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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Insecure about my boyfriend's past with other women and with porn

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - My fiance has a whole bookshelf of porn in his room, makes comments about porn sometimes, and I know he's slept with women before me. He's the first man I've ever been with and the last. Sometimes while we're together, I wonder what porn he's lea...

Why is he lying to me if he isn't doing anything wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I am in a new relationship, have been with the guy for about ten months now. It has recently turned into a long distance thing which is fine as I have done it before. I trust him.. or at least I did. He is gud friends with a girl, which is fine, ex...

He treated me badly, I knew we couldn't marry so why do I still miss him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - SORRY FOR MY bad ENGLISH.... I met my boyfriend one year ago,it was a rebound relationship, I was so much attached to him, we used to talk 7-8 hours in day. He used to tell me he wants to marry me, but we both belongs to conservative fam...

I asked him where the relationship was headed and now he seems distant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Everything was going really well until I commited the ultimate girl mistake in a new relationship: I asked where this was all headed.... surprisingly he was very calm (i could tell he was annoyed but was ...

I get very anxious when my boyfriend is out with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - So me n my bf have been together 4 yrs and sometimes we both go out seperately with friends. We r pretty laid back about it but it seems that I get really jelous over him going out and then I text him and feel like I'm ruining his night out ...

My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great ...

I've pointed out the red flags but feel like my g/f never gives me a clear answer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So homecoming is coming up. I'm not going, i dont really like dances. But my gf is, and im really scared she going to be dancing on other girls since i'm not their with her. My friends keep telling me ,they see her playing with other girls. She ...

How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...

Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...

Do I keep it to myself or tell my sister? My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair,he trusted me enough to tell me, but I feel like I'm betraying my sister. Please help me what should I do????? My sister also has a life treat...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

Can I regain his trust? He doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn...

My first serious relationship. But many anxieties:( Did you go through anything like this? What helped? What didn't help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I'm currently in my first serious relationship, and have been finding it very hard to settle into things. I love my boyfriend very much but it has taken me a while to trust him, how to balance my relationship around my life appropriately, how to a...

LDR - Is he taking me for granted or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy online around 6 months ago, we are both mature people so I think we both knew what we were doing when we got into this LDR. I let him know about my health which is a severe neurologic condition from day one. He says he loves and ador...

Is our "sex talk" just healthy acting out, or is it going a little too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - My wife and I have enjoyed a fantastic relationship for the past 15 years. The problem is, we have been together for 17. The past couple years has been a little more up and down, but hopefully not something that we can't work through. It could be t...

My problem is low self-esteem and low confidence. But can I fix it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - It seems like the root of my problems is low self-esteem/confidence. I think I have gotten a lot stronger, especially with the help of my boyfriend... but how can I make sure that my doubts don't keep coming up in my mind and affecting our rela...

I need some suggestions to help me understand why this is happening? I'm having some communication difficulties with a guy I met.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So there's this guy. I met him about 3 months ago on a friday at an event. It was a big weekend with tons of events and we kept bumping into each other. We talked about many things and really connected. A few days latter I found him on facebook...

My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...

My very serious boyfriend has a 4 year old daughter he never told me about...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Ive been dating my current boyfriend for 10 months now. Although ive had a couple of boyfriends in the past, this is the first time that I know ive fallen in love (im 23, boyfriend is 26). A couple of months into our relationship, my...

My boyfriend asked me if he could be friends with his ex girlfriend who he was deeply in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - We are engaged to be married and have been seeing each other for 3 years. His last ex-girlfriend dumped him badly. He was deeply in love with her. When we got together after their break-up which was only two months later, he called me her na...

I recently met two great guys and can't decide. Should I just date both of them at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out. I've never been a girl to care for dating more than...

I'm afraid he isn't as serious as I thought he was about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I've just become exclusive with a guy I've been seeing on and off for the last 12 months. He's told me he loves me and I'm the only one it just took him a while to realize it. I was at a friends tonight who was on her dating site and I saw his prof...

The wedding is planned, I have even ordered my dress but I'm becoming more and more insecure in my relationship because of my boyfriend's actions

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I am 30 and engaged. We are supposed to be getting married mid next year. My fiancée and I have been together for nine years. However for the past year I have been feeling less and less secure in the relation...

Every time a budding relationship ends I get more depressed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi there I am really suffering in many ways. I was seeing a guy after a very bad break up which led myself and partner abroad only to realise that we were not compatible living together. It was heartbreaking. I went back to uk he stayed in ...

Should I contact the girl I'm jealous of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 6 years now. After all this time i am still incredibly in love with him and the feeling just doesn't seem to fade away at all. we have moved in together a few months ago, i us...

Messed up real bad! Need help and advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - Hello! I am new to this but I am trying to get all the help that I can get at this point. Well here it goes. Four days ago my fiancee and I got into a little fight at a wedding and left there right away which turned into a bigger fight down the ...

Is it odd that I can only contact my BF via facebook?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Is it strange that the only way i can contact/speak to my boyfriend in the evenings is via facebook? We've been together for 4 years. I dont think he is cheating but i dont understand it. When he gets home from work, he puts his phone away and d...

