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writes:Hey!Today we fight, me and my boyfriend "It's a big One." He started yelling and swearing at me. I didn't say anything. I told him I wanted to go, and he told me if you go, you will never talk to me AGAIN, and I told him THAT'S WHAT I WANT. Then he threw his phone on floor and walked away .... so please tell me what should I do ? Should I talk to him again Or waiting for him to apologize to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 You told him "THAT'S WHAT I WANT" - To GO
So you got what you want, is that a problem?
Or were you just mad and freaking out?
As soon as we loose our cool we can't think straight and start saying anything and everything.
But don't worry too much about this because he's not.
He's only thinking one thing right now, "Holy crap I think I broke my phone!"
Give it time and if his phone is working and he calls within a week, talk if you wish, if he doesn't give it 2 weeks and than call him.
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female
reader, turtle escape  +, writes (9 May 2011):
Alot of times we say things out of anger. I dont know what this fight was about but things should never be left open ended. You should at least talk to him about what happened and try to see if you can work things out and if they cant be worked out then atleast you will have some closure. You dont want to be thinking "what if?" the rest of your life do you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): Men and women speak a different language in the same tongue. Here's an example for your consideration:
WOMEN'S ENGLISH:
Yes = No.
No = Yes.
Maybe = Hell no.
We need = I want.
I'm sorry = You'll be sorry.
We need to talk = I need to complain.
Sure, go ahead = I don't want you to.
Do what you want = You'll pay for this later.
I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you moron!
Are you listening to me?? = Too late, you're dead.
You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me.
Be romantic, turn out the lights = I have flabby thighs.
You're so .... manly = You need a shave and you sweat a lot.
Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive.
It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now.
I'll be ready in a minute = Kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV.
How much do you love me? = I did something today that you're really not going to like.
MEN'S ENGLISH:
I'm hungry = I'm hungry.
I'm sleepy = I'm sleepy.
I'm tired = I'm tired.
Nice dress = Nice cleavage!
I love you = Let's have sex now.
What's wrong? = I guess sex is out of the question.
May I have this dance? = I'd like to have sex with you.
Can I call you sometime? = I'd like to have sex with you.
Do you want to go to a movie? = I'd like to have sex with you.
Can I take you out to dinner? = I'll take you to a nice restaurant and then I'd like to have sex with you.
Will you marry me? = I want to make it illegal for you to have sex with other guys.
You look tense, let me give you a massage = I want to have sex with you within the next ten minutes.
Let's talk = I am trying to impress you by showing that I am a deep person and then I'd like to have sex with you.
I don't think those shoes go with that outfit = I'm gay
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