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writes:Should i get back with my son's father? He cheated and betrayed me several times and I'd given him a lot of chances. I found a new man through online and he indeed helped me forget about my ex; however, this ex is down on his knees begging and promising he'll be a better partner and father to our child. His family wants us back as well since I have a very good relationship with them. I'm now feeling bad about my new man. He's giving me all the comfort i need and needed. He's a nice guy but he's sweet to everyone including his ex. help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your good words~ I appreciate them a lot. :)
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (9 May 2011):
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Please please dont go back to this man. You have a wonderful new relationship, and I fear this is the reason why your ex wants you back, because he does not want to see you happy. I know this ,as I was in a relationship like this for many years. You just look at your child to find the strength you need, ask yourself this! do you want your child to see you being used and abused like this? is this how you would like your child to grow up and be like? if you answered no to both questions then you have your answer. Tell him your happy to be in your childs life, but thats as far as it goes, you and your child are worth so much more than that. you deserve to be happy.
I hope this has helped.
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reader, Liaxoxo  +, writes (9 May 2011):
I realize your situation is really difficult because you have strong feelings for your baby's father and are in need of comfort. Although you may be contemplating taking him back, you have to first think of these things- you will experience trust issues with him as he has betrayed you in the past, you may eventually feel worse about yourself if he goes back on his words and reverts back to his old ways, you will also have to spend a lot of time and energy to mend a relationship that was broken up so hurtfully. I would say to have him in your life in the context of him being your son's father, but keep your options open relationship wise. You deserve someone who will be loyal and love you.
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