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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Why do I always end up in abusive relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - hi everyone, why do i always end up in abusive relationships? im a bubbly, sexy, supportive girl and i always try hard in everything. I know i have flaws too, im no angel but no matter what i do i end up with guys who are perfect at first, t...

I am worried about him financially. Am I wrong??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles :) I will try to make this short. My bf moved in with my two children and I about three months ago. He has helped us out with rent,cable, electric AND food. Hasn't missed a week of payments. A few weeks ago he called me a...

What does a guy mean when you tell him you like him and he say's "cool"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - OK so I like this guy and he is one of my friends , I have heard rumours that he might like me, I have tried testing it. I was walking with him and another guy and asked if they thought I was pretty, the guy I liked said yes straight away, the othe...

He has also been going to his ex girlfriends house.. Is it something I did? Do I say something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who's my friend's brother. He is a lot older than me and when we started seeing each other i said i wasnt interested because he had a girlfriend but he reassured me they werent together he told me he really liked me...

A baby 3 months ago. So why do I feel so dispirited all the time? Should I start afresh, or is there other options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - So had a baby been together for two years and I dont think I want to be with him anymore.I love him but I'm falling out of love. Lately I've been sleeping on the couch in the living room, I dont enjoy kissing him or being all cuddly with him. I dont ...

Why does my Ex talk about coming home, but he can't make his own mind up to do so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - I talked to my ex today for a long time . We laughed about old and new events in our lives even though we live so far apart we still have feeling for one another.We went our own way I moved and he stayed. So now he is giving little hints on coming ...

Was I just a customer to them? Unrequitted friendships? Do I go back or let them go?

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4 September 2012 (F) - i'm going to try and make this as short as possible. ok, so here's the deal I met a group of people during an abusive relationship, and they were really nice and supportive and helped me whenever i needed it. Four years later my friend died (su...

What options do I have? I love him very much I do not find our love life very satisfying.

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4 September 2012 (F) - My BF prefers oral and anal to intercourse. I prefer intercourse to oral and anal. Despite my repeated requests to have him "cum" inside me during intercourse using a condom it still has not happened. When he does make love to me (which does n...

How can I tell him that the one night stand meant nothing?

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4 September 2012 (F) - I'm after a little bit of advice. I really have messed up and don't know how or if I can fix this. I really like this guy, but I thought he had made it clear that he wasn't interested in me. His best mate started flirting with me and I stupidly...

My Bf says I should just fit in with his plans. So why can't he try to understand how difficult it is for me with my illness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4466 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - Hi all. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. I have depression and social anxiety disorder and this is already causing problems in our relationship. Before we started dating he knew I had these issues. (I've been on an...

Why didn't he reply to my message but did ask my friend about me? Are there feelings there for me?

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4 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy (let's call him B) a little over a year ago on a trip, he was friends with my best friend, we started dating while one our trip and decided to see where things would go after we were back in the city (we both live in the same city). ...

I fell for her pretty hard. Should I send her another message to check if she received the first one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

4 September 2012 (M) - So, there's this girl, let's call her X, I really like. We've known each other for a couple of years, and we worked together quite closely previously. While we were working together I fell for her pretty hard, but never made any moves or voiced my...

I know he likes me and I treasure his friendship. Should we just keep it that way?

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4 September 2012 (F) - I'm developing feelings for one of my best guy friends. He is two years younger than me. He has his silly moments but he is very thoughtful, detail oriented, reliable, supported, and makes me laugh like there's no tomorrow. However a few ...

I want a better, happier and non-abusive relationship. So who should I be considering? These are my current options.

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4 September 2012 (F) - Let me begin by saying Im a 46 yo female, Was married for 12 years, Divorced 3 years ago, Was in another abusive realtionship for 2 years, Been single for 6 months, I have dated alot, Recently I meet a man (50). We both are looking for the same thi...

How do cope with my Gf''s request and suggestion? She wants space, plus she suggested I date her friend.

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4 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now, and i love her to bits. we recently moved in together and it seemed perfect, but 2 weeks later she told me she was unhappy. we used to say we wanted to get married, and live a long l...

But what do I do? I love my ex but I can't hurt my Bf.

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4 September 2012 (F) - Okay. So I had a crush on my ex Bf for 8 months before we started dating. Then dated 6 more months. He dumped me because he was moving a few cities Away. We both started seeing other people. But I still love him. He told me he still loves me a...