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anonymous
writes:Hi, i was dating a guy, but then i realize he just wanted me as a friend with benefits, so i wrote to him, that i felt that he just wanted me like that, and he was not intesrested in me. I know he was interested in dating many girls at the same time he was with me. We had sex just once, after that i realize it and told him. He blocked me from his face book account, then next day he told me he was interested in my friendship and that I can count on him as a friend. He told me he wanted to hang out.He unblocked me in facebook, but never asked me as a friend request again. I called him but he text me he was going to call me later. It had been 4 days since he told me he was going to call, but hasn't I text him if he was ok, but he did not reply me. We had a friend on common, i no longer see him in her friend list. I know he must be ok, because in my inbox i can see his profile active and that he changed his name, but has not blocked me. I am not going to ask him a friend request, because he hasn't done so for me. I dont know if he just ended also the friendship and is not longer interested and that he is ignoring me...?? What should i do? I miss him as a friend....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankss all for your reply, and yes that is the way i felt, and that is why i ended, i dont want a friend with benefit, he told me then that he cared about the friendship, but i dont think so either, he is just looking for his next girl or someone that accepts being a friend with benefits... I just will continue and dont think about him no more, even as a friend...
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reader, sneaky_nicky  +, writes (10 May 2011):
Forget about him... He never really cared, he only wanted to have sex with you and since he got what he wanted he's ready to explore more with other women and you as someone he can have whenever he wanted. Don't be fooled.
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (10 May 2011):
I don't think a guy like that is worth at all. He just wants to use you. You deserve better.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 May 2011):
Sorry, but thus guy is useless. You're only setting yourself up for more pain. You're better off blocking him and moving on. You really don't want to end up just being used whenever he feels like it.
Please don't waste time on someone who doesn't feel for you, or care for you. You can't rely on him at all.
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