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writes:Your Open Question:Why would my friend behave like this? am sick of her attitude.? I went away for 4days with my mum it was my cousins wedding..Anyway, it was one of my friends birthday but I couldn't wish her a happy birthday because the battery in my phone died. So I told one of my other friend to message her on facebook for me (I don't have facebook), but she said she couldn't find her.. She left facebook. and when I got home I saw all the texts from her.. She wanted me to come to her birthday dinner.. I rang her straight away she didn't answer, kept ringing but she didn't aswer. I texted her why I didn't come to her birthday.. I kept ringing her no answer. So tonight I decided to ring her on private to see if she was alright.. She anwered I asked her why she's not been aswering my calls, she said do I have to? I said wow okay then bye and I hung up.Am sick of her attitude, she's always falling out with me..she never listens to what I've gotta say.. Thanks..xx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 If this is normal discord for her, then why in the world are you bending over backwards to be her friend? You've tried to apologize and talk like adults, and she wants to stay mad. Okay, let her. You have tried and the ball is in her court now.
But, if she is a good friend and has been good to you over the years, I guess you could give it one more try. She does probably feel neglected and is taking your absence from her birthday celebrations much more personally than you intended it to be. She's hurt. Did you send her a card or anything? Bring her a cupcake in person and tell her happy belated birthday. If she still wants to be mad after that gesture, it's time to get a new friend I'm thinking!
Good luck!
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reader, latinoheat +, writes (10 May 2011):
I understanD where you are coming from. I dont know how good of friends yall are. Was there not another phone you could have called her from? I dont know the whole situation. Regardless if she is a real friend shell talk to you again. Give her time. Take her out or do something for her. She feels betrayed.
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