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writes:after a while of not having sex with my fiance, we set a side a night to chill a little and then do the damn thing, if you know what i mean. he is not a regular drinker, but we'll sip together sometimes. this particular night i was in the bathroom freshening up and i came out and seen him chugging shots of straight alcohol down before our moment. would i be wrong to assume he has to be wasted to have sex with me? i bought it to his attention and we never did anything that night he acted all i messed up the mood and went to sleep. i feel like a charity case when it comes to sex and i dont feel like i should any man would be happy to have me and i felt really awkward seeing him do that that night...what do you think??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): Sorry, but your fiance is probably a budding alcoholic.
Ask him to honestly take this quiz.
http://www.lanarkleedsaa.org/pages/aboutaa/are_you_an_alcoholic.htm
Also, since you might have an issue, take the quiz as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo anonymous...no thats not part of anything..thats just my way of letting you know i'm attractive, nothing wrong with acknowledging that...thank you but NO thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): I wonder if being SO up yourself is part of the problem - "any man would be happy to have me"?
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reader, logarixe +, writes (10 May 2011):
 it's definitely a bad sign that your FIANCEE was DRINKING HEAVILY right before you're about to experience the MOST INTIMATE ASPECT of a relationship! this throws up so many red flags for me, it's insane.
he's your fiancee. he will eventually be your husband, and hopefully, he'll be a committed one. I have a really hard time imagining that a guy who drinks like that right before sex would be committed completely to you.
try being completely spontaneous with him. Jump him some random evening, and see what happens. Don't even give him the opportunity to drink.
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