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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He makes me feel worthless I don't know why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys it me again.. Hope you all are doing fine. I need some advice on yet another dysfunctional relationship I have found myself in. After a string of physically abusive relationships I finally split up with the recent one who bit a chunk out of ...

GF won't let me walk her home.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - I've been dating a girl from work for almost six months now and we have been getting along very well in that time. We don't get to see each other as often as we would like as she also works as a live-in carer looking after a man who is 71 years ...

Should I find someone that knows he wants me without still considering it five years down the road?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Last night, I was talking to my boyfriend's roommate's girlfriend, and she told me that when him and I were on a break a couple months ago he shared with them that he didn't know if I was the one. (we've been together for almost 5 years). She went ...

I feel unwanted and under-appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years, we have 2 children, weren't planned, but we are happy. The problem is he never shows affection to me very much, he will tell me he loves me and wants to be with me forever and sees a future, but ...

His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...

Is this normal in a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs, we tend to get in huge arguments about 2 times a year, they get to the point one of us is walking out. They usually start over something silly and usually him being annoyed by it (something in the ...

I feel like a used rag!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - i really need some honest constructive advice. over two years ago i met a guy at work. i had come out of a dreadful relationship and my confidence was low. i work hard at work but am always given a hard time for it so this guy seemed to like me and ...

Am I releasing all my sexual tension onto my guy best friend? Am I cheating by doing things with him that I don't do with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Hi. I've got a boyfriend, and recently I asked about relationship advice about our almost non-existent physical relationship. We don't hold hands, and we've never kissed. I got back really good advice. The problem lies in the tips I got from the...

Should I wait? How can I know if he is a liar or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hello there. i met a 53 years old man at work and i started to go out for lunch break with him - the relationship got stronger and we started to go out for valentine and after one year i asked him to marry me. he started to divorce since 3 ...

Shall I just keep silent or shall I voice my insecurities about his Boy's Night Out ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My bf cheated on me 2 years ago, we argued it out and said we'd give it one last go. Since then it's been fine, and I am steadily starting to build up trust again. However, he mentioned going to another part of the Uk for a lads night out. He's h...

Is it possible for an addicted womanizer to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hi cupids, please i need your advice on what to do.i'm 25yrs and my man is 46yrs old.weve been together almost 4yrs. We even have a boy of 2yrs.this man is caring,kind and the quiet type.last two days,i met one of his relatives and this lady told me ...

Why would my boyfriend consistently and deliberately lie to me? What benefit does he derive from lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hi there ive been with this man for almost 2 years now he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever but the thing is he never opens up to me at all never once. i always open up to him. He denies things that are true like he will deny s...

Mother found out I'm gay. Now our bond hasn't been the same since. How do I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - This mostly applies to people who came out to their families....i need help trying to have a bond with my mother recently i brought my boyfriend over to my house told my parents he was just a friend who was going to sleepover.. well in the middle o...

My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...

Since the birth of our son he's changed. I want to work things out. How do I cope if he continues to want out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I been in relationship for five years an just had a baby now my boyfriend says his feelings for me have dropped and he don't want to be in the relationship no more and he cheated on me with 19 year old when I was 8 months pregnant I just found it o...

Eleven years together. I am seriously clucky for children. He wanted children. Now his mind is closed to the idea. what can I do?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I'm feeling extremely maternal at the moment and it's causing problems in my relationship. I'm 28, almost 29 and I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years. We've only been living together for just under a year. I know. Things have moved slow ...

Why did my girl friend not try harder to talk this through? She wants space. And different things. But could more discussion help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for a little more than a year and a half. We do everything together, We are both living at my parents house, we work together (because my family has been friends with the GM of a company, so it was a easy job)...

How can I learn to trust? Still paranoid about being cheated on/screwed over in future relationships. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My ex dumped me by text out of the blue. I only found out I was being cheated on after the breakup. Everybody knew but me. That was a year ago, but I'm still paranoid about having future relationships....

How could he change so quickly? He says I'm an awesome friend but he thinks thats all its going to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just broke up with me out of the blue. (yesterday he was talking to me about going to his dads for dinner and making christmas lists, and the next day i saw him he broke up with me) he says that he feels like nothing has changed betw...

Could we get back together after a short term relationship? Should I try to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I was dating a great guy for seven weeks, and we broke up about a week ago. We were exclusive very early on (he brought up the conversation). We live two hours away from each other which was difficult, but things were great. There was chem...

His ex cried that he didn't visit! Should I ask him to distance himself further or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My BF's best mate told him that when we came to visit him, my BF 's exgirlfriend cried and cried that he didn't go see her. Would you expect that of a 50 yr old woman who says she's just friends with your BF? What would you think was going on ther...

At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage? There is this old saying that love is not enough, how many of you believe this? For example, i have witnssed a couple risk their children's lives by driving dangerously beca...

I never played him. how can I get to be the girl I was (with self esteem) before I met him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - dear friends... i need some advice... i broke up with my bf 5 months ago and can't get over him. our relationship had it's problems and i decided it was time to end it. the thing is, i started to regret my decision... so, i asked him to get b...

I'm concerned about the DVDs he's watching as a means to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I've become a little bit concerned about my husband in the past few weeks [well, 3 actually]. He's spending a lot of time at the gym and online, and in his room are hundreds of magazines with pictures of shirtless men! Also included was a D...

Will we ever be passionate again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My relationship has been full of ups and downs. We have always been there for one another and we always have each other's back. We're best friends. But one day two years ago we broke up and I ended up seeing other people, but I didn't sleep with ...

Where are all the nice guys hiding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I live in Ireland and I can't find any nice guys! All the guys i meet just seem to use me. I feel as though I,ll never be loved for who I am or what I like doing. Like I,m a night person ( Not like clubbing but other stuff ) I,ve not met a guy who ...