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writes:A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice..
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (7 November 2018):
 If she claims to love you, why hasn't she dropped the other guy?
Are you prepared to marry a cheater? Because THAT is what she is.
And do you think a ring on her finger will STOP her from cheating on YOU on the future?
You can either give her an ultimatum - end it with you and cut all contact, or break up with the LDR guy and cut all contact.
Or you can take some time and figure out if she REALLY is a good match for you long term.
WHY are you OK hooking up with a woman who is cheating on her partner?
HOW would you feel if YOU were the LDR guy?
It's easy enough to say "I love you" to someone (see, I just wrote it?!) but actually showing it and KNOWING what it is to give and receive love might be VERY different.
Personally, I would NEVER marry someone who was two-timing their partner AND me. Regardless of it being a LDR or not. Just no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018): Finish what you are doing with her, if she wants to be with you she will finish it with the boyfriend, that's fair on him and you
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (7 November 2018):
 She wants both until one of you leaves. Stop talking to her and no more sex. If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn’t have a boyfriend. You give her the sex her long distance boyfriend can’t give her - that’s it.
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