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Archived questions from: February, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After 10 years my partner has become my room mate and I'm feeling bored.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1729 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do in this situation. I am 30 years of age and I've feel like I've had so much going on in my life for ages, I've not been able to have a clear head about what i want romantically. I've had a partner for 10 years, but ...

He says he will never marry me, which makes me think I am not good enough.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hey all been with my partner for a year I've moved in with him and it's going great he has 2 young children who he sees alot and we have a great time together. Hes been married twice and engaged once. I've been engaged twice and married once. We ...

She left because I didn't propose after 2 years of dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - Hi, I will quickly describe the situation, though I ask you to please not to condemn me harshly. I am in my upper 40s, never married. Met a woman two years younger, also never been married. We dated for two years. It has been my first long-term ...

How do I deal with discrimination from a co worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - So I’ve been at this job for almost 6 months now my coworker has been here for 8 and I’ve recently noticed that when I ask him a question directly he does not address me. Example: I was sending him a message on our IM system asking him a question ...

My sister is never there for me. Our relationship is so unbalanced

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

27 February 2020 (F) - I've been really depressed recently. I've had bad anxiety for years and it's really starting to get me down. I used to have times when it would come and go but now it's a constant. I've made a lot of changes like eating hwalthy, not drinking, ...

I feel like I'm being a bad friend but she isn't respecting my wishes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

25 February 2020 (M) - I'm upset at a friend and scared for our friendship. We used to be best friends but lately things haven't been going well at all. Long story short she positively ID bed bugs in her apartment. She asked multiple times if she could stay with me and I ...

My boyfriend has a leash on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

25 February 2020 (F) - I am starting to really dislike my boyfriends aunt because she has a leash on him. I want to clarify that I have been in a happy relationship for about 7 months now and I am really in love with him but I cannot deny that his aunt annoys me. I wo...

My friend was like a sister to me but then suddenly cut me off - why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

24 February 2020 (M) - I'm 27 and in a relationship, but this is a question about a friend. Before any of you jump in saying that it's weird for straight taken guys to have female friends, let me just say that I've had female friends since I was about 3 and that just ...

I went home for the weekend and returned to find my rented room trashed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

24 February 2020 (F) - Hi Agony people. Just wondering can someone tell me whether I’m right or wrong. Rent a room off a lady for college term. Stay Sunday night to Friday and go home every weekend. She is away but at the weekend her son had a party and some people ...

Is anyone else 'Asexual'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

24 February 2020 (M) - I'm a 26 year old man and have never had a relationship or any kind of sexual experience, ever. In truth I haven't even tried to because to be blunt; I'm just not interested in it. Going through puberty I did feel like I wasn't like my peers. Whilst ...

Roommates keep eating my food and making messes after or as I clean and then there's the dog.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

23 February 2020 (F) - I lived in the dorms freshman and sophomore year but now I live in a three-bedroom apartment with M, her boyfriend in the master bedroom and my friend H (gay male) in the second bedroom. I'm in the third bedroom. I brought my mini fridge, microwave, ...

Despite a live in boyfriend my life is a lonely one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

22 February 2020 (F) - I've been with my partner for almost 3 years. We have lived together for 8 months. When we are together I feel comfortable and content, most of the time. I am feeling lonely recently because he has been choosing to go out with his friends both Fri...

Troubled relationship with co worker involving politics has taken its toll on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

22 February 2020 (F) - Hi there, The nature of this post is dealing with work relationships rather than personal relationships. I've been at my company 5+ years. I recently achieved a significant award and recognition. I'm a field employee as opposed to internal mana...

I was asked to be a Matron of Honour, but I can't really afford it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

22 February 2020 (F) - To cut a long story short, my friend got engaged 6 months ago and asked me to be her maid of honour but since then she’s asked me to go to one wedding fair (which I couldn’t go to due to my child being ill) yet her bridesmaid has been to several ...

