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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I scared him off but I want him back...but how??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - There was this guy. I knew him from high school and we were always friends with a very strong connection. He liked me but I always had a boyfriend and frankly I thought he was weird. We talked briefly in December and stopped because I was going ...

Do you think I my married lover is tiring of me? In the beginning we talked. Now he only sends a text

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this married man for 8 months now, who doesn't have sex with his wife I guess. He is 38 and I am 22. He was my first lover. He took me to his house 3 times and we never had actual sex because I said I want to remain a virgin. ...

My dad seems suspicious of me and I'm afraid he'll have my aunt restrict me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone I really need some advise.. I recently moved to a different country to study and even though I'm living my aunt, my dad keeps on calling me everyday and honestly, it's a very intensive course and sometimes I don't pick due to the fact ...

He caught me in a small white lie about my smoking cannabis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - Ok so I told a small white lie to my boyfriend that I hadn't smoked cannabis in a while but he found out I had infact the day before but it was only a tiny bit and I didn't enjoy it anyway. When he got with me he knew I smoked and had given up...

Had a bad last day at work and my boyfriend just made jokes about it instead of listening. Would a good partner react this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - Hi members. I think my boyfriend is selfish and not understanding in this situation I will write about. What do you guys think? Would a good boyfriend react this way?? It was the last day of my job today and after telling him I had a bad day at...

Is becoming angry a normal reaction to being accused of cheating?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - If you accuse your boyfriend of cheating and he says he is remaining calm because if he doesn't he will become violent and walk out the door and never come back, would that raise a red flag? He said he doesn't like being called a cheater. Is t...

I feel bad for my pregnant sister as her mother in law is so mean to her. Sometimes I wish she would get divorced. What can I do to support my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - Hello everyone.. I have a problem that is about my sister.. It really affects me and i feel so bad for her ! My sister has a mother in law or should i say a devil in law... She has done nothing but try to ruin my sisters marriage.. Cause...

Am I right in that my friend has picked yet another controlling unpleasant boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - Try and keep this brief. Best friend has form for allowing guys to treat her like a doormat. She's been single ten years and approaching 40 and she's suddenly thrown away all her previous dealbreakers - must have plenty of time for her, not hav...

Why he'd come back after 3 years after things ended so horribly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - Long story short, I was briefly acquainted with a man 3 years ago and it went downhill very fast. We were supposed to be strictly friends and things started getting weird and complicated with attraction and feelings and miscommunication. We were ...

I love my boyfriend but am concerned that love isn't enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for just over a year with my boyfriend - I'm 25 and he is 23. He is an amazing boyfriend, he is my rock and my best friend. He got me through a tough time and is totally supportive of me, we rarely ever argue. My family ...

Is there hope that my mother will learn to love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - So my mother and I have always had a weird relationship. One minute I'm the best thing that ever happened to her, the next, she will ignore me for days or weeks. Long story short, she had me when she was 20, and finally told me after having d...

Its hard since a co-worker every day when I still have feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - I have liked someone at work for quite a while, and have always had a good relationship, quite flirty and friendly, but i never really knew if they liked me back. They've recently admitted their feelings (while drunk) and then changed their mind, ...

How can I believe him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of three years has always said that he doesn't get anything from looking at pictures/movies of women (porn, etc). He has also said that he doesn't like fake boobs and that natural big boobs get gross over time. He made a big point of ...

Boyfriend fails on work related questions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - Please help me understand his thoughts. I can't seem to be able to talk to my boyfriend about work related things. I'm senior management and when talking to my boyfriend about taking on new tasks or training/motivating my team, his one and only res...

How Can one forgive BETRAYAL of someone you love, cheating and now the the woman is pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - I met the man of my dreams, my best friend over a year ago. we live together and his kids come over every other weekend " I Love Them". we went on vacation 5- months ago and I saw a girl kept calling? I asked who is she then my life forever cha...

I really messed up on my job and don't know how to fix things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - Hi all, I need some help, I am suffering from terrible anxiety and I don't know where to start. To give you some background. I am 35 living in London and had a job I love for 4 years as head of a team at PR agency, I had crap 2015, my dad ...

Struggling with my sexuality because of bad experiences with women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

26 September 2016 (M) - I know what the problem is, I just don't know how to fix it. Growing up, every experience I've ever had with women was bad, including my own psycho mother. A part from just being friends, women left a really bad taste in my mouth. Sometime ...

