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Archived questions from: November, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Our sex is becoming just sexual gratification for his sordid fantasies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

30 November 2018 (F) - I need help. I'm concerned about my boyfriends sexual orientation/preference. We have been dating for 4 years now, as the 4 years have progressed his sexual habits have changed. He isn't tame , it's always got to be depraved , he's always got to ha...

Trying to force me to have an abortion but still seeming to care.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

29 November 2018 (F) - I have been in an on - off relationship for 2.5 years, mostly on, and very passionate. The man in question is an MD of a large company, but had just finished with his wife of 20 years when we started our relationship. He told me that they had been ...

How to deal with a needy friend who’s staying over the Christmas?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

29 November 2018 (F) - (sorry I've just realized how long this post is) She’s a friend I’ve known all of my life. Our fathers were best friends. She has always been extremely needy and I’ve dealt with it and not always in a good way (meaning that I would often say ...

I work with a younger doctor and am very confused about his behavior around me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

28 November 2018 (F) - Am a hospital nurse, a worker, not a boss or manager, am quieter, do my thing, am not full of ego, work quietly and am polite. Am gay. Yeaterday at work this cocky, arrogant young Dr (maybe 27-28) makes a comment to a male nurse (steve) my ag...

I'm lonely and need friends but I am worried that at my age the only friends I may make now will be "messed up" people.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

27 November 2018 (F) - I am nearly 50 and I am often lonely. I'm a 'high achiever' I suppose. Very highly educated, employed, fairly healthy but very low energy and a history of depression (which I've never told anyone about, but tended to hide, fearing rejection). I ha...

Why would a mother do this to her own children? Where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2169 days ago

27 November 2018 (F) - It will be two years in February since i stopped talking to my mother. Myself and my sister found out she had been telling a lot of strange lies about us behind our backs for years. I always thought the rest of the family and family friends were ...

We've been together for 5 years and my partner just gets lazier and lazier

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship have been for 5 years now but my partner is getting lazier and lazier by the day he goes to work which is a very easy job I get up on a morning get our 2 kids up get them ready for school do breakfast get myself ready and ...

I'm beginning to feel that its me vs my boyfriends flatmates

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Been with my partner for about a year and half (the first year was spent being long distance) before he moved back up here where we see each other every weekend (due to work). Lately, I have felt we are arguing/disagreeing more and I'm getting ...

I'm flying 1/2 way across the world to see me girlfriend who is probably going to break up with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

25 November 2018 (M) - For the past few months, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 6 years. The long distance is supposed to last another 5 months. I'm planning to visit her next week for a few days on my way to a conference, and then again ...

My pregnant best friend and I had a misunderstanding and now she won't talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

25 November 2018 (F) - My best friend who recently got pregnant stopped talking to me over a small mis understanding. I was having a really shitty day at both personal and professional life and to vent i posted something somewhere..she assumed it was was her and went ...

I think he’s an alcoholic and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2179 days ago

24 November 2018 (F) - I think my boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do. I think he would be called a high functioning alcoholic, he has a good job, a nice house and a car. Drink really doesn't interfere with work. But he drinks nearly every day...

I want to end the relationship but I'm scared I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

23 November 2018 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship for 6 years we have a 3 yr old son lately all I think about is ending the relationship I’m not happy at all he does nothing for our child I do everything in the house I go to work and I look after our son the problem is I’m ...

Did she not change her status because she hasn’t given up on us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2181 days ago

22 November 2018 (M) - Hi, Thank you in advance for reading and hopefully giving me some advice. I will do a quick background on me, I'm Dave I'm 33, I have a son he lives with his mum but I have regular contact with. Right where to start, I have been in a new relatio...

My boyfriend who is broke pretends to take control of my economy and my bank.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2181 days ago

22 November 2018 (F) - Me (22) and my boyfriend (26) went on a trip that we didn´t plan. At first it seemed like a good idea because he was about to get some money for having quit his job, and someone was about to send him money that the person owed to me. I spent al...

My boyfriend's best friend doesn't like me and is trying hard to get him away from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

21 November 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for around six months. I have a 16 month old son so things have gotten pretty serious between the pair of us. The relationship is great and he’s going to propose at Christmas. However his best friend never li...

My best friend and my boyfriend were flirting with each other on my b-day right in front of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

20 November 2018 (F) - I went out for my birthday with my boyfriend. We met up with friends. Later in the night my best friend came to join us in a bar. We all sat around a table, me, a friend, my boyfriend and best friend sat next to each other. They were both very ...

My insecure girlfriend hacked into my social media to spy on me and I don't feel good about our relationship now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

20 November 2018 (M) - My girlfriend recently opened up that she has trust issues and that she hacked into my instagram just to spy on me. She felt so because I have more female friends compared to men, but the thing is this has been the case with me since childhood. She ...

I think he's going through a midlife crisis he went to Thailand and met a girl and he doesn't know that I know

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2182 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - I have been dating a man for over a year who has just recently gone through a divorce. (Nothing to do with me). I felt he used me as a punching bag as he was very angry about the divorce although I knew he loved me. He stopped speaking to me f...

He has been texting someone he met in a dating site

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - I've been with my Other Half (OH) for 2 years and have really felt as though he is the one. I've trusted him completely and yet the other day, when I silenced an alarm on his phone, I see Facebook messages between him and another woman that he ...

Should I talk to him about my concerns? Or just cool things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2186 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - Hi all, wanting some relationship/life advice please! I split up from a long term relationship back in June this year. I lived with him for 3 years, we were together about 3.5 years and it ended badly with no closure. I was very much in love wit...

