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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend keeps calling me and wanting to chill, when hes not with my ex gf (im bi) and it makes me feel for him more but i dont want to feel like this for him again! What should i do?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 If you don't want the relationship then politely tell him that you can't get together with him and eventually he will leave you alone. It does sound like he wants something more or just possibly attention.
I could see a friendship being a problem there depending on how you are with the girl ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): If you aren't bothered that he's involved with your ex, and if your ex isn't threatened by your presence then be his friend from a distance or cut contact with him altogether which is the wiser choice since you're vulnerable and he's more than likely looking to use you for sex. Why else would he fall back to you when his gf's not around? From gf to ex to mistress? No way.
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