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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Wife of many years slept with another man while we were dating and now dealing with it.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

11 May 2013 (M) - Hey guys, hopefully you can help. My wife and I met in University and when on a date. I then went home for spring break and we spoke every night for hours on end. During these conversations we discussed how many people we had been with, past ...

I turned her down in the past after she told me she liked me and since then she won't open up around me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 May 2013 (M) - Was wondering if you could give advise on a girl I've liked for a long time. We've know each other for about 4 years , we've been on holiday together a couple of times and used to meet up to go to the cinema and out to restaurants, it's always been ...

Should I wait until he contacts me to end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - So.. This will be long. I've posted here some questions about my 30yo boyfriend's behavior: - "why does he live with his mom if he's in the military and is supposed to have a pig paycheck" - "why does he always tells the exactly same story abo...

He doesn't feel the same as I do, but won't leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - I know this guy from 2 months. We work in the same company. He is younger to me by 2 years. We became good friends in a few days. He came to my house many times. But has never misbehaved. I started having feelings for him. I proposed to him. He ...

He obviously likes me, so why doesn't he just tell me he wants me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - How does one get a guy who shows many signs of liking them more than just a friend or hookup to ask them out officially? We have known each other a few years. Initially we started as just a college hookup thing when drunk but I got tired of that ...

I have a very low sex drive. Please help. Is there anything that could help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hi-I LOVE my fiance so very much. We both have full time jobs and two dogs that take up a lot of our time ). I have no self esteem issues what so ever, I a very confident person. Our relationship is very lovey and we truly are in love- never ar...

Do men feel guilt at denying paternity, when they are informed about a pregnancy? Or do the men just move on and feel no guilt? Should I feel damaged by their actions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hello, friends, aunts, uncles etc I have a question again.... I am pregnant thanks to the advice I got I'm keeping my baby God will provide something for us. My question is do these men who abandon they children really move on or they do sit d...

Any tips? I'm meeting his parents. I'm more worried about what is going to come out of my mouth

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - After 10 months my bf has finally plucked up the courage to ask me to a meal with his family on Monday night after school for his 15th birthday I am petrified. I have only smiled at his mum through a car window and never spoken to his mum or his d...

Am I correct, that she's using me? I'm so depressed and stressed because of her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone! I have this friend whom I've known for years. She has always been so bossy and always trying to control my life. I've reached a point where i can't take this anymore. She's very selfish, only thinking about herself. She cal...

Why? Every time my Gf ask me for help I usually agree. But then she changes her mind at the last minute. How can I deal with my confused feelings about her rescinding the request?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (M) - so i'm pretty sure i'm doing something wrong but i need some advice... so the thing is, both my girlfriend and i have a disability, and neither of us is able to drive a car. suppose my gf needs something. like, she's busy and doesn't have time...

Why doesn't my husband want us to stop living with his Mom and get our own place? He says we can't afford it. Should I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Me and my husband have been living with his mom for 2 years. We have 2 small kids. I wanna get our own place but he doesn't want to. He has a 2012 chrysler 300 c that he got a year ago and a 2007 pick up he got 5 months ago. He says he doesn't ...

Have made no new friends in this new place.Would it be better to stay here and continue with my job, and hope things get better? Or move back with my Bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Thanks for reading. I will make it as brief as possible :) I'm 20, and have been in a long distance relationship for around 4 months. Previously was living with my boyfriend (25) but have moved interstate to live with my mum for awhile. I fou...

He asked for my number. He's been showing up where I usually go to at school. Are these good signs that he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - I have this friend whom I've known for years. We go to the same school but we don't have any classes together this year. We used to talk all the time. But we got drifted apart. However, just recently, he asked me for my number again, saying ho...

I hate my boyfriend being friends with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 3 years. I have a major problem and I hope I won't be judged or get hurtful comments about what I am going to say. My boyfriend is friends with a girl who lets say...sleeps around..a ...

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

Would this help? My therapist thinks being intimate with a woman like a prostitute would help me with my social anxiety

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 May 2013 (M) - OK, so I've got two years on the 40-year-old virgin, even though nobody's made a movie about me yet. I am plagued my social anxiety, am withdrawn, and have gone on many first dates but few second ones. My long-time therapist actually belie...

Could my boyfriend of two months be cheating on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4217 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - I'm in a relationship for 2 months only, the beginning was amazing but last 2 weeks i feel like my boyfriend got bored from me or he found someone else .. i bought him a new phone and he began to know everything about instagram and other ...

I will delay going out with him until I'm 15. But my question is, is 2 years too big of an age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - So I've met a guy at a group I go to. We both clicked instantly. We both love books, poetry, politics and basically are quite nerdy. We have the same sense of humour and always make each other laugh. If anyone in the group makes a joke, we always l...