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Archived questions from: 16 November, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do emotionally abusive people really love you, but need professional help, or do they not love you ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - Do people who are emotionally abusive really love you, but need proffessional help, or do they not really love you ?. I need to get out of a relationship with my emotionally abusive boyfriend, but i'm finding it hard to let go. Can anyone help ?. ...

He never listened and now his family and friends have run out of way to say and how to support him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - Once upon a time a man and woman meet, man and woman became good friends. The man is married to his first love they have three children, but the man starts to fall in love with his friend, and vice versa, though for a while nither says it and they ...

Boyfriend will only sleep on the couch, not with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - please help my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now been staying together for the past 3 months, in the past month or so he has stopped sleeping in the bed with me and will only sleep on the couch. there has been a few times whe...

I feel like his psychologist, not his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts! Your help will be greatly appreciated :) I started dating a good friend of mine a few months ago - we met at college a year or so ago, and we really hit it off from the start. We have a lot in common, including - oddly enough - t...

What comes first, friends or girlfriend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...

My girlfriend is afraid to commit because of past relationship, what can I do to help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - my girlfriend says she needs space cause she is afraid of getting hurt and thinks she is destine to be alone i dont know what to do? i will give u a little back ground I am 33 she is 45 with 4 kids. her 1st husband was an alcholic abusive jealous ...

My ex said I was too perfect! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? anyone been through this before? I think I am a good girl, I don't cheat or lie to a guy. I don't sleep around. I think sex is better when your a relationship and in love. Am a nice girl, sweet and caring. But not ...

When single he masturbated 2-3 times a day, but now that he is with me sex is rare! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - My Boyfriend suffers from depression and he pretty much has for most of his life so he says. He is now seeing a dr. to help him out with this but my question is before we dated he told me he was an excessive mastubator so his sex drive always seems ...

No man wants to get married, they can't stay committed to one woman, and ogle my female friends! Thats what HE said!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - First off, this is a bit long so thanks to any for reading! Im not sure if I am overreacting or not. My boyfriend and I are approaching our 5 year anniversary and have lived together for over 4 and a half years. He swept me off my feet, convinc...

Boyfriend gets a girls number at the bar and lied before, deal breaker?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - So I have a major decision to make. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I just found out he's quite the liar. Back in January, he went out with his friends and told me they were going one place but I found out they went to a b...

Do you think this might be a sign that we'll get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, this is going to be kind of long, buuut hopefully there's somebody here who can help me. it's been three weeks since my boyfriend (we'll just call him craig) and i split. he's the one who broke up with me, and even though he's...

She said to me during sex "would you just finish" after only 10 minutes! I always thought lasting longer was better....

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - hi their. I have confidance issues when it comes to how long i last during sex. I always please my partner though oral and hands before sex as she doesnt orgasm through intercourse. Once she had cum we moved on to the sex. I was prolonging cumming ...

I hate my boyfriend's son and ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I really hate the fact my boyfriend has a 15year old son and i hate his ex even though i dont know her.I have very strong hate feelings towards them and i hate it when his son comes to stay.We have been living together for 2 years and i have my own ...

Trust issues with an otherwise perfect boyfriend... help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - Ok so i i've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year.. before we started dating i said i didn't want to get into a relationship because i've dated a porn addict in the past and been cheated on several times (not to sound like the victim here! ...

My wife loves a 65 year old man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - I'm 26, my wife's 26 also . we spend 3 years together Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she love some one a 65 -year-old man and that it was basically just she is crazy about him, and that 5h...

He only has one friend who clearly is in love with him, am I being selfish for wanting him to stop talking to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - Hi, my boyfriend is older than me and has no real friends, the only person in his life is his German friend/ex, I say ex because they've had sexual relations before we met, he told his wife a few years ago he was gay and she learnt to live with it, ...

I love two men and I am so confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with my partner for 7 yrs. It was a very rocky relationship. I loved him dearly from the start but he was extremely volatile and unpredictable and had lots of bitterness left from his past relationship. On the whole he ...

Relationship 90/10 on my side. And thats a generous 10 for her. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - This is my first post here on this site, I'd like to thank all the users who help out, as best they can, with the situations brought forth by others. So my situation; I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months. This is most certainly t...

Does she not want me to succeed? Any suggestions to get her back too, if you can?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - Hey guys I am 19 years old ,and I had been in a relationship for a little over a year until recently. She broke up with me a couple of days back cold heartedly. Info:she has been my friend since childhood. Her and my parents get along pretty wel...

How can we start over without taking a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I'm wondering how me and my girlfriend can start over (without breaking up or having to take a break). We started off good for a few months, and then so many negative things kept happening to our relationship. It might have been a year of just bad ...

My boyfriend is working over Christmas - again! I'm furious, help please!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys, please help, i am fuming! My bf does shift work and he has a responsible role. This year will be our first proper Xmas togther. Let me explain...last year he decided to work a night shift on Xmas day. This meant i got to see him for a round ...

My boyfriend is extremely lazy, has no ambitions in life and his personal hygiene is a big issue!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

16 November 2011 (?) - My boyfriend is extremely lazy and has no ambitions in life. He doesn't do his schoolwork, puts everything off till last minute, has no eagerness to do anything. When I come over his house, usually I would want to go somewhere but he will instead ...

He's continually embarrassed me and abandoned me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I have moved across the country, away from all of my family, for my boyfriend. We moved from Florida to Oregon so that he could have steady work to support us and our 3 children. When we arrived here after a week of being on the road with a 5 yr ...

Whats the deal with my ex? One moment she tries to talk and says she misses me, the next moment she disappears!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - Hi I'll keep it brief. Im so confused * 6 weeks ago ex dumps me after 6 months. Likes me but not falling in love!! * 2 weeks later she txts Hi, u ok? I reply briefly Im ok and then silence from her * Then 4 weeks of no contact * This ...