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writes:Me and my boyfriend have split up. His ex kept getting involved and tried to split us up so many times and then started getting his babies mother involved and it got to be too much for him so he ended it. We are still in contact and he still says he loves me and cares for me, but we not working. This is killing me all I'm doing is crying. I wait round for him to text me or phone me. I cant get him out for my head and its killing me. please can anyone suggest something i can do to get over him because i cant stand feeling like this help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Actually I think you need to be the strong one here and fight for him and what you want - he says he loves you - the ex got too much. If you truly believe you can be happy with him, then show up at his place - wear something saucy! Take him out and have an amazing time. Then 'man' up and push right back at the ex by being very clear about your boundaries.
Tell your BF that he does not have to take her nonsense and tell her shame on her for using her own children to make her self feel better.
Better still get a ring on your finger and marry this man and that will keep her quiet.
Ask yourself why are you letting her ruin your life???
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reader, turtle escape  +, writes (9 May 2011):
I would suggest finding something to keep you busy. Dont give yourself to much time to think about the situation. Go out with the girls again and just have fun.
A rebound always helps to. And I have heard people go after a guy just as a rebound and that person ended up being the love of their life. Another guy showing interest in you would help tremendously.
I know how your feeling and its a terrible feeling. But you just have to do what you can to keep your mind occupied so that you wont think about him so much.
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reader, Love_hurtz +, writes (9 May 2011):
The best solution, even though it's a hard one, is to try to remember that even though what you had with him may have meant a little to both of you, he is in a complicated situation and, as things stand, you two can't be together right now. If you truly accept that, you'll gradually become more open to other guys and options and start to move past this situation. But if you keep holding onto him, it'll only make it harder for you to move on and prolong the pain of this break up even further. Both of you probably need space right now to figure things out and, while you can stay in touch, I do think your best option is to broaden your horizons by looking for other things to occupy yourself with. Best of luck.
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