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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

The odd one out at work, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - hi, need advice on a workplace question, hoping for genuine answers please, appreciate it. I work in a hospital, I like my job, need it and am not going to leave Most of my colleagues are friends, to some degree, not all are "good" friends ...

Will the relationship ever work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend was together over a year he broke up with me monday cause the same girl that has been giving ur drama and touble since the day she found out we first met. he said he was tired of the drama and he was tried of me listening to the ...

I feel so used and don't understand what is going on

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - So to make a long story short. Met one night 7 months ago. Been talking and hanging out ever since. One day, he just stopped talking to me. For two weeks I tried to pretend I didn't care, but one night, my emotions got the best of me and I contacted ...

I think my crazy sister in law wants my husband!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I think my sister in law is trying to destroy my marriage because she is jealous of me and hates me because she wants her brother, my husband. She is constantly putting me down but playing it off as joke so if I say anything it will seem as if I'm ...

Why is he caring and then the next day almost rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Please help me understand what he's thinking! The guy I'm dating is super sweet, then sometimes I feel like I just don't matter. Last night he was amazing to be with and hang out, romantic, affectionate, you name it. I spent the night and he was ...

My boyfriends mother is too protective and manipulative!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hey, aunts and uncles. I'm stuck and unsure of whether to feel upset or if i should try to be more understanding and compassionate in the current situation I am in with my boyfriend and his mother. Any opinions and advice are well appreciated! ...

Is it normal to urinate in the bath and shower?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - How many people urinate in their bath or shower? My boyfriend says everyone does and expects me to trust him if we bathe together. What shall I do?...

My fiancee doesn't want sex with me any more and says I'm lose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my fiancée' for 2 years now and we have been having sex maybe around 3 times a week. But now he is saying he's bored of sex and he doesn't like it. he just wants me to give him Blowjobs. I don't know how he can be bored of sex as i ...

I've just broken up with my LDR......I'm in pieces and need to know how to cope and be strong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - i need some advice please. Ive just ended it with my ldr boyfriend, after being messed around with yet again and now as i sit in here in tears, my heart is broken and i feel sick, I just need to know how to be strong over the next few weeks. We had ...

I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...

How do I move on from here? I feel horrible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Lived with my boyfriend for 4 years. When we started dating, he was dating someone else and lied about it. Didn't come clean until she burst his bubble. I did something before him that I am ashamed of. I slept with a married man and denied it. ...

Can anyone advise on what we are doing wrong and how to get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi All, I am in dyer straits... I feel I have no where to turn to or have a shoulder to cry on... I have been with my husband since I am 17. We are together a total of 11 years and married for 3.5 years. He lost his mother to cancer at a young age ...

Spark is gone after 9 years with GF. Troubled relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Dear Aunts, I have a big problem. I have been with my girlfriend for 9 years. When I met her I was a virgin. She was not. She even told me back when we first started dating that she didn't care if we were an item or not, she just wanted to have s...

I feel like I am taking 2nd place to his smoking weed habit. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend used to be a heavy pot smoker (i'm talking daily) and and gave it up for about 7 months as he knows im not comfortable with it. However, about 3 months ago he relapsed but i only found out as I caught him lying. Since then he has said ...

I want a baby but my bf wants to first better financial situation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Im 16 and lost twins 4 months and i was 5 months pregnant, it was the hardest thing ive ever had to go throu but my boyfriend was really supportive. after just getting sorted about forgetting loosing my twins ive started to really want another baby ...

I love my GF but I think she is cheating. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Help needed with troubled relationship should I trust her, do I end it and is she cheating. To cut a long story short I have been with my girlfriend for around 2 years and love her very much we've been through alot together. At first it was gre...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

I find the thought of my girlfriend with another guy arousing, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Is something wrong with me? I don't know why but I find the thought of my girlfriend with other guys very arousing. I don't know why but I do. When she was going out with other guys it hurt like crazy, like I was having an emotional heart attack b...

Why does my girlfriend get jealous over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - What is wrong with my girlfriend? She gets way too jealous over absolutely nothing. If I'm with one of my girl friends(Friends who are girls) then she gets jealous when all they are is friends. She has a ton of guy friends but I don't get jealous ...

Why did he do a disappearing trick on me. How would you have handled this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I met a guy a month back in a business meeting and we exchanged numbers then added eaach other on blackberry. we hit it off instantly given the strong chemistry between us! He lives an hour drive away from me, so we were in touch on a...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

Numerous problems with girlfriend and I just don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, my first post here, and I need some advise. I've been dating this girl for some number of years now. We've had our good times and our bad times like any couple, but now I don't really feel like she is the one. We've had proplems before,...

Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend has never made you have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend (of 2 years) doesn't know how to and has never made you orgasm? At first it didn't bother me...but now I'm beginning to feel like he has given up on trying to please me and only wan...

My lover prefers oral all the time. How can I get him to be less fixated on oral and more on intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - How do I get my man to engage in intercourse at times; instead of oral sex all the time? Am I not doing something I should be doing?...

