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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

We still together now but I dont trust her anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi Guys, I have been going out with My GF for one year now. One day(3 weeks ago) I saw her Email. She met a man in her job, (in the bar) they have been Emailing and texting each other for a while now, and a lot of tempting words were in those mails, ...

She's not his ex, she's STILL his girlfriend even though I've been seeing him for 2 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I stumbled on this site and read a lot of sensible answers to questions. My boyfriend of two months and I seem to be on and off all the time. We seem to get close physically (we have not gone all the way) and then he wants to meet and tell me that ...

I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...

At times I get scared my bf has gone off me--how do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - i have shown insecurities to my boyfriend,i dont think he is cheating or anything like that,but i some times get scared he has gone off me or isnt coming round anymore.he says i'm being silly and stop worrying.how can i show i am over this,as i dont ...

I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with-he called her name out while making love to me! I am devastated. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with. They (with some others) went abroad working for around 4 weeks. I noticed when we were all out together she always went to the bar with him. When he got home he was annoyed with me b...

My bf told his friends he hates me, he lies and he has cheated! I am heartsick..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore...HELP! I have been with my b/f for 3 years march 2007, and we have a gorgeous 8 month old son Seth. We broke up Nov. 2005 b/c he didn't pay any attention to me and got back together in Feb. 2006 I found out I was ...

We plan on living together, soon..so why didn't he tell me he was going to try and get custody of his little girl?? I think I had a right to know about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I’m in a state of devastation right now. I’m in a relationship with this great guy for 2 years. I love him very much and he loves me very much. When I thought love can solve all problems in the future, I found out that I have doubts. We are looking ...

He hide his porn habit from me...how can I trust him when he does that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years now and I feel like were falling apart everyday. He has a major problem with porn. He looks at it almost everyday on the computer and tries to hide it from me. When we first got together I told ...

I don't trust my friend with anything now that she suddenly told her mom and sister in front of me about my pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - you see. i have this frined. ((call her girl)) and i went to her house the other day. we are quite good friends and i do tell her everything. she tells me everything and we keep it to ourselfs. only i went to her house and we was sat in her living ...

I still think about his lies and am concerned that I will never be able to trust him again and if you dont have trust, is the relationship going to work? Will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. I love him very much and we have recently bought a house together. Before we met he used to take cocaine. He knew that I was against it and so stopped... or so he told me. Over the years he sent ...

My ex raped me while we were still going out. He wants me back and being lovesick as I am, I want him back too, but I'm so scared he'll rape me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - It's not a question exactly but i need advice. I dont want you all to say that it's up to you and its your decision or alecture on young love n sex cos i know all that :S but.... I am 15 in a fortnight and my (bf/ex bf) is 17. We went out for 2 an...

He raped me and forced me to do things! Now he wants me back..should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - well it jus a question that i know i am the oe toanswer but i would like someone elses point of view. i am 15 in a fortnight. my ((bf/exbf)) is 17 i went out with him for 2 and a half months but i sed i didnt want to sleep with him and he sed ok ...

He wants to move into a house with a female work collegue and I am worried and suspicious. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I don't know whether I am over reacting about my boyfriend moving into a new flat with a female collegue, well when he says "flat", it is actually a room in HER house. What I don't understand is that he hasn't hired her yet (but he has known her for ...

My jealousy is getting out of control and I dont know how to handle it!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - im in a year long relationship and over time i have become more and more paranoid that my girlfriend is going to cheat one me. recently shes been goin to pubs and clubs etc with her friends and it makes me feel sick knowing that some guy could be ...

He told me that it was because of his ex wife and how she treated him, that he cant trust anyone anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - i met my bf about a year ago, at first things were great, he would call me almost every hour on the hour, want to see me, be with me, take me out, he wanted to do everything together, until about 2 months ago, when he started to change towards me, ...

am i being paranoid or what? Do you think she's seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - hi guys,am i being paranoid or what? my girlfriend of 2yrs has slowly been pushing me away, not turning up at my house on numerous occasions and when she does there is always an excuse, phone was flat out or misplaced it, she dont mms me as often in ...

He keeps talking about being with other girls and me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6452 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Hi I am going to start from the beginning. I left my husband of 8 years almost a year ago. I started dating my boyfriend shortly after I left my husband. We have now been together for 7 months and I love him very much. We just found out I am ...

