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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I had this boyfriend(S),we were together for about 7 months and everything was going fine. i really liked him and (S) was one of the few people i've been with that was good to me. about 4 months into the relationship we had sex. it was the first time i had sex since my 1st time. everything went downhill after that. (S) blames it on my trust issues but i think i was justified. the person i lost my virginity to(R) was a huge lier, had me thinking i was the only one and that he loved me and i actually fell for him only to find out he had a girlfriend and he was cheating on her with me. i felt like my virginity was stolen from me. so of course after that i wouldnt trust as easy but (S) didnt understand that. one day i was on facebook and saw that (S) posted a status saying something which to me sounded like he was bragging about having sex recently. in my mind either he cheated on me or he was bragging about having sex with me so i asked him about it and he tried to tell me the post was about sports! -_- that was the end of our relationship but recently he just popped back into my head and i'd find myself thinking about him. im starting to wonder if i made a mistake and maybe the post was really about sports because he's really not a bad person and then last night i dreamed that i was making out with him..and i liked it! what does this mean?!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Without knowing what he said, we won't know if you were over reacting. However you don't have to consider this a total loss.
Young men are notorious for being cavalier with a young woman's reputation. Whatever your ex thinks of you he is wiser for the exprience and will be more careful in the future to avoid these misunderstandings (if that is what it was).
Don't beat yourself up or start second guessing yourself. For all we know, you may have been right all along.
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reader, Xearo +, writes (24 September 2012):
Dreams are reflections of our lives so I wouldn't read too much into them. I suppose it could mean that you have a desire for some affection, since you said you liked it.
I don't really know what the post said so I couldn't tell you if it was justified. But maybe it is better things went the way they did, so you can work on getting over the past.
In regards to your trust issues, I can see where you are coming from and anyone can have trust issues because of that. It would just be a wishful thought that the issues don't ruin the new relationship, so it is matter of learning from the past, moving on and seeing a brighter tomorrow.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 well...what did the post Say?
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