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writes:can someone pls give me an insight as to why my b/f of 18 months dumps his girlfriends between 1-3 years,im so anxious that it will end soon for us even though he said he loves me,ive seen him eyeing up other girls and i feel angry that he could at least show some respect and not do it while im with him. i was warned from friends and family about his past relationships and his reputation, now i realise that his behaviour and attitude towards me have been slowly declining these past weeks,should i take my chances and dump him or stay with him and see if there is any truth in what i was warned about. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): you are probably hoping you are the one to tame his old ways. it's unforunate that you have these bad expectations about your relationship. don't know what to tell you. it's stupid to break up with him over the possibility that he may break up with you but keep wary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): Look, this isn't as hard as you think. Let's look at the choices:
1) You stick with him and give him the chance to prove that he is indeed trustworthy and not just some flea who jumps from one to the next in a blink of an eye. The result? Two general possibilities: A) he draws you in, then has his sights on another girl, breaks your heart, and goes and screws around with etc, or B) he draws you in, he proves his worth, you two live happily ever after, the end with a pinch of salt.
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2) You don't stick with him and run away. Result? Two general possibilities: A) you find out in the months ahead that he's dumped 2 girls and is currently chasing after a skirt of a 4th and sleeping with the 3rd all the while, or B) time goes on and you see him once in awhile, and can't help but think of the "What if's" which might or might not drive you crazy which will make you come back to DearCupid asking for more advise, etc.
See what I mean?
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