I am in my 30's and I think that I have low self-esteem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Hello, I am in my 30's and I think that I have low self-esteem. People do give me good compliments about myself, and say that I am pretty, or beautiful and that I have a nice personality. I know that I treat people as I would like to be treated, but ...

He's getting vulgar texts from another girl but pretends he doesn't know who they're from, why won't he just admit he knows her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Why wont he admit it? My boyfriend is getting these texts from this girl who i know he know's.. she texts him dirty things and this isnt the first time.. he pretends that he doesn't know who its from.. why dont he just tell me.. or does he have ...

She doesn't want me to have any girl "friends", I can't believe her attitude!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6455 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend says that she would have been put off by me if i'd have had girl friends not relationships just girls as friends before i met up with her in person. I remember she used to get funny with me if i was chatting to another girl on ...

How can I be happy when Im with him and when I'm without him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend thinks very differently to me, he likes to take evry day as it comes, he doesn't feel the need to take me out for tea, or take me to cinemas, etc. he doesnt communicate very well, and doesnt really show his feelings, i have low self ...

My bf says his ex is the sexiest girl alive and talks about her w/ his friends! Is he trustworthy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I recently discovered that my boyfriend chats with his friends about his ex girlfriend. He told me once that I turn him off in bed. And that his ex girlfriend was the prettiest and sexiest girl that he has ever met. He swears that he is not i...

I was warned about his past and now he's checking out other girls! Should I dump him now or see how it goes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - can someone pls give me an insight as to why my b/f of 18 months dumps his girlfriends between 1-3 years,im so anxious that it will end soon for us even though he said he loves me,ive seen him eyeing up other girls and i feel angry that he could at ...

Is he just genuinely busy, or are these just excuses ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6455 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been with this guy for a month and a half. The problem with our relationship is that he is always busy with his work. He keeps assuring me that all will be fine , he tells me that he loves me all the time, but we see each othe...

Is he weird with me because he saw what I had on my phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6455 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Im a real worrier and something happened last night that really bothering me I kept getting prank calls last night In the end gave my phone to my bf to answer HE did and the call was disconected He kept hold of my phone for a bit incase they c...

I've fallen for her but she's reluctant, how can I nurture the loving feelings in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6456 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - I started law school last August and met a wonderful person. She is beautiful inside and out and I feel very connected to her. We can sit for hours and talk about anything. I consider her one of my best friends, and certainly the closest person ...

We got back together but.. we're having problems!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I just started our relationship over, hoping to forgive eachother for what we have done in the past and try and move on but still be together. We were having horrible problems and he was always hiding stuff from me. Especially on ...

Well my casual guy found out that i went on a date and he got really upset i think he likes me but im not sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Well..i was seeing this guy casually and he made it clear that it was no strings.. then we started talking on the phone and calling each other all the time. If we wernt on the phone then we would text each other.. Well i was sick of being just a ...

I think my boyfriend has cheated on me with his good female friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i get on really well were the best of friends and we are so in love however he works with a girl who for the past two years i have been extremely jealous of as much as i dont like her, my bf and her are still good friends, however ...

I cant stop thinking about him! Have I done the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6456 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - I broke it off with someone I was seeing because he is moving away and im scared of how much I will like him by then and how much it will hurt me. I cant stop thinking about him! Have I done the right thing?...

Am i depressed? I go to work, cook, clean, wash myself etc. So I don't feel depressed but he says i am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Am I depressed? My partner invited me to meet him, halfway through a work trip abroad, where i spent a weekend with him, but he spent most the time with his work colleagues with me tagging along (that's how i felt) and he bullied a female colleag...

Is it possible now for me learn a females sincere intentions and not gett used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - I am 25 and consider myself to be unlucky person to have not been loved by many people in this world, espceially by my own family members. This leaves me as the one who is craving for it, and sometimes in desperation that leads to being used by ...

My fiancee's friend is a bad influence on her and I can't make her realize it! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - Hi there, hopefully someone can help me out with this! I just need to get my head straight really. Simply put, my problem is that I can't stand my fiancee's friend. I don't have a problem with the rest of her friends, just this one. I use...

