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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don'...

My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...

Husband's uncle is causing problems in our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My husbands uncle is very jealous of our relationship in fact some people have told me that he never stops talking about us like hes obsessed. He tells my husband to do things behind my back and he can get him another woman etc.. he never likes us ...

Should I forgive him? Can we work through this or do I write off the last five years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Hey guys I really need some advice. So here goes ... I have been together with my boyfriend *dave ( not his real name) for about 5 and years and a half. We live together, we have a dog we have joint bank account I mean everything we are basically ...

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...

Is this man attracted to his daughter and possibly her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years, we got engaged but his daughter had become jealous and wanted me out of there, so we are no longer engaged. He engages in alot of pornography, and while snooping I came across lots of fantasies about ...

I feel like there's something unspoken going on between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - I'm looking for some advice on what's going on between my boyfriend and I at the moment. We have been together for 4 years and a couple of weeks ago we almost split up. We both ended up crying though and decided to start making more effort to make ...

Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first ...

When we are together its good when we aren't I think of how it won't work out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Ok so here is the deal. I am a bit confused and obviously seeking advice. I have been dating my boyfriend close to a year now. He Is a bit older (like 14 yrs older) I don't know if that makes a difference. He has also been married twice be...

Am I right to not want to see my mother or her girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - I visited my mother for Thanks Giving. She is 40 years old, still lives with her mother (my birth grandfather and step grandmother raised me). She lives the way she does, mainly because she has an addiction. She is dating a woman that is only 4.5 ...

He flirts and it irritates me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years often flirts with his immediate boss or co-workers, someone or other. Its not that he flirts with everyone, he picks a person for a time, flirts with them until he loses interest or they lose interest and then move on...

We're not married but he put me on his life insurance. Is this a big deal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Just a simple question... my fiancee of 6 years has put me on his life insurance but we are not married. He keeps saying that no other man will do that to me and that im lucky to have him, he keep saying i wont find another man like him. But he...

Boyfriend didn't spend Thanksgiving with me and I'm feeling like an option

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - I really need some advice about my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age and don't live together. We'd been having problems for several months but over the last few weeks things had really started turning around. Anyway, we got into a stupid fi...

My ex says he has no feelings for me but gets upset when I don't return his calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, so my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago and a lot of stuff had happened since then but recently he said it was best we didn't see each other for a while as we both need to move on etc. To cut a long story short, he has since ...

She ignores me which makes me do stupid things, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - please help,I have been seeing my girlfriend for only of months.we have wonderful weekends together,but when she is at her house,she likes to use Facebook.I don`t use it at all.so when i try to talk to her she either ignores me or takes a long time ...

Chat room Addiction. Please help! :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4002 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - dear cupid this is not about relationships. its about my chat addiction. i got into a chatroom several years back. now i seem not to be able to get off it. i have some friends and some people i hate there. i seem to be always focused on going to...

He likes me, he likes me not .... which one is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hey I’m just started my new just as bar maid in this pub where I live. Been there about a month now I half of the guys there have been hitting on me that work there but I’m not that interested in them then one day when I was working the Friday shift ...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...

Female co-worker causing trouble at work. Why don't someone confront her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Hi. I am frustrated. Lately we have been having trouble at work. We are a bunch of girls that work together so of course you would expect some bitchiness. However for two years the team has been running very smoothly until the very arrival ...

How do you deal with unrquited love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Hi just a general question. How do people get over someone they really like, fancy, even love and yet they know there is absolutely nothing they can do about it. Knowing it could end a friendship or even cause a right hullaballoo for people aroun...

She's irrationally annoyed -- what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - my fiancee is annoyed because i didnt make a decision in a rushed moment when she wanted me to. the thing is she didnt make it clear that she wanted me to she just asked what are the plans, and i assumed that she wanted to talk about it and decide ...

Problems with neighbour - how would you handle this?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

26 November 2013 (?) - Hello. I would like to know how you would handle this situation. I live above a young male who is intolerant of his neighbours making any sounds. Whenever we do make sounds, he bangs the walls. I get the most of it though, since I live right above...

Can you advice how can a person help himself to stop loving the wrong person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Unfortunately, I started to have feelings for the wrong person and I am very tormented. I'm a very realistic person and I don't like to see things that don't exist. At times, I would feel that he likes me by the way he looks at me and talk to me. At ...

Is there really ever a good time to break up with someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I've been dating someone for 3 months who has started to get clingy and needy. He's a very nice man and has many wonderful qualities but he is way more into this relationship then me. I'll give some examples of his needy behavior: He tex...

Do I fear women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I have a question, and maybe you can give me a bit of insight. I am a 21 year old straight male, and I am going to step out on a limb here and say that I am very attractive. The only reason I say that is because I don't think I am, but many lad...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4004 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

Relationship lacks intimcy, fiance wont let me get close.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - Hi ladies and Gents, My fiance is 22 and i'm 26 in a couple of weeks. my relationship lacks intimacy, I am feeling frustrated and rejected by her. we have sex once a week, if that. the times between sex are becomming further and further ap...

