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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I being completely stupid and should get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for one and a half years and at first it was perfect we were so happy, but then he started to change, he gets angry easily and yells alot. He has hit me twice, but that was a long time ago so i just seem to ...

I cant trust my bestfriend anymore, should I end our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My bestfriend and I have been friends for about 7 years now.. I love her very much and I know that she loves me, but for the past year its been seeming like everything has become a competition with her. It drives me crazy because I feel like I can't ...

What can I do to get over a threesome that went wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I've been having a real issue trying to get over a threesome gone wrong with my girlfriend that happened almost a year ago. We've been together now for 4 years and about a year ago we were talking about maybe just having some fun and having a ...

We are in a LDR relationship but never met, how do we talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 15 months now. We are in different countries and have never met yet. Lately, I've noticed that things arent what they used to be. Earlier we couldnt stop talking, now its like sometimes we run out of ...

Could he be realising and reciprocating my feelings? or is he just enjoying the attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so in love with a guy I have known as hi friends for 4 years.We have been flirting more and more and well, now we even joke about him being my long awaited guy. But he tells me for him, sex is an important part of the relation...

Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for ...

I've been waiting for her to leave her husband for me for 15 years! Should I confront her or should I let this go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I'm still in love with my childhood sweetheart and she said she is still in love with me and we have a child togeather but she is married to another man. I've been waiting for her to leave her husband to be with me for 15 years. What should I do. ...

Does my boyfriend secretly want me pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hello Dearcupid, I think my boyfriend secretly wants me to get pregnant. He keeps asking me when my cycle is, and brought up how I threw up one morning. I'm on the pill, so my breasts have gotten bigger and he asked me if I thought it was because ...

I ruined our anniversary because I was in a bad mood, how do I make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I have just ruined our dating anniversary by being in a mood all day, i tried to snap out of it but couldnt. I thought he was going to ask me to marry him but obviously he didnt, he doesnt realise thats why i was upset.He has always said he doesnt ...

My ex is torturing me because I had to break up with her! What can I do? Can I approach the police?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - hello all.. i really need some help. i am in terrible situation. i had my first girl friend (for 1 year) and we had to breakup for some reason and after that i really didnt want to get into a serious relationship. i met this lady in club who is...

Why are some new fathers so selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Reading yet another question on here where a husband gets his wife pregnant and then doesn't even help out out at all. Why does this happen? She went through giving birth to his kid and ruining her body for him. He Also helped create the kid, so ...

I'm 21 but I still have to ask my mom if I want to go anywhere! How do I get more freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I'm 21 but I have to ask my mom whenever I want to go somewhere. Whether it's going out with friends, to a school event, or even going to the library after class. Although they usually say OK, she will sometimes pester me about where I'm going. I ...

Love or Marriage? Which should I choose?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I need advice: should I stay with my current boyfriend who I am totally in love with but he's six years younger and from a different world -- or find someone i can tolerate that is more serious, settled and ready for marriage? I'm going to b...

How to make a girl leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I met this girl and we talked for the day. We exchanged numbers and we have started to text each other frequently, she also enjoys my company and when i call her, but she has a boyfriend. I am trying my best to think of the best way to go through ...

I know I need to step up and get my children back, but how do I go about repairing the relationship when I've been away for 5 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I'm 27 with 3 girls that have been without me for 5 years. I left home after a stressful 2 year custody battle searching for my own independance. Sadly pregnant I realized my it was best if I stayed away a while to keep from tearing the girls nerves ...

I know he is no good for me so we have broken up, but I need some support to stay strong and not falter on my course of action!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - im depressed. i am 42 years old and cant seem to maintain a relationship. i am my own worst critic, i just want to post this for support. i think im doing the right thing, but some reinforcement would be greatly appreciated. i met a man 8 months a...

My parents cant stand the thought of me having a boyfriend! They want me to marry a good Indian boy, but I'm old enough to decide what I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 24 years old. I've got a degree, job and unfortunately for Indian parents a boyfriend. I've tried my hardest to tell them I was in a relationship. I would tell them then the next time they saw me they would act like they had forgotte...

I stole money from my ex girlfriend and gambled it away. I regret my actions now, how can I win her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Hi I just want to know if I can get my ex back, we were together for 3 and a half years and broke up in november because I stole money from her the second time, we owned a house together 2 years ago and I stole money from the account and gambled it, ...

He asked me to get confident enough to initiate sex, but now when I do I get turned down! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months officially, but we met and started dating about a year ago and started dating exclusively and having sex 7 months ago. We took everything in our relationship really slow which was nice. The sex was ...

A little of every emotion minus happiness... insecure maybe? Not sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - So I (age:26) have a strong relationship of over a year and a half now. I recently found out that only a few weeks before my girlfriend and I made things official she had a drunk one night stand with a guy she met from her job. Listening to the ...

I talk too much for her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I am having a really hard time effectively communicating with my fiance. The chief complaint is that I am too long winded and I am constantly speaking about the negative things I see around me. We used to talk for hours(mostly me ) when we got toge...

I'm 23 and my parents control my life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hi,mine is going to be a pretty long story so please be patient and kind enouf to read it I am 23 years old,and in my final year of med school,throughout my life I have been controlled by my parents,not that they hit me or anything they give me ...