I'm broken from a cycle of cheating and being cheated on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

20 February 2020 (F) - My long term bf cheated on me few yrs ago so I had a revenge affair. it only brought misery and guilt to me when I found out my ‘affair partner’ is a serial womanizer. I broke up the affair 8 months ago but I’m not able to let go. Also I want to ...

My boyfriend keeps cancelling plans for me to visit him while deployed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

20 February 2020 (F) - My boyfriend is currently deployed. On 3 separate occasions we have made plans for me to travel to see him and he has canceled for one reason or another. Initially I bought into his excuses, but at this point I am skeptical. We have only been ...

Was it a good idea to make a fake account and test my lying boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1738 days ago

19 February 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. It's been a very rough relationship because we were always on and off because of his controlling behaviour. He lied to me about his age, his family and about him not talking to ...

Working with an ex, how do I keep things professional?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

19 February 2020 (F) - Dear cupids, 3 months ago a young calleague and I started getting closer at work and we started seeing each other. He's from the uk and has an ex gf with a 3 yr old daughter. Naturally i wouldn't go for a man with that sort of baggage, but we ...

My in laws have caused so much friction that my husband and I are on the verge of splitting up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

18 February 2020 (F) - Hi aunties.. firstly thank you for supporting me in this very tricky time in my life. I feel very alone at the moment and am struggling to make sense of everything going on.. so here goes... I was dating a lovely man for around 3 years before he...

I constantly feel pressure to have sex even when I just don't have the emotional energy and it makes me feel frustrated and resentful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1739 days ago

18 February 2020 (F) - I'm really confused about what to do and I need some advice. Thanks in advance. I'm 36 and engaged to my fiance. We have an exceptionally loving, caring, and loyal relationship. There's no issue there or question about that. Well about a ye...

I just moved in and everyone wants me to share my things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

17 February 2020 (F) - I just moved in to an apartment complex for low-income people. Before that, I was (1) ten days in a detox facility (2) 90 days in a rehab (3) one year in a Sober Living home and (4) six months in an (shared) apartment for ex-felons who are trying to ...

My ex boyfriend got angry about pics on social media.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1743 days ago

17 February 2020 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend about a month ago, we've not been in contact much since then, but he's gotten angry with me about a photo he found on Instagram. The photo in question is me with a Snapchat filter, the one with the bear ears and no...

Am I too messed up and damaged to ever have a happy relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

16 February 2020 (F) - I am 26 and have lived in a toxic, emotionally abusive household my whole life. I come from a culture where you're guilted into never moving out until marriage. (I'm saving up to move out as soon as I can though). Also, if I ever go no contact with ...

I want to let go of him with understanding not hatred

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

16 February 2020 (F) - I have a slightly odd question about a previous relationship that I'm still trying to figure out aspects of because I'm trying to heal and really move on. I am NOT the kind of person who just walks away from things. I know I give far more than I ...

My husband's actions have made me feel I'm not worth much anymore.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

15 February 2020 (F) - We've been married for two years now, but all these wounds that I've gotten during our relationship haven't healed. I want to move on so badly from everything but I don't know how. I want to say my anxiety is what is keeping me from thinking about ...

The man I've been going out with made sexual jokes about my friend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

15 February 2020 (F) - I have been going out with this lovely man for about 3 months now. We have been official for 1 month. I think he is a great man, goal-oriented, and self-driven. I really like his bubbly personality and how easy it is to interact with him. He mak...

This girl is bad for me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1744 days ago

15 February 2020 (M) - A long time ago in college there was a girl who was very close to me, very touchy feely and all that. I fancied her, had a really huge crush. Though I didn't know it, she had friend zoned me. One day she said she was moving to the west coast and ...

I need answers and support.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1747 days ago

12 February 2020 (F) - My last post here I got super judged on here and went into a depression. More then I already am. So please be kind. I m a 30 year old single mom of an amazing 4 year old. My child’s father and I were together (we never’ married) for 5 years and ...

When my partner gets mad I get the silent treatment

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1748 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - I have this ongoing issue with my bf of 5 years. Whenever he gets mad at me, he gives me the silent treatment. Sometimes it's a few hours; sometimes it's days. He's even gone a few weeks, which was absolute torture, but I'm getting better at ...

