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26-29,
*eart245
writes:My "bestfriend" flirts with this guy i am completely head over heels for behind my back. Now he likes her he told her about a month ago and she barely told me today i feel she betrayed me just by not telling me something and am afraid other things go on too. Worst of all she has known how long i have liked him (about three years now) but she says that she doesnt flirt on purpose and promises to stop texting him a promise she has made and broken various times already. Is my friend trying to hurt me because she has a boyfriend and doesnt act like that with other guys. :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): She is not a Friend. She only cares about herself. For some reason, she has it in for you. I'm thinking she is either a socio path, or narcissist.A sociopath derives joy/pleasure from hurting others and do NOT feel remorse or bad for anything they do.http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.htmlI say find another guy that is not so easily mislead by her attentions. I even bet she will start paying attention to someone else you like or are attracted to.My 17 year old had a 'friend' like her and she kicked her out of her life because you can't trust sociopaths. They lie and like to torment others. They feel they can get away with murder, rules don't apply to them, and they actually enjoy hurting others as it gives them a 'thrill'.I met this 'friend' and saw right through it all. This girl has since then, played the same game with other girls. Befriending them, gaining their trust, then steals the guy away from them. Serial sociopath for sure.I'm thinking this 'friend' of yours is exactly just that.
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reader, JustAGuyInTheWorld +, writes (29 November 2011):
All guys talk to other people, and statisticly 50% of those people are females, dont get mad im just being honest. What you need to do is ask him about it you can tell allot from his response, just ask. If he likes her than he may tell you strait up or he may try to hide it and if hes not an honest person than maybe, just maybe you should rethink your reasons for being with him.
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