There is no trust, no affections and he gets aroused by gay porn! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Hi I need your advice as my relationship has come to a crisis point and am on the verge of ending it. We have been together two years. We are both in our late 40's. He has been previously married for 18 years, which he says he hated and he did...

He stole from my friend, he lies and I got him fired. Now he wants to date me again. Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - Alright, so i've been single for the past 6months or so and have been quite lonely. Well about a week ago someone from my past came back into my life. Around this time last year, me and my longterm boyfriend were on a seperation. Not a big deal for ...

An old friend has come into my life and my bf wants to meet him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - i've been with my bf for nearly 5yrs, and have met an old friend who i was previously attracted to and he has come back into my life. I think he is gorgeous, and he has a really nice personality. my bf doesn't know about him, and he has asked me to ...

He never answers his phone when I'm there which makes me feel so insecure, does he have someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - i have a dilemma! i came back home for easter and met the most amzing guy i have ever come across!! hes gorgeous, funny, kind, bought me wild flowers, took me for a picnic on the hills to watch the sunset.he just seems a bit too good to be true!!! ...

I think he may be seeing someone else, I just don't know if I trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6457 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - well here goes me and my fiance are going thru a hard time and i really dont know what to think! he says he loves me more than ill ever know but we were broken up for a month then got back together he was the one who contacted me and i was the one ...

We've got back together again after 6 years but I still find it hard to trust him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - My partner of 7 years left me when our youngest child was 6 weeks old. He left me for someone else although he swears he never cheated before he left. They broke up 3 months later and I had met someone else and fell pregnant but lost the baby. He ...

We've been together 6 years but I am so suspicious of his cellphone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - How can i trust my partner when he always has his mobile on silent, takes it everywhere with him (even to the loo) and has PIN numbers on it, so if anyone does pick it up they have no chance of using it. Sometimes I catch him "texting" but he alway...

My long distance boyfriend has told me he has many female friends online. Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - This is for all you single/married ladies an gents out here. What would you consider cheating? I have a b/f, that lives abroad and he has recently told me that he has many female friends online. He says hes not the jealous type, i told him i am. So ...

I love him but he got another woman pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - i met a man 5 years younger than me 4 years ago we had a great relationship it was long distance but it worked out fine until one night he went behind my back, we had an argument but sorted it out, from then we had our ups and downs but coz i ...

My 29 year old husband has been seeing a woman of 64!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - hello i was wondering if you can help me with this sensitive problem. i'm 23, my husband is 29 and we've been married for a year and together since we were 17. a good friend told me she'd seen my husband with a 64-year-old woman. she...

Now it is difficult for me to find some person who can share this sense of loneliness inside me. I wonder what should i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

22 April 2007 (M) - I am 25 yrs old guy and have had a bad patch of suffering from loneliness while i was in my final year of college. Then i met this girl online who seem to had similar issues. The difference was, that she was quite obsessive in her approach to meet ...

Should I ask him to hand me his cellphone so I can check there is no one else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - my bf texted me that im the girl that he wanted to live his life with that he encountered a lot of hardships just to win me and not even minding all of it because he loves me...im happy reading his texts, but the thing is am a little bit out of ...

A girl offered my boyfriend a blowjob...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Heya..Me and my boyfriend Dexter have been on and off for about 2 months now and at the start of the relationship he said he would stop smoking for me then admitted it was too hard to do so he didnt stop.. i appreciate him telling the truth but ...

An assault that occurred in my past..still affects me! How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - dear cupid,sorry if this is long. this is extremly hard to type so please please make it worth it...when i was 9 my best friend was going out with a 15 year old lad who was a total b****rd who cheated on her and i was scared of him very much. one ...

I'm prepared to give up the porn to keep her, but she acts so different now and I'm worried its too late and I've already lost her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

21 April 2007 (M) - Please help. My wife and I have been married for 8 years (Im 38 she is 37) and have a wonderful family. We have always shared a very special sacred relationship but sadly I have been using porn (nothing illegal) on and off even though I know she ...

Paranoid he doesn't like me when he doesnt contact me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6460 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a month but known him for 14 months. During the time we were just casual he went off with another girl and broke my heart. I haven't spoke to him or seen him since Monday and its now Saturday. I know we have both been ...

My boyfriend was looking at other women online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6461 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - I caught my bf looking online at other women but now he has deleted his profiles do you think this could be a red flag how can I trust him again?...