Partner no longer enjoys lovemaking and it is becoming a dealbreaker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

26 September 2016 (M) - Hey all, I've been with my partner for 2 and a half years now and for the first while our sex life was crazy good. We were both on exactly the same page with the things we were into and the high sex drive we both had. One day it was really sore for...

He always wants to hang out but then starts talking about other girls. Where do I stand with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - So a couple months ago i met a nice guy at a friends party. We hit it off since that night and exchanged numbers and have been talking ever since. We've gone on several dates now and hang out often. He always seems to send me mix signals. He always ...

I told my chick friend who has kids that I won’t date women who have kids and she seems to have taken offense?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

26 September 2016 (M) - A couple of months ago I moved to a bigger city along with my chick friend who has kids. We don't live together but since we don't know anybody in this town we occasionally hang out. We are both really close since we went through a big ordeal in our ...

My fiance is disrespectful to me. Do I make him jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - My fiance has been disrespectful to me. Whenever we argue, he quickly storm up and get out from the room. But while he is nice, hes so thoughtful about me. I feel he has avoidant personality and doesnt have much empathy. He is not used to be l...

Is it selfish if I get mad at my boyfriend's appearance and silly behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - Is it selfish if I get mad at my boyfriend's appearance and silly behavior? Once he joked about we're having budget marriage with other bridegrooms in a ballroom. He also joked about the pressure of marriage in front of my friends. He said marriage ...

I want to be courted but the men seem to want to go from "hi" to sex immediately!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

24 September 2016 (F) - How do I always get the opposite of what I want? I've always been told I should go on "more than just a few dates" before I get in a relationship. But there ARE NOT even that many dates. Men just want to go straight from hi to relationship. Or, just ...

Lots of issues... Younger girlfriend, torrid past, immature, we're not gelling sexually... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

24 September 2016 (M) - So I'm 30 dating a 24 year old and I'm finding it very difficult in a few ways. One that bothers me is how many guys and the caliber of guys she's been with before me. Since we've been dating she has told me some stories and it raised some red ...

May boyfriend just doesn't seem to be what I need. Do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

24 September 2016 (F) - My brother got into a serious accident yesterday, I ran out of work to see him. It was my old car I had left for my mom to go to work. The car was demolished. I was counting on that car for income and now I'm in such financial trouble I can't sleep. ...

Is my partner setting things up to look for a fight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

24 September 2016 (F) - My partner is very forgretful. He puts his phone down and forgets where and says he cant find it. Then he pushes up the stress by indirectly accusing me or someone else of taking it. Then he gets aggressive and abusive to me, telling me I get...

Fiance lied about her age

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

24 September 2016 (M) - I've been with my fiance for 2.5 years and we are legally getting married in 2 weeks. When filling out the paperwork i noticed she kept writing the wrong age. It was only a year difference but later that day she told me she us actually a year older ...

Is it me? My Gf of 4 years just doesn't make any effort. Leaving me seriously unsatisfied

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

23 September 2016 (M) - I am really frustrated in my relationship. My girlfriend of 4 years I feel doesn't make effort. Or maybe it's me? We used to have a lot of sex, nearly daily. As routines changed this has reduced which is normal. Now in a week it's once and if I wak...

How should I handle her reaction? I feel I'm being completely blown off by my FWB friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 September 2016 (F) - So I've got a Fwb relationship that's been on going for quite some time now. Roughly 10 months. We have been friends since 2012 but the sleeping together started last November. This is not your typical fwb relationship. I've never had a relation...

Should my ex and I get back together? We were Bf and Gf together since adolescene until we broke up in February

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend in Feb. We were together nearly 20'years but we had a rocky relationship as he has a lot of issues. He had a rebound relationship pretty quickly after we ended and now he has split from his girlfriend. ...

Should I hang on to this relationship or part ways so we both can recover and finally move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hi , my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost 9 months now and it's been a long distance relationship since the beginning ! We had entered this relationship thinking that we wanted to marry each other . He had even proposed...

Frustrated by petty character assassinations and deceptions. Am I caught between two rather exploitive "friends!" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - I think i might be caught between two rather exploitive "friends!" Being of a kind nature i tend to help rather than hurt but if my intuition is anywhere over 50% ,then i believe i have seen my situation for exactly what it is! It is draining to m...

