated to anger like he always does when we argue, and then says 'F**k this' or 'I'm done' and hangs up the phone, and then usu...

What can I say? Now the way she talks, it's like she thinks we are together again, but I'm over her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - Hi cupid I am ashamed of myself. Last night, I ended up sleeping with my ex. She called me crying a lot as her brother was hit by a car in Australia. I helped her over the phone and she was crying so much that I went to her place. After she cal...

My controlling bf keeps calling. I want to leave, but feel guilty. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Dear all. Please advise. I'VE been in a relationship with a very controlling man for 3 years. I have distanced myself recently, as I keep getting hurt,and decided to stop taking his calls. I HAVEN'T seen him for around two weeks, bv this week, HE...

I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...

My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the weddi...

I'm single again. Now I think I've fallen in love with my best friend, What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I've been extremely close to my friend for a little over 3 years now. Our friendship started out with us liking each other, then we kind of got over it and I got a boyfriend and was with him for 3 years. But my friend and I talk for hours on end on ...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

Should I just break up with him, move on, and wait for someone who will appreciate me and love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. My best friend was leaving the place we shared and i was pretty upset.i cried the whole day.when my bf got to know this he went bonkers. He told me i didn't cry for him when...

Am I facing a big problem here? Could my boyfriend be interested in this girl who talks really inappropriate sexual stuff with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm sorry but this is going to be a long post. I am really upset here and I need some advice. A girl my boyfriend knows (they're not really friends, but know each other) is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about stuff that I fee...

While I know that I completely ruined everything by expressing my fear of sadness when he's away, and deserve his current feelings, am I stupid to believe that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupids, I would really appreciate some advise..Apologies for the long post! I've been with a guy for the last year and a half..I adore him...We've had several ups and as many downs..I am his first proper relationship and he is my third....

My long distance girlfriend has been avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - Actually my girlfriend has started behaving strangely from past few days.. we are in a long distance relationship and now we are going to complete our 2 months. so here my problem goes.. we have met just 2-3 times then we came in a relationship o...

My girlfriend may be hiding her past from me. How can I know whether she's a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - Hey friends.. I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes.. ...

Am I being selfish? My BF wants me to wait and travel with me - I want to travel next year, with or without him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend’s family make me feel swamped. They talk business all the time. My boyfriend and I both attended high school together and University together though he is one year ahead of me. The plan is to finish our studies and do some ...

Can you think of advice that could give me encouragement with the big life change I'm facing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles: It seems like I need encouragement. I wish it were something my folks could give me. I have been in a stable and loving relationship with my boyfriend for over 4 years. I am in my mid-twenties now and he is in his thirtie...

Feels like my Gf does not trust me. How can I cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - "Dear Cupid", I just got a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along really well and we love being around each other because we can almost predict what the other one is thnkng, which I think is a massive improvement on how we acted around each ote...

Struggling to trust my girlfriend after she kissed another man....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - My situation is that my long term girlfriend of 9 years kissed another man at work. She came clean about it all and turns out that this dick has been pursuing her for about 6 years! She said she got curious and kissed him and that she immedia...

How could a guy like him fall for a girl like her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating the most wonderful man, Jeff, for about a year now, I have met his parents and he’s met mine, we’re planning to get married early next year. Everything’s perfect and I may be j...

My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. ...

Is there a lie I can make up to get myself out of this awkward situation or do I have to tell the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I recently meet a guy online and we've been on a few dates. I really like him and I see a future there and so does he. But I'm constantly sneaking behind my families back because I'm too ashamed to tell them I met someone online. I've met peo...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

Distressing personal comments from my Gf :( I have told her that these comments, or jokes, are making me insecure. How do I respond when she says it's just a joke?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - I have been dating my lovely girlfriend for 2 year now. We recently began having sex, both our first times. I am just above average in penis length according to many quoted sites. However she has made a few comments that have seriously den...

What do you think? Why does he choose to talk to me about girls he thinks are hot? It makes me uncomfortable.What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend seems to be really comfortable talking about how some girls are hot. It makes me feel really uncomfortable and puts the thought in my head that he might go after another girl. Am I overreacting? Also yesterday, he mentioned ...

How can I help my girlfriend be comfortable discussing serious matters with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - We've been together 3 years. I'm having a really hard time getting my girlfriend to be willing to communicate with me about serious matters. She's great to spend time with when we're doing well, but when something serious does come up, sh...

We had a LDR. We broke up. How could he do this after he gave me his commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my bf last month because we were in a LDR and he drifted apart. He never contacted me after the breakup. Just few days ago he sent me a text asked if I called him from an unknown number. If so just call from my normal number s...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

What should I do? But I have never felt so lonely in my entire life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - In Janurary I moved interstate to try something new, and to live with my mum for awhile. I left a few extremely close friends, a boyfriend, and a part-time promotions/modelling job to come up here and give it a try. I've found a full-time job, w...

Should I act on this. I can't get him out of my mind. It's been three years since we've seen or spoken to each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Greetings everyone, I am unsure as to whether or not I should get back in contact with an old high school teacher. I truly enjoyed his class and his passion for teaching emitted in the classroom. He was attractive, and well respected by his coll...

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. O...

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...