Am I right not trusting my partner after finding out his ex stayed when I wasn't there??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hi I'm seeking advice and I guess because I'm in a new country and feeling isolated, some strength and direction to help get my thoughts together and make some decisions would be really helpful. I've been in a relationship with my partner for over...

Pregnant and my boyfriend messages his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly two years has been texting his ex behind my back, I caught him at a glance by seeing her name on Facebook I said nothing but when he was sleeping I looked the messages are harmless when sober but some are when he was drunk and ...

Am I being taken for a mug? Should I be less intrusive? Am I too young to play the 'stepmother' figure? Can my feelings for this man actually get past all of these issues? Should I demand more from life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Hi, I recently (about six months ago) got with a new boyfriend who has a three year old child. I just want a bit of advise: He moved/ separated from his ex (mum of the child) about ten months ago and moved into his own place. 1. He still ha...

She treats her friends better than me. I'm tired of doing all the giving. Time to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - Hello Guy, I need some help. I'm a 24 year old young man who's about to finish up college in May. I'm at a point where I'm trying to make the decision to cut certain people out of my life because I don't need any unnecessary stress. This inc...

What do I do about this petty friend drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - I recently moved to a new town, and soon after I met a woman (Helen), who asked if I wanted to meet for coffee. That was yhree months ago. Two weeks later she introduced me to her landlady, Emma. I started going round to their house for a cup of ...

Ex doesn't want to take me to court, but still wants contact - after everything he's done!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi guys. Posted about this on here before. Brief reminder: My ex had our son one day a week, left him in wet clothes, we had a row, then he turned round and said he didn't want to see our son anymore. Afew months ago his latest girlfriend ...

Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said she has changed, or should I stay with my new girlfriend of five months who I have a steady relationship with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys, Anthony here, I am looking for some advice please as I ‘ve go myself into something of a dilemma! Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said...

Girlfriend says she wants to sow her wild oats

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I have been with the most wonderful girl for 3 years now. She is a good complement to me and I to her. We moved in together 2 years ago and we have talked of marriage and having a family. However, there is a problem and that is that our sex lif...

Will he always be lazy and mess up the house and not want me to be around his friends/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - My friend and have been fighting non stop for the past week! I am at the point where I can not stand him and that I am starting to hate him! We will be together a year next month. He moved in a few months ago and things was great. Until now he ...

Do you think is okay to sacrifice freedom in order to make your hurt partner happy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I have to admit I was not the perfect girlfriend. Although he has done things that have hurt me deeply, I know I have been worse to him. This Thursday I made a mistake and he left the relationship, I ...

I messed up and I'm too scared to text or call him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Well ok once again there was these two guys I was talking to at the same time one guys name is Kyle and the others name is phashaud well me and phashaud been talking on and off for a while now and I've started to love him very much, now Kyle on the ...

My husband won't live by the same standards he sets for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - My husband is a jealous person and I havent seen my cousin in 2 years as she drinks, has guys at her flat and is on facebook. These are not the kind of things that interest me but I did pop in and see her before I met my husband as she was always t...

He pushed me away but now he's behaving like the scorned lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hi So I posted a few weeks ago about breaking up with my boyfriend. He was acting distant, not making much effort then decided to ignore me when i tried to talk to him about it so i ended it. Unfortunately we have to work together and he is ...

Why is fiancee's mother so against us living together?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - Due to my circumstances to save money for a wedding. Her mother doesn't care if we make it or not. Is that fair? My fiancée is afraid to come out of her room to be around her mom. Because her mother caresses her face behind her back like a baby. My ...

I think my boyfriend is still using porn, and it's affecting our sex life. How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hello 2 Everyone! Two days ago I discovered my fiancee still uses porn. It was so disgusting and frustrating for me, still he lies. The problem is that is impossible for him to ejaculate when we have sex, even though is always horny. He says h...

My boyfriend is smothering me, while I support him! How can we get back the relationship we used to have?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my partner for little over a year. Prior to our relationship we were very close friends for 5 years. Due to us being friends for so long, we knew each other incredibly well. My partner had a big circle of friends and ...

How to stop worrying about losing my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I've dated many guys before him but he's the first guy I actually want a future with and sometimes I fantasize about marrying him someday (but I'll never tell him that, that would probably freak him out ...

I've never experienced intimacy with a person and don't know how to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

22 November 2013 (M) - Hello My problem is I’ve been rejected by girls sooooo many times in my life that I’m no longer able to be attracted to them. I literally don’t like people anymore and I don’t know what to do. And if someone shows interest in me I shun them or give ...

I don't want to seem too needy or clingy... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the past 7 months. We have had our ups and downs but things are good now. He says he loves me and I love him. I am somewhat insecure about the relationship and we have both had some trust issues because of past ...

Trying to save my marriage. Husband calls me names for having had sexual partners before we met. Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have been together for 14. We have 4 children together. Recently, he has told me that he wants to leave me because I had sex with multiple people (a total of 6, including 2 one night stands) ...