Should I sit here and wait for his call? Or should I just break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and most of our relationship has been long distance due to the fact that he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he is my first boyfriend. We had only been dating for six months when he went ...

I want to get married and have kids and my boyfriend is no where near ready for that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for several years. He is not working and he is a mama's boy even though we live together. He thinks im a liar even when i am telling the truth. It hurts and as a result i get mad and say a lot of awful things that i ...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

How do people cope with multiple family pressures and still cope? Where does one go to for helpd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - After rewriting this 5 times I've just decided to be blunt. I'm feeling really down. It's been gradually progressing for a while now, starting off when I lost my nan 4 years ago. I was really close to her and I was devastated but I've never been...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

I'm not model material and don't want my b/f to photograph me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a photographer, and he wants to photograph me for part of his portfolio. I insists I should do it but I'm so worried. The other girls he photographs are skinny models. I'm a uk size 8-10. I know I'm not fat but I will just not look ...

How do I get peace of mind about my friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I realize that this question might be dificult to asnwer but thanks if you can. I am really a caring person and don't ever want anyone to feel the way I feel, but sometimes I feel all alone in the world. A series of people who I really liked a...

I feel like my LDR is pulling away and doesn't want a baby anymore. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Im so confused about my ldr boyfriend. Weve been together for almost a year. It hasnt been a great time, certain trust issues and a few arguments. However, I fell in love with him hard. I bent over backwards to make it work. In September I fell ...

Am I being cold-hearted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - I have been married for over ten years and have 2 kids. For the last two years I have been unhappy in the marriage. When I started thinking about divorce, I went to my wife and would tell her things that were bothering me and that i would like to ...

It used to be sooo amazing until we moved in together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I have been dating my fiance for 4 1/2 years. We were that disgusting couple that every one who walked past us probably thought we should get a room. Ever since we moved in with eachother, our love life and sex life went down the drain complete...

I don't know if he secretly filmed us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I was young and stupid. I don't know if the guy has ever secretly captured our moments together on tape. I'm constantly worrying over this... How do I feel better about this?...

Can a guy get that upset because his woman didn't watch the sports with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Grab a cuppa cause this is long-winded and far too perculair for me to work out on my own :). We've been together a year and I've always been here for him. He'd just come back from golf and I said to him lets go into town. He said he didn't want t...

I love my B/f, but is it enough when you feel you're a burden to the person you love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - ok, ive been with my bf for 3 years. First off we are complete opposites. he works alot and is very social and outgoing whereas i work part time because of my health (doctors dont know what i have, i have headaches 24/7 for 14 years now) so after ...

He likes "alone time". It's a source of conflict. why do I miss him more than he misses me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - How should I react? Sometimes my bf likes to have his space...there are days when he just wants to be by himself...this hurts my feelings because I can spend 24 hours with him, no problems It is a source of conflict...he says I dont trust him and ...

He would cancel dates and I got mad at him. Does he still care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up three times and we got back together and for the last two times. We plan to see each other, then when the day comes he will call and make up something, that he cant come over. Then the last time he did this i got mad said...

For years this has being going on, do I fight for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hello Agonies. I'm dealing with a rather tough situation here. My bf, whom i just broke up with, is such a pain in the butt. Okay, i tried sticking it out with him for a while now, throught the cheating, lies, disrespctful ways, etc. Recently, he ...

My girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends but when she's with me,its always the usual t-shirt and jeans

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Well, I've always noticed that my girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends(of course,this includes guy friends),but when she's with me,its always t-shirt and jeans,in fact she only wears the same 3 or 4 t-shirts over and ...

My "best friend" flirts with this guy I am completely head over heels for, behind my back!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - My "bestfriend" flirts with this guy i am completely head over heels for behind my back. Now he likes her he told her about a month ago and she barely told me today i feel she betrayed me just by not telling me something and am afraid other things ...

Much older ex says we can't be together but wants to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I'm confused about the guy I've been seeing for the past 5 months. I am twenty, and the guy I have been seeing is 43. I honestly fell in love with him. I can’t stand how much my family is against it, him and I have a lot of things in common. (I kn...

This girl won't leave my b/f alone. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now we have 4 month old daughter together. the problem is. this girl has been getting in the middle of our relationship the whole time we have been together. she wont leave him alone she has ...

My ex boyfriend is going to call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I broke up with my guy a month ago, we both are 31. He said he's not 100% sure about me and said he needs time to think about our relationship. He wanted to talk with me later, but I said no, because he always said I'm the one who spend his li...

My fiance is very unhappy with our engagement pictures!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - hi i recently got engaged with my gf. great. Problem is my girlfriend feels she wasnt looking good on engagement party and thinks she was hideous. Although I believe that she was looking pretty and beautiful. This reaction of her further enforces...

Do you think he could have cheated on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

28 November 2011 (?) - hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a ...

I don't want my children going where I can't get them back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I could do with some advice. My ex husband and I have been seperated for almost 4 years. We have 2 beautiful children together and things are now much friendlier than they were when we first split. My husbands long term girlfriend ( ...

Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...