Can I change her bad ways by loving her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - Right so i have known this girl and i've dated her on and off. i feel an intense attraction towards her. She's a gorgeous lass but Problem is, she has a terrible family background and as a result has led quite a wayward life. She hasn't been abl...

He sent dirty texts to my bestfriend,should I give him another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months split up 2days ago. The other day which was my 3yr old sisters bday my friend (used to be best friends but kinds drifted apart because shes been seeing married men). Was calling me sayin she has somthing to tell...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

My Step mother puts me down all the time. It's upsetting me. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. Over the years I've asked lots of questions to the site and the responses have always been very helpful and genuinely caring. Recently my step mom who has always been ...

My insecure wife constantly accuses me of looking at other women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - My wife and I have a problem. We have been together 8 years, we are mid 30's early 40's (I am 6 years younger), unable to have children after having multiple miscarriages. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, ...

Does a lack of sex justify cheating in a committed relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Could the lack of sex in my relationship have caused my boyfriend to cheat? We were together for 2 years and we both live at home with our parents. We both come from very strict households which made it hard for us to have that "quality time" to...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

My preacher boyfriend preaches, not talks to me and I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my boyfriend is a minister and a preacher, when i try to talk to him, he starts preach at me and a i do not like it. I know I am very confuced about getting married...

Man I'm dating won't sign divorce papers and lives in a house attached to his wife. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 5 months now, he's been married 28 years but they decided over a year ago they were divorcing, they went to the mediator and settled it out of court. They have 4 kids together.. He has signed all assets over to her and ...

I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...

I really miss him. And I realise that he may be ill. How can I connect with him and be a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - There was a guy who I was close friends with, who cut off all contact with me and many others for undisclosed reasons. Personally I think he was suffering from depression - I can't be positive because he hasn't interacted with many people since the ...

How can I deal with this friend who likes attention and likes to brag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I met this girl in my class last semester. We r both business major. We clicked, and we started hanging out a lot and studying together. She and her best friend (who is also her roommate) are no longer friends, so i decided to introduce her to my ...

My husband was raped by his older brother when he was a kid, I think he needs therapy but I can't suggest it to him when I'm not supposed to know this

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I have a big problem which I don't know how to deal with and I would apreciate some advice on what to do. I am married to the most wonderful man in the world (well for me anyways). A couple of months ago I had lunch with one of our oldest frien...

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break ...

We're due to marry in November but I'm stressed about these issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I am supposed to be getting married in november. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 2years. We have had our differeces about many things but I am afraid that she will give up on me one day. The reasons are that I don't approve of the way ...

Boy swapping gone wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...

I found he did some "swinging" two years into our dating... and not from him. How should I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in an exclusive relationship going on two years. We both own our homes. He is divorced and my husband passed away. He never would give me much information on why they divorced and claimed he never cheated on her, they just gre...

Am I just being blinded by love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and I do genuinely love her but a couple months ago she got really drunk on a night out with her friends and ending up dancing and kissing another guy AND they exchanged numbers. Realising what she had ...

I am in a relationship with a momma's boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am dating a momma's boy?Help me understand please!? Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I are doing longdistance relationship,i really love him a lot,and i think he loves me too.a little bit of background,we first dated 5 years ago( i was 17 at that...

My boyfriend doesn't like it that my job is as an exotic dancer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I really cannot understand why guys get so Jealous ..But this has been a Really serious problem . My work as an Exotic Dancer pays very well , and is a Fun way to live life , Its all harmless fun . Yet my boyfriend is constantly trying to get me ...

Why a 180 from what she said she wanted a week ago? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Ive been with my girl friend for a few months. She asked me to move in with her and her children. This happened about a week ago. Everything was falling into place. i treat her like a queen and her children are treated the same way. I do everythi...

My girlfriend had violent ex and she slapped me last night. Is she into that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I have a wonderful girlfriend- we get along super well and even though we have disagrements, we never fight and have a great chemistry. A few years ago, she came out of a bad relationship where the guy she was with would insult her, call her 's...

Should I not make a big deal out of what is on his facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. i love him more than i've ever loved anybody, and he never hesitates to tell me that he loves me, too. there have been a lot of times when thing...

Is it normal to be this confused in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as I can. I used to serial date like the best of them, I would go out with a guy for about a week, we'd sleep together and then I'd never speak to them again. I just started seeing this guy who's in the army and lo and ...

I don't know if my b/f loves me as much as I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hi. My bf and I love each other. But I'm starting to doubt his love for me. The other day we were watching a movie and the guy saved his life by cutting off his hand and he still got married and had kids. I asked him if someday I lose a part of m...

How do I show my boss that I'm not going to go after him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I have done a stupid thing. I have worked at my place as a secretary for 2 months. My boss is a really nice and patient guy but very sucessful (a rare combo). Anyways in my previous employment my boss bullied me and took away my conf...

Did my ex want me to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I am a 16 year old female. My ex-girlfriend is going out with my ex-best friend at the moment. The thing is that I am in love with her and she knows it. Her girl friend does not want her talking to me but she does anyway because she says she ...