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writes:I'm finally trying to keep the strength of avoiding contact with someone who Never clearly took me serious in the 1st place it hurts soo bad..we've driven past eachother twice and both occasions he pretends to be on his phone or put his head down like he didn't see me should I be even more offended??Even tho I showed him nothing but love and loyalty he still didn't take me serious was I lacking something?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 September 2016):
 It is not nice when someone who we care about hurts us. You need to let him go. He is pretending not to see you so that he does not have to communicate with you. There could be a lot of reasons for this. It could be that he simply has no interest in you, or he is embarrassed to talk to you from the way he treated you. Either way it still hurts you. It is not that you are lacking something it is simply that he is not interested. Yes that is difficult and I can see why you would blame yourself. But you shouldn't. He is the one playing games not you. Block him and remove him from your life.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 September 2016):
 Are YOU lacking?
Well, yes.
You are lacking the good common sense that should tell you that you are NOT responsible for HIS lack of caring, lack of class, lack of interest and lack of human decency.
The truth is most likely that you were more into him than he was into you, but you WANTED this guy so badly (for whatever reason) that you allowed him to treat you like that.
Consider that THIS man can't even be civil with you. Because he has no spine. Or ... he just can't be bothered.
LET the fantasy go. The guy you thought he was is NOT who he is, so it's time to stop beating yourself up and set yourself free. You are wasting your time, energy and emotions on a guy who isn't worth it. Mentally cut this dead weight off. (him)
Go on YouTube, look up Matthew Hussey. Watch his videos.
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