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writes:I have liked someone at work for quite a while, and have always had a good relationship, quite flirty and friendly, but i never really knew if they liked me back. They've recently admitted their feelings (while drunk) and then changed their mind, and I can't help being annoyed and hurt by them. However, they don't seem to think they have done anything wrong and are continuing to try to talk as normal and i don't know what to do! I would like it go back to normal as we had a fun relationship before and i don't like holding grudges, but i just know that if i do i will still like them and have part of me resent them for how they acted towards me, and i feel like they'd be getting away with their behaviour, which was not kind. seeing them every day at work when i still have feelings for them is hard!
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reader, ashleighkaylin  +, writes (7 January 2018):
 Get away with his or her behavior of what? Flirting when he or she only liked the attention? I think he/she said he/she liked you while drunk bc many people say anything while drunk. Before my dad got saved, he drank a lot and said all kinds of mean things. He didn't mean it at all. He was just drunk and mad at himself, the world, and God. He was even meaner to his kids when they were little but he didn't mean it. He made lots
Of nice promises he didn't mean-just like your friend did. I would suggest not drinking so much, especially with a coworker. I know flirting is fun, but you might want to hold off till you're not at work. And maybe not at all if he/she I'd leading you on!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2016):
 Be honest with him, tell him that he hurt you and that you would like some distance from him.
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