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Archived questions from: 14 November, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to see things end this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over three months. Everything was perfectly fine until he got this new job about a month ago. Now he works eight hours a day for five or six days a week depending on what kind of work he's doing, ...

How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

14 November 2011 (M) - i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...

Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always ...

It's been a week since I last heard from my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I haven't heard from my boyfriend in a week. We've been in a long distance for almost two years. Every now and then, he'll just disappear until I confront him and he'll tell me something about how he's stressed out and can't handle being a bf right ...

How can I leave my husband without hurting my kids?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I have been married 27 years to my high school sweetheart and we've had our good and bad times in our relationship. I've tried to leave multiple times through the years for different reasons but have no family and always felt alone and that I couldn...

Do I have enough evidence to confront my boyfriend with my suspicions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I have a problem. I have been suspicious of my boyfriend for a while, and recently decided to do some digging. Before you say it, save it. I know it's wrong to invade his privacy, but I won't sit here wondering forever. Anyways... I logged into ...

Is he stringing me along? He's very commitment-phobic and we rarely see each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - hi I've been seeing my commitment phobic bf for almost 16 months, we get on really well, there's great chemistry and we both feel very comfortable with each other. The problem is that although we're both in our 40's, we rarely get the chance to go...

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

Was I wrong to exchange texts with a friend who fancies me or is my boyfriend just trying to control me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My BF and I have been going out 2 years. For the most part we have had a healthy relationship, with only a few bumps in the road. This first was when he went away for 2 weeks and came back and said he needed his space, but really he had been ...

Girlfriend is contacting her ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are going through a real rough patch at the minute, i found phone calls and texts to her ex on her phone bill, but she said he was pestering her and she was telling him to leave us alone, this phone call lasted about 38 minutes, ...

What did I do wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Last week I met a young man (english) who I admired as an entertainer realising he was a womaniser and free and single etc but amongst many others he e mailed me occasionally and last week met in town for lunch which I paid for as he doesnt earn ...

Next month I'm meeting my Boyfriend's family for Christmas. But he'd rather I didn't give them presents. How will it look if I arrive empty handed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I have a dilemma of etiquette on my hands! Next month, I'll be meeting my boyfriend's family for the first time; his parents, grandmother and three siblings. My boyfriend has a rather acerbic relationship with his siblings - an older brother and ...

Should I let this go or make an issue of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (M) - I recently had a text 'Your a nasty spiteful child :-@'. I don't know whether I should ignore it or make an issue out of it. Bit of background. I was involved with a woman at work earlier this year. It didn't work out and I'd like to think that we...

My fiance told me he had sex with some girl his friends knew a month before we met. Should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My fiance is away for a while visiting his grandma in his hometown, and we were talking on video chat from facebook, and we started talking about when the last time we had sex with other people before we met. Before, he told me when we were dating ...

My wife was sexually abused. No one else knows. Is it wrong to spill the beans?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

14 November 2011 (M) - As the subject says, my wife was sexually abused as a child. She was also raped as an adult - possibly more than once. She just confided this in me, although I have suspected as much for a long time now. As a result, she is an alcoholic. She...

He didn't get me anything for my birthday! Its the principle of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months and while of course it started off great we are going through some tough times.His family found out about me and dont exactly approve of me which is pretty big in my culture. and ever since ...

He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...

Should I tell my former teacher I'm in love with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm 21 years old and I graduated from high school three years ago. During my senior year, I fell in love with my math teacher. We always got along fine, but he never showed any preference towards me. After I graduated, we ran into each...

Troublesome ex causing problems in my relationship. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - So I just think I need to get out a few things and get feedback from objective people. I've had some issues with my ex coming around my apartment complex late, late at night and knocking on my window until I get up. He caught me once outside and...