Is there a genuine man out there who will not take advantage of me and use my weaknesses against me? How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

17 November 2018 (F) - How did you regain trust once you lost it for the oppsotite sex . I have a very hard time trusting men. I have had few ralsrionships and one long one - I have only been open and the “real” me in my first relationship with my ex bf (5years) where he ...

My boyfriend throw my things away without even asking me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

16 November 2018 (F) - My boyfriend keeps throwing my things away without asking me or, worse, even after I have told him not to. We live in a relatively small flat and don’t have a lot of space so he thinks it’s ok to just throw things away that he thinks are taking up ...

Why is he acting like he has a broken heart when he is the one that rejected me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

15 November 2018 (F) - Since past 3 weeks me and this friend of mine didnt had good time. We had been through cold issues, ignored each other, pretended to be okay yet it was hearbreaking for both of us and then got back again. All of this we (rather I went through) just ...

Why is my coworker acting hot and cold?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - There is a male co-worker, "John", that works in another department. When I first started, I thought that he was cute and funny. He seemed kind of shy and wouldn't talk to me when we were alone, only when other people were around. One time he came ...

I'd like to apologize to someone that I still like even though he now has a girlfriend. Should I and if so how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - I think someone who I still have feelings for lives in my area and has recently moved here with his girlfriend,he is aware of where I live and doesn't like me due to what happened between us which I just accept and have learnt from it . I may be ...

My LDR knows all about me while I know very little about him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - Hi! In need of some opinions on my long distance relationship. I'll give you the backstory: We've been together for almost a year now, meeting on a dating app but didn't date right away. At the time we were matched, I learned that he was just in the ...

I need to tell my family that I was duped!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - Hi All. Please bear with as this is quite complicated. So I’m 30 years old, had a few relationships before my current one. This time i thought it was never going to end. We have been living together for 4 years. He is of a different race religi...

Baby daddy is secure financially but I love a poor refugee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship with the father of my daughter and I live with someone else ...my baby daddy is okay ...he can provide ...he loves me very much ...and his financially doing fairly ...the guy I love with is a refugee and broke...but we love ...

She lied, is this a red flag or is it too early in the relationship for me too care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

13 November 2018 (M) - I went on a date with a girl, it was great and we've been chatting a lot since. She asked to meet me again in a few days. The first date was friday. The second date will be the following tuesday. However, i have found out she has lied to me about...

My husband has had numerous affairs and somehow it's all my fault! Will he ever accept me and make me feel good about myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am the most pathetic person I have been married for 28 years. When we met we lived a long way from each other and eventually I moved 250 miles to where he lived. At the time this was because his job was better paid than mine but I now realise ...

Why is the sex so stale? Is he not into me? Or am I doing something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2191 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - I'll just jump right into it. Basically, I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. Been a few bumps along the way (pretty much all on my side but nothing too serious, some problems with trust due to past etc.) but that's aside from my po...

He's extremely possessive and mentally abusive but I still love him. Advice please!!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Hi. I am new to this so very nervous. I really need some advice about my partner. I have been with him for just over a year and I feel like I can't do anything right. He mentally abuses me constantly..well this is what I'm guessing it is?! He will ...

I’m pregnant and confused and worried about what I should have happen next!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Just wanted to ask others opinions on this subject. Basically i have quite a bit of bad look with relationships, i have my own house and and have been living on my own now with just my dog and rabbit which is how i like it for 3 years now. I did ...

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deep...

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

11 November 2018 (M) - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

I can't believe he couldnt see how I felt.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I love a guy who is a good friend of mine and he doesnt know that I love him. At present we are not at all in talking terms. Let me explain how all this happened. 6-7 months back it came to my realization that I love him because I sensed jealousy...

My head is everywhere and I can't make a decision.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 16 months and he left to go Australia in Feb this year, I knew from the start that that was his plans and I was fine with it and both decided to keep things the same way knowing with it being a long distance ...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

I love him but I feel sad and ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - Hello everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, but things have been rocky lately. Here's a little background info: i'm 27 and he's 36 years old, and has 4 kids. I do not have any kids of my own. Things were good in the beginn...

I feel pathetic, its seven years and I am still not over him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - Hi all, I’m going to keep this short and sweet and any help and advice is greatly appreciated. I was in a long distance relationship that ended in 2011 because my partner got depressed due to me always leaving to go back home. I’m Scottish and he’...

I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2192 days ago

9 November 2018 (M) - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

Should I apologize before the concert or just leave it alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

8 November 2018 (F) - When we were dating, I had given my ex a Louis Vuitton necklace. After we broke up, I knew he would just throw it away, so I asked for it back and he said he would mail it. A week later, it hadn’t come in the mail, so I texted him and asked if he ...

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2195 days ago

8 November 2018 (M) - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she ...

My boyfriend doesn't want children, my mother is heartbroken.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

8 November 2018 (F) - I met my boyfriend 1 year ago. He is 40 and I am 30. He told me about 3 months into the relationship that he does not want to have any children. I am confused because I am not sure if I want to have any. I know that my current circumstances will not ...

My sex obsessed friend makes me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - I have a best friend who is obsessed with sex. He talks about sex endlessly. He details everything he does with every guy (he’s gay). Every week there is someone new, every week the sex was amazing and without really checking I’m interested he will ...

We are on a break but working on our relationship ... he doesn't understand how his actions affected me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2196 days ago

7 November 2018 (F) - 7 months ago, my ex and I broke up, mutually. Our relationship was long-term. A few days after our breakup I accidentally read a conversation in his facebook account between him and a female friend. The conversation was very intimate, and almost ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....