Is it reasonable that I am wary of my Bf being curious about other girl's sexual preferences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4444 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has recently been coming up with new ideas to spice it up in the bedroom. We've been both having fun with it and enjoying ourselves and our relationship to the fullest. Recently, his best friend has been having relation...

Do you think he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - First, my husband works on the pipeline, so he is gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. This time, he worked for 8 weeks so he's been gone since july. We talk on the phone every night so I thought everything was fine, he was just working 16 hr ...

Should I be concerned about my boyfriend hanging out with this certain girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have argued about this girl he talks to before. She sent him a text a while back asking him to call her before he goes to sleep so she 'can give him something good to dream about' he never called her and when i confronted him he ...

She broke my trust in her... what shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4444 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - i met one girl proposed her, she accept me with one condition need time to settle her other time pass love which is without sex, i said yes. in one year she went her ex room to settle with him lots of times, since i trust her i never said no to ...

I no longer feel that I can trust my LDR boyfriend. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! I am on a long distance relationship for 3 years, I really love this guy to the point we were getting engaged and such. He hid from me the fact he went with a female friend to a concert, even after I confronted him. He delet...

My best friend and ex-boyfriend: inappropriate friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hey Everyone, I found out some information last night that is bugging/hurting me and i just would like opinions here. I was with this guy for three months(who i still really like) and he had hung out with my best friend a few times i guess...

My long distance boyfriend changed his relationship status from 'in a relationship' to 'single'. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We both are sixteen years old. We met on facebook 2 months ago and he asked me for relationship after 1 month. I love him alot. Everything was going perfect ...

Contacted the wife of the Ex-Boyfriend she reconnected with on Facebook

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - A follow up qustion from a few months ago. My wife's High School Crush and first sex partner from 18 years ago contacted her on Facebook. I posted about this a while back and my question is not about the contact itself between them. But a q...

My boyfriend and his child are a pair of spoilt brats!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Okay, so i have been with my bf for two years now, he has a 4 yr old of his own and i have a 6 and 8 yr old. My bf takes his son every weekend and whenever his son is here i dread it, i know i sound horrible but i treat all children the same so if ...

Why hasn't real love come my way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I am looking for a committed relationship but I don't know how.. I am tired of the games,lies, cheating the whole nine yards. i mean I am getting older time is running thin, not that I'm older than dust, but I am 40 now and I think it's time to ...

Am I wasting my time hoping he will change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met this man almost five years ago. At the time I was 20 and in between relationships. We went on a couple dates and agreed to keep it "low key and simple". Then I met someone that I wanted a relationship with and cut it off with him. That r...

Should I go and see him or write him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met a guy one night that I really liked and we arranged to meet up again. The date went well until he said that he wasn't looking for a relationship and he came on a little strong so I rejected him as I didn't feel ready to take such a step. I ...

We're both attracted to one another but I'm concerned I may be rushing her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4446 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - There's a lovely girl I am interested in, and she in me (she has said so before). Problem is that her last boyfriend cheated on her. Things haven't been going well between us lately, and I realise that I might be pushing her, when she isn't r...

Is my boyfriend keeping his options open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I am not sure what to think. My boyfriend of six months is flirting with one of his clients, whom he also considers a friend. I have asked him if he finds her attractive and he has answered she is beautiful. They laugh a lot together from what I ...

Maybe I shouldn't have broken up with him over his post?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I had this boyfriend(S),we were together for about 7 months and everything was going fine. i really liked him and (S) was one of the few people i've been with that was good to me. about 4 months into the relationship we had sex. it was the first ...

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the...

Did he slip up and is now trying to cover it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Try to assess this boyfriend of mine. My boyfriend (36) and I (32) have been dating for 2 months. He is overly eager to please, always apologetic if I look upset, wants to text even at work, in general always sweet to me. Shares that he has his ...

Am I being to paranoid? Should I be suspicious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - hi everybody i need help with understanding this situation. i took back my ex boyfriend bout 2 months ago after a two year break up. during the two year breakup, he would call and text me, trying to get in contact but i would ignore the call ...

Have I missed my chance with my high school crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, There is a girl that I like in high school. Ill name her "E". E likes me too, I know because we would often stare at each other for more than 30 seconds back in high school. she is so pretty and nice, but I am not sure if she hate...

I just want a little TLC when we are out together, but he gives it to everybody but me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - What is there to do in this situation? My boyfriend is a hopeless flirt and the life of the party. I find it incredibly uncomfortable being in public with him. What on earth can I do? At parties, he engages everyone, except me. He has said...

Is it dangerous territory if my platonic male friend is interested in me? My Bf doesn't like me seeing this other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (?) - My male coworker and I have become good friends. I never really hang out with him outside of work because he is really infatuated with me. It even caused some tension in the beginning, when I was just getting to know him. He's not my type at all a...

Seems my Bf and his friends bullied this girl at school. So why would she want me to know her connection to my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - girl from my boyfriend's past showed up at my shop and I don't know what to think of my bf's reaction to what she said! Sorry if this is long, but I don't know what to make of this! I work as a makeup artist/consultant at a mall. Any...

How to regain my girlfriend's trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - I while ago I broke up with my gf because my (former) best buddy lied to me and made me believe that she had tried to cheat on me with him. At the time she told me it was the opposite; that he was the one who wanted to be with her and could not take ...