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writes:Dear Cupid, I left home 6 months ago before I sat my final school exams because I was in a really bad place emotionally and I felt I needed to get away. The day I left my mother begged me to go home and I told her i couldn't do that. But now I want to go home. I miss my brother and sisters and it eats me up inside that I haven't seen them in months. But I don't know how to ask to go home? Also if I go home, I feel like they won't just accept me back - they'll make me feel worse for walking away in the first place. So should i go home? How do I ask if I can go home? Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2016): call mum and if she doesnt pick up and it clicks to answer a phone just leave the message "hi mum , its me! How are you all doing? I miss you all you know! I'll call again later!Maybe you'll be in on (day of week)!By d way mum i'd like to come home soon! Im just checking in with you!"Mum will be delighted, hardly able to believe her good fortune to hear your voice again!But if you change your mind dont let her down by going off the map again cos she will worry!Just show up or call up!If you have her mobile number just send her a text she knows is from you and she will call you back as soon as she gets it!But try calling the mobile when she'not at work or driving etc and see if you can get through first time!Your mum will think xmas just arrived to hear you talking to her again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2016): Sweetheart, if your mother begged you to come home; you'll be welcomed with open-arms.
You miss your family, and they've missed you enough to plead for you to come home. You showed some maturity and independence by sticking it out, and not running from your problems. Now you can go home and have a talk with your mother to sort things out. Nothing like her caring and attentive stare into your eyes, as you pour-out your heart. Her loving arms and hugs are a prescription no medication in the world can compare to.
Go home at once, sweetie. They're all waiting for you. Put your pride aside. You need them, they'll energize you and make you stronger.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (20 September 2016):
 I agree with Honey Pie, call home and speak to your mother, my guess is that she wants you back just as much as you want to come back. We all make mistakes. You needed space to clear your head and now you have done that. So pick up the phone and call your mum, you have nothing to lose.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 September 2016):
 You call your mom and you tell her how you feel.
My guess is, she will suggest you move home before you even ask to move home.
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