My boyfriend needs help to move on from the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1751 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and a few days ago he felt very vulnerable and opened up to me about his past. I knew that he suffered but he didn't open up until now. He told me that his mom and dad got a divorce wh...

I want to separate from my wife but I can't afford to

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1752 days ago

10 February 2020 (M) - Hi Aunts! My wife and I have been together for 27 years (no kids) but things haven't been good for most of them. I am at the point where I don't necessarily want a divorce, but I want to get away from her think things through. She would proba...

I feel guilty for wanting out of this toxic relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1752 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Why do I feel so guilty about wanting out of this toxic relationship? It's killing me inside, almost daily to think that it's finally coming to an end. Backstory 7 years, 4 kids. My daughter from a previous relationship (8) his 2 from a previous ...

My husband's relationship with his friend is strange

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1753 days ago

8 February 2020 (F) - Hello I have been having issues with my husbands friend. I have told my husband several times but he acts like I'm the issue. For example this guy has said alot of negative untrue things about me in the beginning of our marriage. My ...

Is my daughter's three way relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1750 days ago

7 February 2020 (F) - My daughter is in a ridiculous ‘relationship’ with a man and another girl. How can I get her to see sense and realise that it will never work in a million years? It’s been going on for about 7 months now, although up until last week I thought she ...

A girl he has never met sent my boyfriend a video of her boobs.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

7 February 2020 (F) - My partner of 2 years has been amazing but in December I sadly found a girl had sent him a video of her showing her boobs and it really hurt me Cos he saved it and he promised me him and this girl were just mates they never met up but still it hurt ...

I've ended my 8 year relationship but cant get him to move out with his dog.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1756 days ago

6 February 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve just ended my relationship of 8 years last week the problems was for the last 3 years he has slept i the spare room I was stupid for letting it go on that long looking back he stopped trying to have we’d with me so I’m the end I gave up ...

Should I reach out to my younger friend that hasn't stayed in touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1756 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - I have a friend who I thought was one of my closest friends - we went through several years of college together and grew very close, but she hasn't been in touch for over five months now and I am not sure what to do. I invited her to come and stay...

I'm scared I'm just wasting my time with this man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1755 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - Background: Approaching 30, been together 1.5 years, known each other for years before that. Generally great relationship, we share a lot of interest and have a similar sense of humour and have a great sex life. Issue: he has never brought up ...

I'm feeling guilty because for 2 years my married LDR lover has thought I am dead

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1756 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - I am separated with 3 children, in short, I am a single mother. My story is...I had a long-distance affair with a married man from 2006 to 2017. I met him once in Hongkong and Our relationship was wonderful but also painful. I love him a lot but ...

Boundaries boyfriends and ex boyfriends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1758 days ago

2 February 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Normally I dont post things on the internet asking for the help of perfect strangers, but I have a couple questions and situations that I feel like Im acting childish about, but still cant help but disagree, and am not sure how ...

I have a partner but I'm in love with another man who doesn't love me back, and feel like my whole world is falling apart. I feel lost and heartbroken, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1759 days ago

2 February 2020 (F) - Hi there. This is going to be a big one, I'd appreciate if people don't go too hard on me as I've never spoken to anyone about this before and I feel really depressed about the situation. I'm 27 and I've been with my partner for 9 years, living ...

My partner and I are arguing a lot more since our baby was born.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1759 days ago

1 February 2020 (F) - So I had a baby boy 7 months ago and myself and my partner have argued more since having a baby than we have in the 6 and a half years we’ve been together! I’m really struggling with becoming a mother as I am not very maternal, I also lost my mother ...

My girlfriend is addicted to prescription drugs.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1760 days ago

1 February 2020 (M) - I met a girl a few months ago and generally hit it off. We have lots in common, we’re looking for similar things in life and from each other, and she’s beautiful. She is a lovely caring person. Very smart. Adventurous. I could go on... Obviously ...