My family doesn't want us to be together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - I hav a boyfriend whom I love so much,and he loves me in return but my parent don't want us together and I can't leave him for another man so pls help me out on what to do....

I can't get over him (he seems interested too). But he's in a long distance relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - (Sorry for the very very lengthy explanation, there is a quick summary at the end if you want to skip the novella) A while back a guy started in my office and I was immediately interested. We started as friends but I knew he'd never like me ...

Am I insecure? Or just a fool for wanting to be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I'm finally trying to keep the strength of avoiding contact with someone who Never clearly took me serious in the 1st place it hurts soo bad..we've driven past eachother twice and both occasions he pretends to be on his phone or put his head down ...

I'm having doubts that my fiance loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

21 September 2016 (M) - I feel as though my fiancée is not in love with me anymore because our whole relationship has changed. We use to make love with no problem but now it seems like a complete drain for her. I do everything for her with all my love in heart but I am ...

My boyfriend makes purchases with my credit and doesn't pay them off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hello. Last year my bf bought an iphone. He didnt have the money to buy it so he borrowed my credit card and he is making the payments. I realized he hasnt pay the full amount and it has been a year already but he makes monthly payments. Yesterday ...

Should I just block this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I am in my 40s and did ask a question previously on here about this man who I had seen at our local coffee shop. The background I used to see him at my local pub but not to talk to many years ago and then he ended up moving to the same village that ...

Broke up with friends. What was my former friend trying to say? should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I had friends who i just broke up with because they were beginning to be close friends with someone I know very well. She can't be trusted. I explained to them why i don't trust her and since we live in the same commune i know her better than they ...

Could his actions when near me mean anything at all? Psychologically? Or am I being delusional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - So Today In class during a lab, the guy i am badly crushing on was standing right next to me. We attend all classes together, he almost all the time stands very quietly, but when he was standing next to me, he was moving a lot and cracking...

What do I do? I love him, but I don't feel loved in return

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now he had a bad childhood which has affected his adult life the problem is he doesn't know how to show love or deal with normal things in a relationship. He is nearly 30 yr old but acts like a teenager...

Will he come crawling back again, soon, to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hi I have gone my separate ways from my on off boyfriend again. We don't live together, and he has recently started back to college as a mature student and he told me hes very stressed out and has loads going on around his head and has family i...

I want my sister back in my life but how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

21 September 2016 (M) - I (18,M) was playing basketball with my sister's (28,F) boyfriend CJ (25,M) a few days ago, and I was really starting to get frustrated because he's like 6 foot 4 and I'm 5 foot 4 so it was a blowout. He was talking a lot of trash and tried ...

Male coworker blows hot and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I'm wondering about this situation. Explanation is a bit long so bear with me. I have a new coworker who is in the cubicle next to mine. He is probably 5 or so years younger than me. He is best friends with another coworker (female), which is how he ...

Am I overreacting after boyfriend canceled plans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I'm 42; my boyfriend is 64--but we have a lot in common: musical interests, nightlife, movies, books, politics, travel, etc. We get along pretty well and have been dating for about four years. However, I don't feel like a priority. I know the s...

Do you think he just wants to have me in his life in some type of way??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

20 September 2016 (F) - After almost 2 years and no advancement I guess moving on is best, but what's confusing is when I cut him off he makes effort with the "I miss you and I love you" and he tells me he does want marriage and to be happy with me but he never stress me ...

Should I go home? How do I ask if I can go home? Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

20 September 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I left home 6 months ago before I sat my final school exams because I was in a really bad place emotionally and I felt I needed to get away. The day I left my mother begged me to go home and I told her i couldn't do that. But now I wa...

Would the average guy spend 1.5 hours in a store or was he lying?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Is it possible for a guy - your boyfriend - to be in a store for 1.5 hours??? The same store??? He was out for awhile and I asked him about it and he said he was at an auto parts store for that long. He said he was browsing. That there were lots ...

LDR has it cooled, he finds it boring or...???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - I would really appreciate some advice and your opinion. I've been in a LDR for a little over a month. We were together for a week before he had to leave and go back home (another continent!). We've been texting and talked over the phone a bit (I'...

Troubled relationship with a co worker that I don't know how to fix

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - I'm having a lot of trouble with a woman at work, for the sake of this I'll call her Janet. we used to get on really well and I did fancy a lot her however after 6 months of trying i didn't seem to be getting anywhere and I chose to move on and be ...